shes very cute and i like her

we only talked to eachother 2 times for about 10 min each and in that short period of time i found out that shes going to school at the university near my house, she was hired resently at this place about a block from were i work and she starts monday. i feal a little stupid though cuz i dont even know her name

anyway the reason for this post is to find out when i should go up to her and ask her out, im always realy bad with the timeing i ether wait to long or not long enuff.

my plan was to check out that restrant she was hired at its a new place and its opening day is monday so it woudnt be to weird if i show up

well id get her name first then ask her out or get her name wait a few days and talk to her a lil more then ask her out

go ahead boy and ask her out .

Don't ask her out when she is at work though.

i was going to slip her my # with my tip

How can you speak to someone without an introduction first?

When you say 'talk' to them, I assume you mean the phone or in person -- or do you mean you have communicated via email (that is not talking to them; that is writing them)?

Still, how did either of you let a basic introduction pass by you?

I would tell her you feel like a chump for not introducing yourself and ask her if you guys can back up a couple of steps. Introduce yourself, and ask her name; be a gentleman.

I met this girl we hit it off lived happily every after. The end.

1. dont check out her work,it's stalkeresque
2. dont be slick or clever,it often backfires
3. just be muscular and bashful,it always works

Solid approach.

Thats your in to approach her again.

I wouldn't do it at her work, I don't know, thats weird.

Since you have talked to her 2 other times, wherever that was, just do that same thing.

This time, Tell her how sorry you were and how ridiciolous you feel- tell her its been really bugging you that you do not know her name - and then go from there.

TELLING her it's been bothering you that you do not know her name will tell her automatically that you have thought about her and she made a clear impact.

well i met her at work and i work at walmart and it was busy

but dont wurry, ill introduce myself soon.... its walmart, everyone is allways thare

im still going to the restaurant tho, i wana try the food at that new place.

Dude, seriously.

If you wanna check out the new place in town, go ahead.

Just don't do it when she's working.

That's kinda creepy and a little bit pushy.

Not to mention, she may not consider herself to be " at her best " while she's working and may not like you showing up like that.

i know i know , thats what the last person was saying

btw she did ask if i was going to the opening and i live in a tiny city of 8000 pl so half the city is going that day as well so it wont be that creepy if i happen to see her, ill just talk that time to tell her my name.

I think I would let her know you are going to be trying out the new eatery. I would also let her know, that you are aware she is going to be really busy that night so don't sweat it. You won't be bothering her. I would also ask her out for maybe her next night off.

Now I have to ask are you going to the new place to check her out or for the food.

food, i heard it was going to be good

Then go for it. I still suggest asking her out. Hopefully soon.

you should have your father speak to her father and work out a chaperoned introduction and then after a few weeks of sitting on the porch together you can take a (escorted) walk and hold hands

well thanks for the help i hope things go well

my dad left me when i was 3 so that wont work