Topic: Do all women CHEAT?
Jill298's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:29 PM


far more men cheat than women...fact, period......we don't even need statistics here. if you ask any girl on this or any other site, most of the men that hit on them are married.....so much so, it is a common complaint here, and everyone on other sites including facebook and myspace.....
according to lenient statistics, 75% of men cheat, but it's more like 90% i'm sure. bad shakes for women i think.....i wonder why they aren't all lesbian by now......some women cheat, merely because the man started it, and it's a t!t for tat thing then......i'm sorry women, but being security at one time along time ago for escorts, i will have to agree that ALMOST all men are complete scum. 10% are the exception.

when you cheat...YOU'RE REALLY LYING TO YOURSELF MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE....lying to your own soul something eternity can never correct................


I had a very similar conversation last night, with his lordship....from a social anthropology view...not much has changed ....from behaviours in ancient times to now....the stats for children of a union....showed about a 1 in 4 progeny would not be the father's child... and now the stats are hardly any different....1 in 5 of progeny are not the father's...


We as a species, are NOT monogomous....societally it is expected.


Big difference.
Sorry, that's a bunch of crap. If it was only expected socially and as a species we're just not monogamous... it wouldn't hurt you down to your very soul to be cheated on.

Jill298's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:29 PM



I don't cheat. I look, I watch, I fantasize, but I don't cheat.
I don't even do that. No offense but when I was with my ex... I never even thought about another man. Sure, if I saw another guy that was cute I might think to myself... oh yea, he's hot. But that's it. I never even fantasized about another guy. He really was the only one I wanted. Period. Turns out, I wasn't the only one he wanted tho.


Want me to eat him?
yes please

no photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:30 PM



I don't cheat. I look, I watch, I fantasize, but I don't cheat.
I don't even do that. No offense but when I was with my ex... I never even thought about another man. Sure, if I saw another guy that was cute I might think to myself... oh yea, he's hot. But that's it. I never even fantasized about another guy. He really was the only one I wanted. Period. Turns out, I wasn't the only one he wanted tho.


Want me to eat him?



lol

earthytaurus76's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:30 PM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Tue 08/25/09 05:31 PM
Went through this thing as a kid with my dad when his company paid for tons of courses for him. LOL.. he doesnt apply it though.

The Dale Carnegie.

Jess642's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:31 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Tue 08/25/09 05:31 PM



I had a very similar conversation last night, with his lordship....from a social anthropology view...not much has changed ....from behaviours in ancient times to now....the stats for children of a union....showed about a 1 in 4 progeny would not be the father's child... and now the stats are hardly any different....1 in 5 of progeny are not the father's...


We as a species, are NOT monogomous....societally it is expected.


Big difference.
Sorry, that's a bunch of crap. If it was only expected socially and as a species we're just not monogamous... it wouldn't hurt you down to your very soul to be cheated on.


Please, no apologies necessary...

You are viewing this subject from an EMOTIONAL place...I am not...

And your values are exactly right....



...for you.flowerforyou

earthytaurus76's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:32 PM
Creating a desire is the only way to sell anything, including yourself.

no photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:33 PM


Do all women cheat? At what point do you start blaming yourself rather then the girls you was with? What do you do to make sure it dont happen? Is there any way to forgive and forget?


"Do all women cheat?" Are you serious? Do all men cheat?


exactly

no photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:33 PM
I have never cheated. While I was married my husband and I NEVER cheated on eachother.
I have been cheated on by bfs and dumped their sorry butts the minute I found out.
Cheating can lead to death! I have no desire to die because the man I chose to share my bed with cant keep it in his pants!

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:33 PM
No, not all women cheat. I have been cheated on and would never do that to someone else.

Jess642's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:34 PM

Creating a desire is the only way to sell anything, including yourself.


Yes....bigsmile and get, what ultimately you require.:wink:

Jill298's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:34 PM




I had a very similar conversation last night, with his lordship....from a social anthropology view...not much has changed ....from behaviours in ancient times to now....the stats for children of a union....showed about a 1 in 4 progeny would not be the father's child... and now the stats are hardly any different....1 in 5 of progeny are not the father's...


We as a species, are NOT monogomous....societally it is expected.


