Topic: Wondering whats wrong with me
Maudred's photo
Mon 08/17/09 02:01 AM








I want to have someone. I want to settle down and start my life.
wow.......start your life???? Do people still get married at 18???noway If so.........Id advise against it only because you change dramatically in the next 20 years.


Peoples brain thought process changes at 26 as well, lol your a whole new person seeing life through a different set of eyes.


THAT explains it!!

I was engaged at 19, married at 22, mom at 23 and 24, separated at 26 and divorced by 29.

Enjoy your 20's hun....you're only young once set goals and accomplish them, learn who YOU are. Then think about finding someone and starting a family.


I agree completely, I like to date, and maybe have the slight chance at finding the one, but lets face it..finding fulltime love at my age is stupid. :/


Which sucks, cause I do want a girl. ; ;
You can find a girl but forget about it being the "one"slaphead rofl rofl rofl


Mingle is just bad luck, all the woman ive met on here, look NOTHING like their pictures, turn into possesive crazy ladies, OR...are not exclusive, I dont mind if you tell me up front that your going to be dating other people, But I dont like it popping up in the convo on our fourth date "Yeah, so I was Screwing this hot guy the other night after our date"

Oh and I had a girl ditch me at the bowling alley with another guy.
I think that was the best.
Women are evil........didnt I tell you that yet???slaphead rofl rofl


lol who hasnt told me that, ****, I already knew that! My sisters are whores. lol

southern_bee's photo
Mon 08/17/09 02:03 AM
i just dont see the point of waking up to the same person for 50 years or whatever day in day out..then again im only 24 so whos what could happen in the next 6 months and up

newarkjw's photo
Mon 08/17/09 02:05 AM






I want to have someone. I want to settle down and start my life.
wow.......start your life???? Do people still get married at 18???noway If so.........Id advise against it only because you change dramatically in the next 20 years.


Peoples brain thought process changes at 26 as well, lol your a whole new person seeing life through a different set of eyes.
Every 7 years we change.........I advise most men to not get married until they hit at least 35 or older.


I'm over 35 and there ain't no way in hell I'm getting married again......smokin
Uh huh.......bigsmile


You always this fiesty........smokin

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Mon 08/17/09 02:06 AM
yawn

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Mon 08/17/09 02:07 AM







I want to have someone. I want to settle down and start my life.
wow.......start your life???? Do people still get married at 18???noway If so.........Id advise against it only because you change dramatically in the next 20 years.


Peoples brain thought process changes at 26 as well, lol your a whole new person seeing life through a different set of eyes.
Every 7 years we change.........I advise most men to not get married until they hit at least 35 or older.


I'm over 35 and there ain't no way in hell I'm getting married again......smokin
Uh huh.......bigsmile


You always this fiesty........smokin
I thought I was being tame......:wink: :tongue:

Kantide's photo
Mon 08/17/09 02:35 AM
Ah yes, the wheel of life. As we grow, we find what we truly want.

newarkjw's photo
Mon 08/17/09 02:43 AM

Ah yes, the wheel of life. As we grow, we find what we truly want.


Would that be like a Sit n Spin............smokin

Winx's photo
Mon 08/17/09 03:34 AM
Edited by Winx on Mon 08/17/09 03:48 AM

I always wonder why I have to come on these sites hoping to find someone who will treat me right and appreciate me. I work and go to school. I'm not controlling. I do anything possible. I massage a guys back buy them stuff when they dont even ask. Call n say good night and good morning. And yet i havent found anyone good for me. I always get cheated on or treated like **** and im tired of it i just want someone whos going to be there when i need them. and wont be n a relationship for the sex. idk maybe im crazy.


Why are you the one that calls them for good night and good morning and they aren't calling you instead?

Are they buying you gifts or is it just you buying them gifts?

Try letting the man do some of the work.


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Mon 08/17/09 03:55 AM
Edited by gayfifer on Mon 08/17/09 04:02 AM
same old, same old, oh woe is me, whinge, whinge, whinge sad


of course i could say exactly what is wrong with u but as i'm trying to be 'nice' these days i will refrain!

Jess642's photo
Mon 08/17/09 04:29 AM
Edited by Jess642 on Mon 08/17/09 04:30 AM
Having a partner so you aren't the third wheel with your friends, and then clinging on like a wide eyed limpid will get you the results you are creating.


Learn you....be that kind and generous to YOU....and the rest will unfold as it is supposed to.

Until you dig your selfworth back out of the shallow grave it lies in, treatment like you have experienced in the past will continue...

Sad but true...be grateful you are so young, there are plenty here on this site that suffer the same affliction and are 20 and 30 years older.

