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I have the world's best gay-dar, so they rarely fool me. My besty is gay so that's all good.  Yes, my gay-dar always malfunctions. There is this guy I like, he wears makeup, has more hair products than me, likes to wear glittery panties, and his shirt is about 3 sizes too small. He's just metrosexual right? 
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 Okay, I am probably starting to scare Sunny No no  If you wanna join it I'd welcome you
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I have the world's best gay-dar, so they rarely fool me. My besty is gay so that's all good. Yes, my gay-dar always malfunctions. There is this guy I like, he wears makeup, has more hair products than me, likes to wear glittery panties, and his shirt is about 3 sizes too small. He's just metrosexual right?
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I have the world's best gay-dar, so they rarely fool me. My besty is gay so that's all good. Yes, my gay-dar always malfunctions. There is this guy I like, he wears makeup, has more hair products than me, likes to wear glittery panties, and his shirt is about 3 sizes too small. He's just metrosexual right? I hate that term really...metrosexual  I would have said maybe until the small shirts. Unless he's a stripper. Than maybe he's straight
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i think you should just ask to have coffee
any reason to get together one on one, will give you the opertunaty to talk and if the guy is of good inteligence, he will see that your an amazingly speacial ladyperson who he will want to club over the head and take back to his cave your thoughtfull, careing, humble, sweet, passionate, family orientated, funny, incredably intelligent and drop dead gorgeous so you dont need to be able to flirt |
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i think you should just ask to have coffee any reason to get together one on one, will give you the opertunaty to talk and if the guy is of good inteligence, he will see that your an amazingly speacial ladyperson who he will want to club over the head and take back to his cave your thoughtfull, careing, humble, sweet, passionate, family orientated, funny, incredably intelligent and drop dead gorgeous so you dont need to be able to flirt 
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And if that doesn't work.... flash him!
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i think you should just ask to have coffee any reason to get together one on one, will give you the opertunaty to talk and if the guy is of good inteligence, he will see that your an amazingly speacial ladyperson who he will want to club over the head and take back to his cave your thoughtfull, careing, humble, sweet, passionate, family orientated, funny, incredably intelligent and drop dead gorgeous so you dont need to be able to flirt You two are gonna make me over confident! I'll just walk up and be like "You like me, I'm awesome." Although I don't want a clubbing. Well, maybe a gentle one 
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i think you should just ask to have coffee any reason to get together one on one, will give you the opertunaty to talk and if the guy is of good inteligence, he will see that your an amazingly speacial ladyperson who he will want to club over the head and take back to his cave your thoughtfull, careing, humble, sweet, passionate, family orientated, funny, incredably intelligent and drop dead gorgeous so you dont need to be able to flirt You two are gonna make me over confident! I'll just walk up and be like "You like me, I'm awesome." Although I don't want a clubbing. Well, maybe a gentle one  Just be yourself Sunny. Strike up a friendship with the guy. If he is interested then he should get the message.
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Pay attention to the help he is giving you and then follow up with and invitation for a snack some where on campus.
Out of the classroom if you want to tell him that you find him cute and that is a little distracting he will be flattered. If you jump to the conclusion he is helping you and he isn't interested in you you haven't made a fool of yourself. |
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Here are my pointers: Its not just what you say, its how you say it. People love to hear their name, especially men, so in the converstions say their name alot. Or at least once. It makes them feel important. Make him a sincere compliment, doesn't have to be a physical one, just something that he did that impressed you. Just make sure its sincere and not just out right flattery. At first Less is More, meaning keep the conversations short but meaningful, making him want to talk to you more. Impress him with something you know about cars or PC's, just make sure you have your facts straight first, otherwise it could backfire. Alot of flirting is in the bodylanguage. It can be anything from gently touching his shoulder when you ask him a question, to just a cute innocent wink, and smile after you say something clever. But most of all, be yourself. Cinderella had some good pointers, especially the touching part. Just put your hand on his if you are across the table from him, or on his shoulder or back if you are along-side him, when you are trying to make a point in conversation. If that doesn't send a message, you may have to hit him over the head with something. |
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give him a nice wink and a smile. Works for me.
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Sunny, use your eyes. Show him what you can't say.
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just flash him your bewb's.......
it's an ice breaker every time !
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Or the standard , dumb-azz guy line .... " If I told you , you had a fantastic body, would you hold it against me ? "
 If anything he should laugh ... or blush
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Ok guys thanks, I think I'm actually getting better at this. I'm striking out on my own
I've never really considered myself shy but I'm rethinking that now
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Don't let him COMPLETELY know you're interested in him because once he knows that he has the upperhand, he'll use it to his advantage and take it for granted. You have to do things that make him wonder.
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Don't let him COMPLETELY know you're interested in him because once he knows that he has the upperhand, he'll use it to his advantage and take it for granted. You have to do things that make him wonder. Ah, my jaded Genius. Good Morning.
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So tonight I tried being chatty with a guy at school. Nice guy, really into the tech stuff, loves his car and is very helpful when I'm looking at my computer like it's got 3 heads. I'm really very shy with men until I know them well but I have no flirting ability. Pointers please? (Yes, I know I posted this in 3rd person ) Practice with me!  
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