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Topic: Why won't she talk to me?
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Mon 08/31/09 08:22 AM

I would allmost bet my soul right now that she is deciding between you and another man...You cant really do anything about it but be yourself and dont be all jealous...My suggestion, do the same, it might help you get your mind off of her and make you less needy sounding again...If she wants you she'll eventually start being normal again to you but if not then this stage will continue more...Sorry brother




Maybe he should write a poem and harrass her, huh Myth?

ohwell

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Mon 08/31/09 03:34 PM
Again, over-thinking it. We are all exactly where we need to be and everything that is supposed to happen to us is.

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Mon 08/31/09 03:38 PM

Again, over-thinking it. We are all exactly where we need to be and everything that is supposed to happen to us is.


:thumbsup:





Stop. Look. and Listen.




Wait.


Relax.


Let go.

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Mon 08/31/09 03:39 PM
Perhaps she's read the 97 billion threads dissecting every aspect of one date to a movie????


huh

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Mon 08/31/09 03:40 PM

When guys do that to me, I assume they're over it.flowerforyou


Well, normally...that is a pretty solid conclusion. However, once in a great while, it happens to someone that feels the need to figure out the problem on a public dating site...

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Mon 08/31/09 03:43 PM
Edited by Unknow on Mon 08/31/09 03:43 PM
Anybody want some chips?


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Mon 08/31/09 03:44 PM

Anybody want some chips?





***passes a beer to Waterloo...***

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Mon 08/31/09 03:45 PM
Care for some man up juice? drinker

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Mon 08/31/09 03:46 PM

Been talking to this girl I met online last week. We've talked all week and finally met for a date yesturday. Now things seem kinda distant between us, I'm trying to talk to her on the phone/facebook and text messages... I haven't done anything wrong that I know of and she says she'd like to see me again on a date. Am I missing something here?
rub some dirt on it

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Mon 08/31/09 04:43 PM
I assume you've already left her messages and she knows you're trying to get in contact with her. If that's the case, just wait for her to contact you. If she doesn't, then move on to someone who won't play games.

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Mon 08/31/09 04:47 PM


When guys do that to me, I assume they're over it.flowerforyou


Well, normally...that is a pretty solid conclusion. However, once in a great while, it happens to someone that feels the need to figure out the problem on a public dating site...


laugh drinker

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Mon 09/14/09 01:23 PM

Maybe she's just not that into you but isn't mature enough to tell you. sad2

Unfortunately, too many people are not good with communicating because they aren’t confrontational. To me, it’s better to hear the truth right away and allow the other person to move on – including myself when a guy isn’t interested in me.

I would ask her straight up if she is interested or not. If you don’t hear from her then you will have your answer. Close that door and move on. There are too many people that will appreciate you; don't waste your time on energy vampires. They suck away your soul and leave you empty.

Good luck. flowerforyou

drinker

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Mon 09/14/09 01:25 PM

I would allmost bet my soul right now that she is deciding between you and another man...You cant really do anything about it but be yourself and dont be all jealous...My suggestion, do the same, it might help you get your mind off of her and make you less needy sounding again...If she wants you she'll eventually start being normal again to you but if not then this stage will continue more...Sorry brother
whoa laugh typical mythman. but i do always appreciate your advice and outlooks on life myself. *shrug*

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Mon 09/14/09 01:31 PM


I would allmost bet my soul right now that she is deciding between you and another man...You cant really do anything about it but be yourself and dont be all jealous...My suggestion, do the same, it might help you get your mind off of her and make you less needy sounding again...If she wants you she'll eventually start being normal again to you but if not then this stage will continue more...Sorry brother




Maybe he should write a poem and harrass her, huh Myth?

ohwell
sad2 not very kind. im surprised!! of course that seems to be happening a lot lately.:cry:
different people have different ways with dealing with their emotions. furthermore we were all watching that tango...and the dance wasnt over that point if the woman never left the dance floor. just a thought bub.

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