Topic: Do all women CHEAT?
Jess642's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:16 PM

It is true that some men do cheat. But I think women are more likely to cheat. I have never. But my girlfriends always said I was. Then found out that She was for over a year. So if a girl says your cheating, dos that mean she is?


It means she is insecure...has probably poor self esteem issues...
or is intuitive and can feel your emotional distance.


Men cheat for ego prowess...

women cheat for emotional fulfillment.

Jess642's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:17 PM


What if your partner came to you....openly and honestly, and said they found themselves deeply attracted to another....and wanted to have sex with that person?

Is it the dishonesty? Is it the feeling like a fool, and the last to know, that hurts? is it the secrecy, the going behind another's back?

is it breach of trust?

Who OWNS another person, really?


the feeling of inadequacy is one answer
as far as ownership,i lease


I sublet...:wink: :laughing:

Jill298's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:17 PM

It is true that some men do cheat. But I think women are more likely to cheat. I have never. But my girlfriends always said I was. Then found out that She was for over a year. So if a girl says your cheating, dos that mean she is?
Usually it's the ones with a guilty conscience and accusing others of cheating... that are actually doing the cheating.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:17 PM
Yes, all women cheat...we should cook them and have them for dinner...

Jess642's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:18 PM

Yes, all women cheat...we should cook them and have them for dinner...


Even then we would be wishing it was someone else eating us........


rofl

AndyBgood's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:18 PM
I cheated on tests in High School.

I cheated at a couple of games.

I have yet to cheat on a GF. Never have so far. Have been tempted.

I have had GFs cheat on me as well. That is why I did their sisters and best friends behind their backs! When they found out I always tell them, 'so how do you think I feel!'

If she doesn't cheat then I don't but then again if she already cheated then what I did was not cheating no matter how anyone want's to justify it. Two wrongs do not make a right. Three lefts on the other hand do! then again if a wrong has been committed then commitment is over as well.

My favorite was one ex GF that told me to my face she was dating other men while dating me for four months so not only did I let her catch me with some old friends of mine but one of them actually dragged the girl to the street and kicked her *** publicly for talking $hit about me being with three girls I knew before her and was at it with one of them when I got caught. I am the last person in this world people should want to play a double standard on.

I don't get mad...

Then again..

It is fun having women fight over me!:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

Jill298's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:18 PM


Yes, all women cheat...we should cook them and have them for dinner...


Even then we would be wishing it was someone else eating us........


rofl
cat stew

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:19 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Tue 08/25/09 05:19 PM


For guys in order not to be cheated on you gonna need 2 things.

1. Lot's of money
2. Good sex skills.


You got both of those, you are all set. Missing either or both, well good luck.

For women to have the guys not to cheat on them.

1. Don't let them close to other hot women. Basically poke his eyes out and shut him in a dungeon.


For men to keep their women INTERESTED in only them....

1. Be emotionally responsive.
2. Be sexually confident and bold.
3. Have a job.
4. Be PRESENT...engaged, and truly INTO your woman.


Yes.


FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:19 PM


Yes, all women cheat...we should cook them and have them for dinner...


Even then we would be wishing it was someone else eating us........


rofl


Well, really...at that point I think I could care less, sorry, that wish will not be granted.smokin

no photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:19 PM
I've never cheated and never willdrinker i've been cheated on oncetears But 2 your question, i would say not all Women or men cheat:thumbsup:

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:20 PM


It is true that some men do cheat. But I think women are more likely to cheat. I have never. But my girlfriends always said I was. Then found out that She was for over a year. So if a girl says your cheating, dos that mean she is?


It means she is insecure...has probably poor self esteem issues...
or is intuitive and can feel your emotional distance.


Men cheat for ego prowess...

women cheat for emotional fulfillment.


It sometimes works the other way around too ya know.

Jess642's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:21 PM



It is true that some men do cheat. But I think women are more likely to cheat. I have never. But my girlfriends always said I was. Then found out that She was for over a year. So if a girl says your cheating, dos that mean she is?


It means she is insecure...has probably poor self esteem issues...
or is intuitive and can feel your emotional distance.


Men cheat for ego prowess...

women cheat for emotional fulfillment.


It sometimes works the other way around too ya know.


Absolutely agree whole heartedly!

However, in the style of this thread of generalities...I just kept to the same flavour..

no photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:21 PM
I don't cheat. I look, I watch, I fantasize, but I don't cheat.

Cambolaya65's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:21 PM
44 years cheat free!!!I did pet a kitten at the pet shop,dont tell my cats.tongue2

darkowl1's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:22 PM
far more men cheat than women...fact, period......we don't even need statistics here. if you ask any girl on this or any other site, most of the men that hit on them are married.....so much so, it is a common complaint here, and everyone on other sites including facebook and myspace.....
according to lenient statistics, 75% of men cheat, but it's more like 90% i'm sure. bad shakes for women i think.....i wonder why they aren't all lesbian by now......some women cheat, merely because the man started it, and it's a t!t for tat thing then......i'm sorry women, but being security at one time along time ago for escorts, i will have to agree that ALMOST all men are complete scum. 10% are the exception.

when you cheat...YOU'RE REALLY LYING TO YOURSELF MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE....lying to your own soul something eternity can never correct................

Jess642's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:25 PM

far more men cheat than women...fact, period......we don't even need statistics here. if you ask any girl on this or any other site, most of the men that hit on them are married.....so much so, it is a common complaint here, and everyone on other sites including facebook and myspace.....
according to lenient statistics, 75% of men cheat, but it's more like 90% i'm sure. bad shakes for women i think.....i wonder why they aren't all lesbian by now......some women cheat, merely because the man started it, and it's a t!t for tat thing then......i'm sorry women, but being security at one time along time ago for escorts, i will have to agree that ALMOST all men are complete scum. 10% are the exception.

when you cheat...YOU'RE REALLY LYING TO YOURSELF MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE....lying to your own soul something eternity can never correct................


I had a very similar conversation last night, with his lordship....from a social anthropology view...not much has changed ....from behaviours in ancient times to now....the stats for children of a union....showed about a 1 in 4 progeny would not be the father's child... and now the stats are hardly any different....1 in 5 of progeny are not the father's...


We as a species, are NOT monogomous....societally it is expected.


Big difference.

earthytaurus76's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:25 PM
o jeez, another brilliant one.

Heyyy.. you readd thisss didnt youuuu??? Huh?? huh???





Ive never cheated. What chu tryin to say?

Jill298's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:26 PM

I don't cheat. I look, I watch, I fantasize, but I don't cheat.
I don't even do that. No offense but when I was with my ex... I never even thought about another man. Sure, if I saw another guy that was cute I might think to myself... oh yea, he's hot. But that's it. I never even fantasized about another guy. He really was the only one I wanted. Period. Turns out, I wasn't the only one he wanted tho.

Jess642's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:27 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Tue 08/25/09 05:43 PM

o jeez, another brilliant one.

Heyyy.. you readd thisss didnt youuuu??? Huh?? huh???





Ive never cheated. What chu tryin to say?



You know my favourite quote of his?


To truly achieve that which you desire..."FIRST arouse in the other an eager want."


Good stuff Earthy! :thumbsup:

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:28 PM


I don't cheat. I look, I watch, I fantasize, but I don't cheat.
I don't even do that. No offense but when I was with my ex... I never even thought about another man. Sure, if I saw another guy that was cute I might think to myself... oh yea, he's hot. But that's it. I never even fantasized about another guy. He really was the only one I wanted. Period. Turns out, I wasn't the only one he wanted tho.


Want me to eat him?