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So tonight I tried being chatty with a guy at school. Nice guy, really into the tech stuff, loves his car and is very helpful when I'm looking at my computer like it's got 3 heads. I'm really very shy with men until I know them well but I have no flirting ability. Pointers please? (Yes, I know I posted this in 3rd person  )
 I dont think you will have a problem getting a mans attention Sunny unless he is gay or something You are a very attractive woman with a nice personality Just be yourself I used to go gaga for gals like you when I was your age  (not that I am old or anything) If I lived near you I would totally be trying to go out with you
Thanks Mirror  You're such a sweetie. At least we'd have tons to talk about. And you wouldn't be weirder out if I geeked out over something random
My favorite girlfriends were gals like you
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no way am i helping.........   
Aww hun, I'm just needing the practice so I don't scare every guy away. 
Thanks hun, just trying to get some insight on something I rarely do.
That is I only flirt with the great ones
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You are the total package Sara. Adorable looks,nice personality,intelligence. You got it all
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 Awww
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Here are my pointers:
Its not just what you say, its how you say it. People love to hear their name, especially men, so in the converstions say their name alot. Or at least once. It makes them feel important. Make him a sincere compliment, doesn't have to be a physical one, just something that he did that impressed you. Just make sure its sincere and not just out right flattery. At first Less is More, meaning keep the conversations short but meaningful, making him want to talk to you more. Impress him with something you know about cars or PC's, just make sure you have your facts straight first, otherwise it could backfire. Alot of flirting is in the bodylanguage. It can be anything from gently touching his shoulder when you ask him a question, to just a cute innocent wink, and smile after you say something clever. But most of all, be yourself. |
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 I am sooo jealous of this guy
Why couldnt I have been Canadian?
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There you go men are all at yer feet
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Here are my pointers: Its not just what you say, its how you say it. People love to hear their name, especially men, so in the converstions say their name alot. Or at least once. It makes them feel important. Make him a sincere compliment, doesn't have to be a physical one, just something that he did that impressed you. Just make sure its sincere and not just out right flattery. At first Less is More, meaning keep the conversations short but meaningful, making him want to talk to you more. Impress him with something you know about cars or PC's, just make sure you have your facts straight first, otherwise it could backfire. Alot of flirting is in the bodylanguage. It can be anything from gently touching his shoulder when you ask him a question, to just a cute innocent wink, and smile after you say something clever. But most of all, be yourself. Excellent advice. If the dude isnt taken or gay then he should get the message if you do this Sara.
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Here are my pointers: Its not just what you say, its how you say it. People love to hear their name, especially men, so in the converstions say their name alot. Or at least once. It makes them feel important. Make him a sincere compliment, doesn't have to be a physical one, just something that he did that impressed you. Just make sure its sincere and not just out right flattery. At first Less is More, meaning keep the conversations short but meaningful, making him want to talk to you more. Impress him with something you know about cars or PC's, just make sure you have your facts straight first, otherwise it could backfire. Alot of flirting is in the bodylanguage. It can be anything from gently touching his shoulder when you ask him a question, to just a cute innocent wink, and smile after you say something clever. But most of all, be yourself. Excellent advice. If the dude isnt taken or gay then he should get the message if you do this Sara.
yea, thats usually my dilemma...taken or gay...*sigh* |
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Here are my pointers: Its not just what you say, its how you say it. People love to hear their name, especially men, so in the converstions say their name alot. Or at least once. It makes them feel important. Make him a sincere compliment, doesn't have to be a physical one, just something that he did that impressed you. Just make sure its sincere and not just out right flattery. At first Less is More, meaning keep the conversations short but meaningful, making him want to talk to you more. Impress him with something you know about cars or PC's, just make sure you have your facts straight first, otherwise it could backfire. Alot of flirting is in the bodylanguage. It can be anything from gently touching his shoulder when you ask him a question, to just a cute innocent wink, and smile after you say something clever. But most of all, be yourself. That is awesome advice. All of it I can do. (actually he was impressed that I knew what v-tec was and that I knew how it worked, he said he just knew the sound )
Thanks Cinderella
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There you go men are all at yer feet
No no, I don't want that. I'd rather have one at my side than at my feet.
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I have the world's best gay-dar, so they rarely fool me. My besty is gay so that's all good.
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I can't even get anyone to come over for dinner...and stay...forever...and ever...
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If there's at stoop when I come over I'm not coming inside...all I'm saying
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If there's at stoop when I come over I'm not coming inside...all I'm saying
I'll hide it... 
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<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
President of SunnyMcleod fanclub
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I actually have a fanclub on Facebook
I was so embarrassed when I saw it
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There you go men are all at yer feet
No no, I don't want that. I'd rather have one at my side than at my feet.
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I actually have a fanclub on Facebook I was so embarrassed when I saw it
 That doesnt surprise me
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 Okay, I am probably starting to scare Sunny
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