Been talking to this girl I met online last week. We've talked all week and finally met for a date yesturday. Now things seem kinda distant between us, I'm trying to talk to her on the phone/facebook and text messages... I haven't done anything wrong that I know of and she says she'd like to see me again on a date. Am I missing something here?

she said take it sloooooooow

don't make her think you're a obsessive fatal attraction type

She seems playing hard to get or she is just not that into you...Could be she has something in her life she is dealing with as well

Good luck

Oh I remember, you are the guy who went on a date to the movies and she brought her friend with her?

Go slow, no hurry here. Sometimes expectations get high when there was a lot of contact prior to meeting.

maybe u shouldn't do so much.cool it a little bit.Now if i was u i would just let her get intouch with u.

Chill brother........

It's not the kill, it's the thrill of the chase(deep purple).

Its the shirt

You date a lot - atta kid, atta kiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiid

sometimes when you are so pleasantly surprised at a mutual attraction you get caught up in the head rush. instead of bombarding her wait a day or so then leave her a sweet and simple message that lets her feel beautiful and lets her know youre thinking of her. maybe drop a hint youd like to see her again soon and drop a couple options but make sure the msg leaves her getting back in touch with you to make the actual date. let her come to you but dont distance yourself so much that she forgets about you completely. it makes a person feel special when you take time out of your day to send them a hello or flirty gesture however dont overdo it...youll drive them away! good luck!

I'm pretty sure (or hope!!) he is not using the same shirt 24/7.

it could be that too...But I doubt it

Ya, what the bug eating girl just said. I couldn't have said it better. Good luck to ya!

Maybe she's just not that into you but isn't mature enough to tell you.

Unfortunately, too many people are not good with communicating because they aren’t confrontational. To me, it’s better to hear the truth right away and allow the other person to move on – including myself when a guy isn’t interested in me.

I would ask her straight up if she is interested or not. If you don’t hear from her then you will have your answer. Close that door and move on. There are too many people that will appreciate you; don't waste your time on energy vampires. They suck away your soul and leave you empty.

Good luck.

yes, very well put.....nicely said too, this is what i woud have done, bravo.

All day I thought about the taking it slow thing. At what point in the movie date did she say that? If it was said toward the end of the date I would think that maybe you're not her type or maybe she's into her girlfriend more. Ya never know. If you're hell-bent on this going further step back two steps and play a little hard to get. By the way, would she be reading all of this?

When guys do that to me, I assume they're over it.

Apparently she has a life on her own.. which is a GOOD thing.


Embrace it.

I would allmost bet my soul right now that she is deciding between you and another man...You cant really do anything about it but be yourself and dont be all jealous...My suggestion, do the same, it might help you get your mind off of her and make you less needy sounding again...If she wants you she'll eventually start being normal again to you but if not then this stage will continue more...Sorry brother