IMHO every guys has been through this once amigo. I do salute you for being a soldier, and please do not take this the wrong way, but...

Dude, you gotta let the family jewels drop, next time she calls, simply answer saying, "never call me again" hang up and ignore her every time she tries to get ahold of you. Then hold out and save it up so when you got the right girl, you got all that saved up to show someone who does respect ya the respect she deserves ya know?

The problem is that this is a cycle that feeds itself. Because while you've calmed down and said that this was out of emotion, lots of guys don't. These are the guys that go out and eventually find a girl that will let themselves get walked all over.

But yes, I whole-heartedly agree. Lot's girls don't see a nice guy, they see a friend or a doormat.

One thing that girls don't seem to see is that guys who have experienced success in dating, will stick to what has worked for them. Take a gander at the advice section and you tell me how many girls are complaining about the a**holes they're dating and how many nice guys can't find a girl.

Yeah, you let this happen, but you didn't do it to yourself. I'm sorry, that's just retarded. You didn't make out with those guys, did you? No, I didn't think so =/