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Topic: Wondering whats wrong with me
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Mon 08/17/09 04:59 AM



You're so cute when you are a grumpy emoticon!!!!!!smitten :laughing:


And Sage....what are you doing???Advising this sweet young thing to listen to Invisible and I??????shocked surprised


I think he doesn't know what he is saying, I believe it's still early there and he is half asleep.winking

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Mon 08/17/09 05:01 AM
Edited by Jess642 on Mon 08/17/09 05:01 AM



YES, don't think I could do much better.

We older need to teach the younger how to be strong & control their own lives. I think the young lady NEEDS alot of time chatting with more ladies like you two. BET you both agree.


I am not sure if I am the right person, but I know if this was my daughter asking these questions, my thoughts would have been exactly the same...(possibly not as gentle as here....it's toned down for the more sensitive constitutions):wink: laugh

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Mon 08/17/09 05:07 AM
Yes, we have to speak within the rules.

May777's photo
Mon 08/17/09 05:10 AM

I want to have someone. I want to settle down and start my life.


that`s it,..right there,..

"start your life" maybe you already have,. drinker

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Mon 08/17/09 05:17 AM
doctors have tried for years to discover what's wrong with me but no luck yet



i think they even have a research fund set up in my name smokin

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Mon 08/17/09 05:45 AM
The "takers" sure seem to know well how to sniff out the "givers" in the world and will take advantage until the tap runs out or they get bored. I'm sorry to say that with age only seems to come more experience for takers and makes for jaded givers. It's so difficult to find that other person with the ying and the yang, and it's difficult to figure out if the person you are with is as giving as you are. Those negatives tend to creep from the pores as time goes by.

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Mon 08/17/09 05:50 AM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Mon 08/17/09 05:51 AM
Your very pretty

But

You would be even prettier

If ya didn't whine this way

Get up
Go out

And get what you want

(love to you):heart:

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Mon 08/17/09 05:53 AM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Mon 08/17/09 05:53 AM
I was married at 18 and divorced by 21. Then I was married at 22 and divorced at 23.

you are 18. you should be concentrated on establishing who you are and where you are going with life. Don't let yourself get distracted with that romance stuff. You'll regret it later. date and have fun and screw around. Your 18 thats what your soupposed to be doing now

wait till your about 25 to think about settling down. By then you will have developed your sense of who you are and no man can change that

good luck

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Mon 08/17/09 05:54 AM
flowerforyou Best of luckflowerforyou

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Mon 08/17/09 06:00 AM


same old, same old, oh woe is me, whinge, whinge, whinge sad


of course i could say exactly what is wrong with u but as i'm trying to be 'nice' these days i will refrain!


Oh, and Fife...knock it off. Be you! flowerforyou tongue2


i have knocked it off, otherwise i would've told the truth :wink:

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Mon 08/17/09 07:01 AM

I always wonder why I have to come on these sites hoping to find someone who will treat me right and appreciate me. I work and go to school. I'm not controlling. I do anything possible. I massage a guys back buy them stuff when they dont even ask. Call n say good night and good morning. And yet i havent found anyone good for me. I always get cheated on or treated like **** and im tired of it i just want someone whos going to be there when i need them. and wont be n a relationship for the sex. idk maybe im crazy.


I can totally identify with this. Everyone I've met from dating sites has either turned out to be insane (one was even an arsonist!), dishonest, or in need of rescue (and out the door once the rescue had been accomplished). Or all of the above.

I've always told myself that there must be some decent people on dating sites -- law of averages, if nothing else. And there are many people on this site I think of as friends, people who have been supportive and helpful and caring when I needed it.

But I've never met any of them in person.

Ultimately, I decided that the internet is a great place to make friends, and a totally abysmal place to try to find a girlfriend. That's why I stopped looking.



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Mon 08/17/09 01:44 PM



same old, same old, oh woe is me, whinge, whinge, whinge sad


of course i could say exactly what is wrong with u but as i'm trying to be 'nice' these days i will refrain!


Oh, and Fife...knock it off. Be you! flowerforyou tongue2


i have knocked it off, otherwise i would've told the truth :wink:


I just want to take my thumb and index finger and pinch those little cheeks of yours.tongue2 waving

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Mon 08/17/09 02:27 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Mon 08/17/09 02:42 PM
of all the very! wise words said here, wonderful!....alas!.... our words are not as strong in her bones and the irrational pull of nature, as we see again and again, with also the pull of pressure from her friends to couple, oh the importance of it all, or so it seems......get on top of a hill or building, and you'll discover all this pull means not,... in the bigger scheme of things...get out and travel, or learn a trade, tying yourself down right away is certain soul partial death, for what really matters is your self worth...am i hitting the mark? why don't you matter in your eyes, instead of just those around you? who are thay to answer to? are they the kings of old? gods maybe?...*chuckles* i think not! answer to yourself! not them....have you been to europe? what a culture that is! and a different way....more relaxed...natural.....the US has demands on teenagers that are unrealistic and surface oriented....look past this, for if not, you will be but another pawn.....you are worth more. all of us are! good luck with this natural irrational pull. back two-hundred years, this pull ment something...the survival of a species.......not now....flowerforyou

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Mon 08/17/09 02:32 PM
I might take off that part about being 18 and going to highschool for 2 more years for your diploma.


Good Luck.

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Mon 08/17/09 02:39 PM
it sounds like you may have scurvy

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Mon 08/17/09 02:42 PM




same old, same old, oh woe is me, whinge, whinge, whinge sad


of course i could say exactly what is wrong with u but as i'm trying to be 'nice' these days i will refrain!


Oh, and Fife...knock it off. Be you! flowerforyou tongue2


i have knocked it off, otherwise i would've told the truth :wink:


I just want to take my thumb and index finger and pinch those little cheeks of yours.tongue2 waving

laugh laugh laugh

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