Big difference.
Sorry, that's a bunch of crap. If it was only expected socially and as a species we're just not monogamous... it wouldn't hurt you down to your very soul to be cheated on.


Please, no apologies necessary...

You are viewing this subject from an EMOTIONAL place...I am not...

And your values are exactly right....



...for you.flowerforyou
What I'm saying is there is a huge difference between what we consider socially acceptable and what is just part of our actual make up, instincs, as a species.

anthsm22's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:35 PM



For guys in order not to be cheated on you gonna need 2 things.

1. Lot's of money
2. Good sex skills.


You got both of those, you are all set. Missing either or both, well good luck.

For women to have the guys not to cheat on them.

1. Don't let them close to other hot women. Basically poke his eyes out and shut him in a dungeon.


For men to keep their women INTERESTED in only them....

1. Be emotionally responsive.
2. Be sexually confident and bold.
3. Have a job.
4. Be PRESENT...engaged, and truly INTO your woman.


Yes.



OMG......That has got to be one of the funniest things I have ever read/seen......That cracks me up!!! LMAO

Big_Mike123's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:36 PM
Ok. What I am seeing on here is that most of the women are saying that they would never cheat. Im not saying you would lie. So what make you different then all the women I have ever met? I dont know one women that hasnt cheated.

Jill298's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:38 PM

Ok. What I am seeing on here is that most of the women are saying that they would never cheat. Im not saying you would lie. So what make you different then all the women I have ever met? I dont know one women that hasnt cheated.
Maybe it's who you're attracting to you. If you take ALL of the women that you know... and the only thing in common with them is you... well there you go. Not saying it's your fault by any means. Just saying maybe you're going about something wrong. Maybe you keep going towards the same type of women that cheat.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:38 PM

Ok. What I am seeing on here is that most of the women are saying that they would never cheat. Im not saying you would lie. So what make you different then all the women I have ever met? I dont know one women that hasnt cheated.



That's a good question. In my case, I would never want someone else to feel the pain that I felt after being cheated on.

Jess642's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:39 PM

Ok. What I am seeing on here is that most of the women are saying that they would never cheat. Im not saying you would lie. So what make you different then all the women I have ever met? I dont know one women that hasnt cheated.


Sexually and emotionally, I have never had to act on what I have fantasised about.

My needs were met.

And even when the urge was overwhelmingly strong, I counselled with my partner....we don't have secrets....what affects one, affects the other.

Jess642's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:40 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Tue 08/25/09 05:40 PM





I had a very similar conversation last night, with his lordship....from a social anthropology view...not much has changed ....from behaviours in ancient times to now....the stats for children of a union....showed about a 1 in 4 progeny would not be the father's child... and now the stats are hardly any different....1 in 5 of progeny are not the father's...


We as a species, are NOT monogomous....societally it is expected.


Big difference.
Sorry, that's a bunch of crap. If it was only expected socially and as a species we're just not monogamous... it wouldn't hurt you down to your very soul to be cheated on.


Please, no apologies necessary...

You are viewing this subject from an EMOTIONAL place...I am not...

And your values are exactly right....



...for you.flowerforyou
What I'm saying is there is a huge difference between what we consider socially acceptable and what is just part of our actual make up, instincs, as a species.



Ahhh Jill....societally it IS expected to be monogomous...perhaps I was not very clear, apologies..

Jill298's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:44 PM
Just because society expects something doesn't make it right. My point is that if it truly wasn't part of our make up, who we really are, then it wouldn't hurt so bad when it's done to us.
It's like how we raise our children. We don't raise our children because it's what society expects. We raise them because it's in our nature to do so. However, there's bad seeds there too. Not everyone is a good or even decent parent. Not everyone can or will be faithful.

no photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:45 PM

Ok. What I am seeing on here is that most of the women are saying that they would never cheat. Im not saying you would lie. So what make you different then all the women I have ever met? I dont know one women that hasnt cheated.


I would say it has something to do with you. I am the same way with men. I always seem to attract and date men who need someone to run their lives. And all I crave is a man to stand up and be a man. So its me...that is why I am single now, trying to be strong and not fall into that trap. I hope this make sense.

earthytaurus76's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:49 PM


Creating a desire is the only way to sell anything, including yourself.


Yes....bigsmile and get, what ultimately you require.:wink:


if thats your desired effect.