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Topic: Is It Ok To Snoop?
MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:06 AM

I dunno.....when you look at your shared cell phone bill and find some strange number in there over and over again at odd times, then I guess it's ok to do some major snooping to find out what the heck is going on.

To this day, he denies calling her before we were divorced......yet I still have the bills that show clearly he did. Some people just can't tell the truth. Therefore, you snoop around and find out.
flowerforyou

artman48's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:10 AM
bad idea!

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Mon 08/24/09 12:19 AM
<---looks in your fridge to see what kind of milk you have.....pitchfork

Oh gawwwwwwwwwwwwd not the homo!!!slaphead

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Mon 08/24/09 12:20 AM
I feel like if I have a feeling that I want to snoop and catch her doing something, I'm just going to ask her about it and we will talk.

If I don't like the answers she gives me, I'm out. period.

Not waisting my time snooping.

It's supposed to be my lover, best friend, my girl. Not an enemy I am trying to trap doing something wrong to me.

cesca27's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:21 AM

:smile: Is it ok to snoop if you have suspicion of dishonesty?:smile:


No! I feel that it isn't right. If you are suspicious of them, target your suspicions (e.g late nights out) and ask them honestly. I know some people can be convincing liars, but they can't keep it up.

I would never snoop.. The experiences I have had with people who do, they had low self esteem and/or needy personalities that had trust issues. Just meant they weren't happy in themselves and it affected the relationship.

My last relationship, my partner was reading my emails (which I never hid) I always left my account signed in while she was on my laptop. Then she flipped out when my ex emailed me completely randomly (whom she knows I had contact with!)just asking how I am etc, cause she went overseas and we kept in touch.

My partner at the time accused me of cheating/lying/still being in love with the ex, etc etc over a simple email, simply cause she had issues with trust. I was so hurt, we broke up. Within days she wanted to get back together, but it was a final no from me.

It totally made me angry, cause I am not at all like this, and I did everything to show her in the relationship, she never need to have trust problems (introduced her to everyone, spent all time together, let her read my phone etc).. And she knew I was still friends with the ex.

That's my 2 cent's worth anyway :tongue:

Cesca

Marie55's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:21 AM

<---looks in your fridge to see what kind of milk you have.....pitchfork

Oh gawwwwwwwwwwwwd not the homo!!!slaphead


Almond milk okay, Gyps???

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Mon 08/24/09 12:21 AM

I feel like if I have a feeling that I want to snoop and catch her doing something, I'm just going to ask her about it and we will talk.

If I don't like the answers she gives me, I'm out. period.

Not waisting my time snooping.

It's supposed to be my lover, best friend, my girl. Not an enemy I am trying to trap doing something wrong to me.
Wanna get married???love

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Mon 08/24/09 12:22 AM


<---looks in your fridge to see what kind of milk you have.....pitchfork

Oh gawwwwwwwwwwwwd not the homo!!!slaphead


Almond milk okay, Gyps???

what the hell????scared shocked

Marie55's photo
Mon 08/24/09 12:23 AM
My ex used to snoop, used to have his friends spy on me at work, etc. Was an awful feeling. I wouldn't want anyone to do that to me again, if you have questions, ask me and I will answer them. I wouldn't feel right snooping around on anyone else either.

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Mon 08/24/09 12:24 AM



<---looks in your fridge to see what kind of milk you have.....pitchfork

Oh gawwwwwwwwwwwwd not the homo!!!slaphead


Almond milk okay, Gyps???

what the hell????scared shocked


Sorry, milk allergy. It actually is pretty good.:laughing: :laughing:

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Mon 08/24/09 12:25 AM


I feel like if I have a feeling that I want to snoop and catch her doing something, I'm just going to ask her about it and we will talk.

If I don't like the answers she gives me, I'm out. period.

Not waisting my time snooping.

It's supposed to be my lover, best friend, my girl. Not an enemy I am trying to trap doing something wrong to me.
Wanna get married???love




Okay. What ru doing Thursday. I'm spending one last weekend on the lake this weekend so a little busy. laugh

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Mon 08/24/09 12:28 AM



I feel like if I have a feeling that I want to snoop and catch her doing something, I'm just going to ask her about it and we will talk.

If I don't like the answers she gives me, I'm out. period.

Not waisting my time snooping.

It's supposed to be my lover, best friend, my girl. Not an enemy I am trying to trap doing something wrong to me.
Wanna get married???love




Okay. What ru doing Thursday. I'm spending one last weekend on the lake this weekend so a little busy. laugh
<----pencils you in for 2:00!!!!bigsmile drinker :banana:

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Mon 08/24/09 12:29 AM




I feel like if I have a feeling that I want to snoop and catch her doing something, I'm just going to ask her about it and we will talk.

If I don't like the answers she gives me, I'm out. period.

Not waisting my time snooping.

It's supposed to be my lover, best friend, my girl. Not an enemy I am trying to trap doing something wrong to me.
Wanna get married???love




Okay. What ru doing Thursday. I'm spending one last weekend on the lake this weekend so a little busy. laugh
<----pencils you in for 2:00!!!!bigsmile drinker :banana:





My Mom is going to cry when I tell her.

Oh- whats your name then?


laugh

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Mon 08/24/09 12:40 AM





I feel like if I have a feeling that I want to snoop and catch her doing something, I'm just going to ask her about it and we will talk.

If I don't like the answers she gives me, I'm out. period.

Not waisting my time snooping.

It's supposed to be my lover, best friend, my girl. Not an enemy I am trying to trap doing something wrong to me.
Wanna get married???love




Okay. What ru doing Thursday. I'm spending one last weekend on the lake this weekend so a little busy. laugh
<----pencils you in for 2:00!!!!bigsmile drinker :banana:





My Mom is going to cry when I tell her.

Oh- whats your name then?


laugh
Briggita shaboooooologuiones hermanos Labiaosis!!!bigsmile

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Mon 08/24/09 12:45 AM
That is a beautiful name- what a fairytale.

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Mon 08/24/09 12:55 AM

I feel like if I have a feeling that I want to snoop and catch her doing something, I'm just going to ask her about it and we will talk.

If I don't like the answers she gives me, I'm out. period.

Not waisting my time snooping.

It's supposed to be my lover, best friend, my girl. Not an enemy I am trying to trap doing something wrong to me.


drinker

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:04 AM

That is a beautiful name- what a fairytale.
:thumbsup:

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