Topic: Overly Jealous
JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 08/21/09 10:11 PM



smile2 What do you do if your significant other is overly jealous?smile2


Leave.

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 08/21/09 10:17 PM
most annoying...I would eventually bail, go.

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Fri 08/21/09 10:25 PM



smile2 What do you do if your significant other is overly jealous?smile2
hhmm this can be difficult situation especially if the jealously is coupled with trust issues. The clingyness of some jealousy is actually kind of nice. I think it is real good to make sure you communicate well with your significant other about this situation especially if the jealousy is creating fights. The trust must be there and if it is jealousy can be overcome.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/21/09 11:56 PM

most annoying...I would eventually bail, go.
flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 08/22/09 12:07 AM




smile2 What do you do if your significant other is overly jealous?smile2
hhmm this can be difficult situation especially if the jealously is coupled with trust issues. The clingyness of some jealousy is actually kind of nice. I think it is real good to make sure you communicate well with your significant other about this situation especially if the jealousy is creating fights. The trust must be there and if it is jealousy can be overcome.


Jealousy IS a trust issue.

Plain and simple.

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Sat 08/22/09 01:46 AM
If I really cared for someone I wouldnt give them an opportunity to be jealous.........

It wouldnt be an issue........




MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 08/22/09 11:26 AM





smile2 What do you do if your significant other is overly jealous?smile2
hhmm this can be difficult situation especially if the jealously is coupled with trust issues. The clingyness of some jealousy is actually kind of nice. I think it is real good to make sure you communicate well with your significant other about this situation especially if the jealousy is creating fights. The trust must be there and if it is jealousy can be overcome.


Jealousy IS a trust issue.

Plain and simple.
flowerforyou

chevylover1965's photo
Sat 08/22/09 11:30 AM
i'm jealous of mirror because he is a sexy beast !laugh :tongue: laugh

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Sat 08/22/09 11:31 AM




smile2 What do you do if your significant other is overly jealous?smile2


it depends on whether the jealousy stems from their being insecure in the relationship or if i've given them some indication that they should be jealous.

i don't buy into that 'accept me as i am or i leave' stern and unbending attitude.

part of loving someone is doing things for them which makes them happy, secured, and loved, even if they are not always things which you want to do.

so while i would object to the partner who tried to possess and rule me with an iron fist, i still would try to make concessions so that he felt more secure with my love and devotion - providing, of course, that he wasn't cruel and demanding.


I'm jealous of this woman's amazing wisdom, sensibility, and understanding of the core of all humanity.

Does that count? :tongue: flowerforyou

Fun721's photo
Sat 08/22/09 11:41 AM
Hmmm...well, if I were in a significant relationship, I wouldn't give my SO a reason to be jealous. I would address it with him and see what the root cause of his jealousy is- it doesn't bode well for a relationship- for many reasons.
In order for anyone to change their habits, they need to have an awareness of why they have that behavior. Then they have a choice to modify or change it.
Jealousy stems from a basic lack of trust, and is used as a form of control to condition the other person to conform to the behavior that they want them to have - in their eyes. Completely unhealthy, in my opinion.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 08/22/09 09:07 PM





smile2 What do you do if your significant other is overly jealous?smile2


it depends on whether the jealousy stems from their being insecure in the relationship or if i've given them some indication that they should be jealous.

i don't buy into that 'accept me as i am or i leave' stern and unbending attitude.

part of loving someone is doing things for them which makes them happy, secured, and loved, even if they are not always things which you want to do.

so while i would object to the partner who tried to possess and rule me with an iron fist, i still would try to make concessions so that he felt more secure with my love and devotion - providing, of course, that he wasn't cruel and demanding.


I'm jealous of this woman's amazing wisdom, sensibility, and understanding of the core of all humanity.

Does that count? :tongue: flowerforyou
bigsmile yepbigsmile

Quietman_2009's photo
Sat 08/22/09 09:08 PM





smile2 What do you do if your significant other is overly jealous?smile2


it depends on whether the jealousy stems from their being insecure in the relationship or if i've given them some indication that they should be jealous.

i don't buy into that 'accept me as i am or i leave' stern and unbending attitude.

part of loving someone is doing things for them which makes them happy, secured, and loved, even if they are not always things which you want to do.

so while i would object to the partner who tried to possess and rule me with an iron fist, i still would try to make concessions so that he felt more secure with my love and devotion - providing, of course, that he wasn't cruel and demanding.


I'm jealous of this woman's amazing wisdom, sensibility, and understanding of the core of all humanity.

Does that count? :tongue: flowerforyou


you're just jealous cause I beat you to her

gingin214's photo
Sat 08/22/09 09:21 PM
Leave

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 08/23/09 11:33 PM

Leave
flowerforyou

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Mon 08/24/09 12:59 AM
I'm out.

Don't have time for it. So many waisted arguments and fights over the most ridiciolous situations.

Not happening.

artman48's photo
Mon 08/24/09 01:10 AM




smile2 What do you do if your significant other is overly jealous?smile2


it depends on whether the jealousy stems from their being insecure in the relationship or if i've given them some indication that they should be jealous.

i don't buy into that 'accept me as i am or i leave' stern and unbending attitude.

part of loving someone is doing things for them which makes them happy, secured, and loved, even if they are not always things which you want to do.

so while i would object to the partner who tried to possess and rule me with an iron fist, i still would try to make concessions so that he felt more secure with my love and devotion - providing, of course, that he wasn't cruel and demanding.


I think i understand??? if thats you in the pic (im going to be in trouble now!!)--- No sorry I can't say it--looked at the picture again and lost my train of thought===


artman48's photo
Mon 08/24/09 01:15 AM




smile2 What do you do if your significant other is overly jealous?smile2


I don't Do Jealous.
I don't have time for people who have Jealousy or Insecurity issues. Period.
wish you were my age and i looked good to ya!! because your right

myshell711's photo
Mon 08/24/09 02:19 AM
I would leave the relationship

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/25/09 08:45 AM

I would leave the relationship
flowerforyou

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Tue 08/25/09 08:49 AM
openly flirt with other when they are around