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i'm thinkin the same thing....
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Edited by
14shadesOfgray
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Sat 08/22/09 04:18 AM
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i'm thinkin the same thing.... You aint thinkin anything Dont steal my thunder  
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Part of the problem here is you are expecting too much. You are putting things into terms of what you can get out of the experience. Put something into terms of what you can GIVE in the experience and you might be more pleased with the results. Try working hard on finding out "who they really are" instead of making them know who you really are. Basically, get your head out of your arse and quit thinking it's all about you. A woman who knows that you sincerely care about who they are and what they think will have a hard time not responding. Just an idea........and no, I'm not bashing you Billy. Just playing devils advocate. Okay Devils advocate back at you... It is all about me. If it wasnt, I would still be with the ex And if thats the case. These girls who are playing head games? They can go on their way...and I do not care about them And that is me sticking my head up anyones arse, I don't care. I am proud to say that. I will NOT stoop down to the level of that EVER again. I did enough of that with my ex, my previous ex and the ex before that. If I cannot meet a girl who can respect me and my views...then I am happy single. Hi heather
And not just my views, but my feelings - my opinions - my likes - my disliikes and all of that! Hi again heather
hehehe Are you respecting her views as well, or is it "Its my way or the highway?" Cause no one wants to be with someone who thinks they are 100% right all the time. There is no one perfect on this earth, and if you are looking for someone like that, you'll never find your soulmate. |
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Dude, your missing the point. I'm not saying suck up and lose yourself in the process. I'm saying be genuine and show her that you have an interest in what she thinks and who she is. That doesn't mean be a doormat. Of course it has to be reciprocated. You are all over the place with these random thoughts. If you want to be in a relationship, it CANNOT be all about you. Yes, you can have preferences and look for women that you think are suitable for you, but you have to be willing to be a part of the relationship, which includes 2 people, not just Billy. If you are constantly trying to make sure they aren't screwing you by asserting your "I'm the perfect man" and I won't let you play head games attitude, then you will never have the time to actually allow yourself to just enjoy the moment.
Women won't respond to head games either hun. You can't be continually testing everyone to see if they are like your ex. Lose the baggage and just have fun!! I dare ya...... 
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Edited by
14shadesOfgray
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Sat 08/22/09 04:24 AM
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Are you respecting her views as well, or is it "Its my way or the highway?" Cause no one wants to be with someone who thinks they are 100% right all the time. There is no one perfect on this earth, and if you are looking for someone like that, you'll never find your soulmate. I am going to ignore this kidding Anyways, Yes, of course I respect them and their views |
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Dude, your missing the point. I'm not saying suck up and lose yourself in the process. I'm saying be genuine and show her that you have an interest in what she thinks and who she is. That doesn't mean be a doormat. Of course it has to be reciprocated. You are all over the place with these random thoughts. If you want to be in a relationship, it CANNOT be all about you. Yes, you can have preferences and look for women that you think are suitable for you, but you have to be willing to be a part of the relationship, which includes 2 people, not just Billy. If you are constantly trying to make sure they aren't screwing you by asserting your "I'm the perfect man" and I won't let you play head games attitude, then you will never have the time to actually allow yourself to just enjoy the moment. Women won't respond to head games either hun. You can't be continually testing everyone to see if they are like your ex. Lose the baggage and just have fun!! I dare ya......
Typical I am not the one playing head games!! The other women are playing the games, You're so cute when you're tryin' to make a point though
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Let me explain...
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I will listen to them, do the "whatever", whats your favorite movie, band, music, color, hobby...
Do you like to yada yada? How do you feel about this and that? Oh ya? And then I let them TALK ....Ya with me so far? |
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K I am guessing you are....
So this is when, LIKE I SAID, sorry....like I said, in the question...this is when I'm like..."Ooohh, I like her"...so I start talkin back. I tell her, "Oh yeah? Thats awesome" "Oh?" "Uh huh...great!" "MMmmmHmmmm" And I listen |
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Edited by
heathersaysgobucks
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Sat 08/22/09 04:30 AM
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Dude, your missing the point. I'm not saying suck up and lose yourself in the process. I'm saying be genuine and show her that you have an interest in what she thinks and who she is. That doesn't mean be a doormat. Of course it has to be reciprocated. You are all over the place with these random thoughts. If you want to be in a relationship, it CANNOT be all about you. Yes, you can have preferences and look for women that you think are suitable for you, but you have to be willing to be a part of the relationship, which includes 2 people, not just Billy. If you are constantly trying to make sure they aren't screwing you by asserting your "I'm the perfect man" and I won't let you play head games attitude, then you will never have the time to actually allow yourself to just enjoy the moment. Women won't respond to head games either hun. You can't be continually testing everyone to see if they are like your ex. Lose the baggage and just have fun!! I dare ya......
Typical I am not the one playing head games!! The other women are playing the games, You're so cute when you're tryin' to make a point though
I'm responding before you explain. Here's why.....I don't need an explanation. You ARE playing a head game of sorts. Not intentional, but it is there. You are afraid of getting hurt again. As we all are. It's only human to feel this way. And it is certainly not shameful. Wondering why women play head games is futile my dear. And no, not typical. Predictable maybe. I'm far from typical.
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no offence but i really think you are worse then me and i am bad
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THEN...we have that moment
where I get that feeling...and I'm like..uh oh this could be that one and then...we have a great day, or two... and then....I ask....so, "What do you think?" And then they get nuts!!! All of them, in different styles, formats and ways...but they all get nuts...I can list the names Starting from when I was like 12 until today at like...3:30 am! |
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no offence but i really think you are worse then me and i am bad dude what does that mean? |
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K I am guessing you are.... So this is when, LIKE I SAID, sorry....like I said, in the question...this is when I'm like..."Ooohh, I like her"...so I start talkin back. I tell her, "Oh yeah? Thats awesome" "Oh?" "Uh huh...great!" "MMmmmHmmmm" And I listen And you don't feel she gives that back to you......the interest that is. Are you a Leo by chance?......
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I'm responding before you explain. Here's why.....I don't need an explanation. You ARE playing a head game of sorts. Not intentional, but it is there. You are afraid of getting hurt again. As we all are. It's only human to feel this way. And it is certainly not shameful. Wondering why women play head games is futile my dear. And no, not typical. Predictable maybe. I'm far from typical.
Hmmmmm Maybe... |
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K I am guessing you are.... So this is when, LIKE I SAID, sorry....like I said, in the question...this is when I'm like..."Ooohh, I like her"...so I start talkin back. I tell her, "Oh yeah? Thats awesome" "Oh?" "Uh huh...great!" "MMmmmHmmmm" And I listen And you don't feel she gives that back to you......the interest that is. Are you a Leo by chance?......
I'm an aquarius Whats that mean? |
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what do i mean by that it means i think you are having worse luck with women then i am that is it
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I still wanna know what that guy was talkin about
How can I be worse than him?? |
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I'm an aquarius Whats that mean? I was kidding.......anyhow..... |
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Oh gotcha
Right on 
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