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Topic: Is it ok to be separated and date other people?
lilgeosfamily's photo
Fri 08/21/09 06:43 PM
I was married for eleven years, ive moved away from my wife. (she's in Minnesota and im in Florida. We have a mutual agreement that we can see others and it dont matter to us anymore. Even still is it morally ok to date someone else even though your just separated? I would like to hear from you on this.

JustAmy's photo
Fri 08/21/09 06:46 PM
I think so, I'm seperated AND dating!!

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 08/21/09 06:48 PM
I don't think it's a moral issue, it is your choice. I have no interest in dating someone who is still in a marriage... just my preference.

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Fri 08/21/09 06:49 PM
I did it that way -- once the relationship was over and we were living away from each other, I saw no reason to put life on hold. Especially since she was dragging her feet about signing the divorce papers.


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Fri 08/21/09 06:50 PM
What do you think is the question.............ohwell ohwell ohwell

anthsm22's photo
Fri 08/21/09 06:50 PM
I sat finish one before you start another. besides, I know at least for me, I wouldnt want my first memories with a new person (and potentially my life partner) to be including that I was still married. But thats my opinion. not a fact

lilgeosfamily's photo
Fri 08/21/09 06:54 PM
I just keep second guessing myself. Its one of those things that i keep thinking? Am i ready? Is there someone really out there for me? Am I going to be alone the rest of my life? All these little thoughts come to my head and im not sure im the only one who is going through this situation. Me personally, I think its a good thing and im just posting a topic to see what other people think about it. George

Winx's photo
Fri 08/21/09 06:56 PM

I was married for eleven years, ive moved away from my wife. (she's in Minnesota and im in Florida. We have a mutual agreement that we can see others and it dont matter to us anymore. Even still is it morally ok to date someone else even though your just separated? I would like to hear from you on this.


I won't date someone that is separated.

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Fri 08/21/09 06:57 PM


I do not date people that are still married. It is a policy and have and always keep.

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Fri 08/21/09 08:16 PM

I don't think it's a moral issue, it is your choice. I have no interest in dating someone who is still in a marriage... just my preference.

Amen!:banana: :banana:

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Fri 08/21/09 08:16 PM
I guess it's up to the people involved, not my scene though.

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Fri 08/21/09 08:17 PM
I don't want to be the 3rd wheel later...laugh

robert1652's photo
Fri 08/21/09 08:36 PM

I don't want to be the 3rd wheel later...laugh


lilgeosfamily's photo
Fri 08/21/09 08:51 PM


I don't want to be the 3rd wheel later...laugh





=funny

SamaraNJ's photo
Fri 08/21/09 09:13 PM
I won't date someone who is separated.. and after I have told men here that, they changed their profile to divorced so the next one would go for it...

Winx's photo
Fri 08/21/09 09:15 PM

I won't date someone who is separated.. and after I have told men here that, they changed their profile to divorced so the next one would go for it...


:angry:

SamaraNJ's photo
Fri 08/21/09 09:17 PM


I won't date someone who is separated.. and after I have told men here that, they changed their profile to divorced so the next one would go for it...


:angry:


long time no see :)
good to see you again :)

auburngirl's photo
Fri 08/21/09 09:20 PM
Nope. Don't date married people.

eileena9's photo
Fri 08/21/09 09:20 PM
My separation went on for two years and I made sure that when I was ready to start dating again, I made it clear that my marriage was completely over and there was no chance for us to get back together. It is a personal decision that you have to make, just be clear that the marriage is over and divorce papers are in the works.

Good luck to you!

Winx's photo
Fri 08/21/09 09:26 PM



I won't date someone who is separated.. and after I have told men here that, they changed their profile to divorced so the next one would go for it...


:angry:


long time no see :)
good to see you again :)


It's good to see you again! bigsmile I almost didn't recognize you with the different pic. lol

Welcome back.happy

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