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Mon 08/17/09 04:33 AM

Having a partner so you aren't the third wheel with your friends, and then clinging on like a wide eyed limpid will get you the results you are creating.


Learn you....be that kind and generous to YOU....and the rest will unfold as it is supposed to.

Until you dig your selfworth back out of the shallow grave it lies in, treatment like you have experienced in the past will continue...

Sad but true...be grateful you are so young, there are plenty here on this site that suffer the same affliction and are 20 and 30 years older.


I'm suffering nothing, not even fools.grumble

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Mon 08/17/09 04:36 AM


If you're feeling like you're in a tailspin wait til you're my age. Holy mackerel! 41% of the men my age are on or near a motorcycle in their photos. How many women my age want to get on a dangerous motorcycle and put on a helmet and look at somebody's back going down the road? Then when you get there you have "helmet hair".
35% want to spend a quiet evening at home. Bah! 19% are pictured with a stretched out t-shirt, a woman's arm showing in the pic or a trailer park in the background {not that there's anything wrong with trailer parkswhoa } The remaining 5% don't answer my emails and they'll be sorry.sad2



You seem like a wonderous lady, I agree with you, they are sorry that they dont return your emails.


What a nice thing to say!

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Mon 08/17/09 04:37 AM

same old, same old, oh woe is me, whinge, whinge, whinge sad


of course i could say exactly what is wrong with u but as i'm trying to be 'nice' these days i will refrain!


Oh, and Fife...knock it off. Be you! flowerforyou tongue2

Jess642's photo
Mon 08/17/09 04:38 AM


Having a partner so you aren't the third wheel with your friends, and then clinging on like a wide eyed limpid will get you the results you are creating.


Learn you....be that kind and generous to YOU....and the rest will unfold as it is supposed to.

Until you dig your selfworth back out of the shallow grave it lies in, treatment like you have experienced in the past will continue...

Sad but true...be grateful you are so young, there are plenty here on this site that suffer the same affliction and are 20 and 30 years older.


I'm suffering nothing, not even fools.grumble


Hello!!!!!!!!!


Sure you can't suffer this fool? Just a teensy bit???bigsmile flowerforyou

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Mon 08/17/09 04:41 AM



Having a partner so you aren't the third wheel with your friends, and then clinging on like a wide eyed limpid will get you the results you are creating.


Learn you....be that kind and generous to YOU....and the rest will unfold as it is supposed to.

Until you dig your selfworth back out of the shallow grave it lies in, treatment like you have experienced in the past will continue...

Sad but true...be grateful you are so young, there are plenty here on this site that suffer the same affliction and are 20 and 30 years older.


I'm suffering nothing, not even fools.grumble


Hello!!!!!!!!!


Sure you can't suffer this fool? Just a teensy bit???bigsmile flowerforyou


I'm probably too much of a fool myself, so I have never seen you as one.winking

Jess642's photo
Mon 08/17/09 04:47 AM
What's that saying....'Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me..'

kind of fits most of the I'm a nice guy/gal/buffalo/elephant/giraffe threads...:wink: laugh

oldsage's photo
Mon 08/17/09 04:50 AM
Listen to the 2 ladies just above me, among the smarter ladies here.

Advice form an old man, QUIT giving yourself away. Make them EARN your company & attention.

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Mon 08/17/09 04:51 AM

What's that saying....'Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me..'

kind of fits most of the I'm a nice guy/gal/buffalo/elephant/giraffe threads...:wink: laugh


Yeah, it does, doesn't it?

And right behind comes the question 'why am I still single', followed by all men/women are evil and this, that and the other.rant

Jess642's photo
Mon 08/17/09 04:53 AM


What's that saying....'Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me..'

kind of fits most of the I'm a nice guy/gal/buffalo/elephant/giraffe threads...:wink: laugh


Yeah, it does, doesn't it?

And right behind comes the question 'why am I still single', followed by all men/women are evil and this, that and the other.rant


You're so cute when you are a grumpy emoticon!!!!!!smitten :laughing:


And Sage....what are you doing???Advising this sweet young thing to listen to Invisible and I??????shocked surprised

oldsage's photo
Mon 08/17/09 04:58 AM



What's that saying....'Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me..'

kind of fits most of the I'm a nice guy/gal/buffalo/elephant/giraffe threads...:wink: laugh


Yeah, it does, doesn't it?

And right behind comes the question 'why am I still single', followed by all men/women are evil and this, that and the other.rant


You're so cute when you are a grumpy emoticon!!!!!!smitten :laughing:


And Sage....what are you doing???Advising this sweet young thing to listen to Invisible and I??????shocked surprised


YES, don't think I could do much better.

We older need to teach the younger how to be strong & control their own lives. I think the young lady NEEDS alot of time chatting with more ladies like you two. BET you both agree.