Topic: I need someone to talk to for real....
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Sat 08/22/09 04:55 AM

So...

You mean....

Some of you women...actually comprehend normal thought


And I can say something like...."Hi I like grapes"

And you will be okay with that?

And not wonder why I said it?

Nope I do not believe it!


I imagine if you said you liked grapes I would respond with "yes, I like grapes too, usually the green seedless variety". And then we would embark on a whole conversation about the pros and cons of grapes. It might even lead to a conversation about grapples (which smell fabulous btw).

No, I would not say "ohhhhhh, you like grapes eh? Are you trying to tell me my breasts need to be more grape sized"

grumble

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Sat 08/22/09 04:55 AM



well wanna talk in private?....


Like what the hell is that!?




That right there just proved that I cannot have a normal conversation with a woman

noway laugh


Huh, imagine that....laugh So maybe part of this problem IS you......hehehe.

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Sat 08/22/09 04:56 AM
I like cantelopes

hahalaugh

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Sat 08/22/09 04:57 AM
A big part of the problem is me Heather.......a huge part even


But you do not want me to tell ya what that part is

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Sat 08/22/09 04:58 AM

lol....maybe you can't..your reading WAY to much into it....



I'm saying!

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Sat 08/22/09 04:59 AM

I like cantelopes

hahalaugh


laugh

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Sat 08/22/09 05:03 AM
I can have a conversation with a woman

Guess what?

I do

All of the time







I am not going to bother convincing anyone of that...bc that is not the point of what I am doing

what we are here to do is what again??

Figure out why it is that women...mess...with....mens.....minds




And what happened? The thread was reverted over to...?

Talkin about melons

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Sat 08/22/09 05:03 AM
Which is a way for a lady to do what"??


MESS with a mans mind



I rest my case!

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Sat 08/22/09 05:05 AM
teeheehee....


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Sat 08/22/09 05:07 AM
Edited by 14shadesOfgray on Sat 08/22/09 05:08 AM
edited


errrr...



I like oranges too.....fyi

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Sat 08/22/09 05:07 AM

A big part of the problem is me Heather.......a huge part even


But you do not want me to tell ya what that part is


I'm not judging you.....why would I pick you apart. All I'm saying is just be genuinely you, and don't try to put on a persona.

Seriously......for the first time in a LONG time I am completely ok with just being me. My phat dorky fabulous self. I no longer hide my body shape or attempt to be a "classier" person than I really am. It's paying off in my peace of mind. If someone can't love me or accept me for me, then I'm ok with it....and keep moving on. Yes, I still get lonely and still over analyze what men say to me......but I have a much easier time moving past stuff now. The baggage of the past is finally leaving. Sorry, I rambled there....oops.

I just want everyone to feel the same peace. Someone plays head games with you.......own up to your part in it and then move on. It's really quite simple. Constantly trying to put theories to the why's and how's is not very productive. She's out there somewhere, you are young and having a fresh start at life. You just need to see the greatness in this.

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Sat 08/22/09 05:09 AM
Right..

But...it can still p1ss me off when it happened like...yesterday, no?

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Sat 08/22/09 05:10 AM
Plus I was called out...I was told to choose somethin to talk about...check out page 1

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Sat 08/22/09 05:10 AM

Right..

But...it can still p1ss me off when it happened like...yesterday, no?


Indeed. Rant away.

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Sat 08/22/09 05:11 AM
I am perfect


i would imagine that ^^^ is why you're having a hard time getting women to go out with you.

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Sat 08/22/09 05:13 AM

I am perfect


i would imagine that ^^^ is why you're having a hard time getting women to go out with you.


slaphead You just said in one sentence what I've been working on in 5 pages. Oi Vey!

Although, in his defense, I don't THINK he meant that literally. I could be wrong though.

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Sat 08/22/09 05:13 AM
Edited by 14shadesOfgray on Sat 08/22/09 05:15 AM
I dont care about what happened...I am over it..really I am...

It is still BS

Ya know?

I am, unfortunately, whether or not you agree with me it doesnt change my opinion an awesome guy. I am a guy who does things right. I do not hurt people. I don't think about just sex or just want someone for their looks or their body. I care about people. I care about personalities.


If somebody, is going to take their time out and try and see me?

And then they can't explain to me why I'm not good enough?

It just upsets me. I'm arrogant, I reckon :)

I don't need them to like me

I just can't deal with them not being able to say why they don't

And it happens a lot

Maybe its my very aggressive personality, huh?

But...I'm not physically, i mean [hehe] aggressive...weird huh?

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Sat 08/22/09 05:14 AM
frustrated


I just explained what I meant

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Sat 08/22/09 05:16 AM
Who knows?

Who cares?

I dont

I just thought it was a good piece of discussion

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Sat 08/22/09 05:18 AM

Okay and that makes absolutely NO SENSE


I did say my answer may not be the one you were looking for...............