Topic: Help Sunny Out with Flirting
MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:21 PM



So tonight I tried being chatty with a guy at school. Nice guy, really into the tech stuff, loves his car and is very helpful when I'm looking at my computer like it's got 3 heads.

I'm really very shy with men until I know them well but I have no flirting ability.

Pointers please?

(Yes, I know I posted this in 3rd person laugh )



flowerforyou I dont think you will have a problem getting a mans attention Sunny unless he is gay or somethingflowerforyou You are a very attractive woman with a nice personalityloveJust be yourself:heart:I used to go gaga for gals like you when I was your age drool(not that I am old or anything):tongue:If I lived near you I would totally be trying to go out with you:wink:

Thanks Mirror smooched flowerforyou You're such a sweetie. At least we'd have tons to talk about. And you wouldn't be weirder out if I geeked out over something random laugh



:wink: My favorite girlfriends were gals like youflowerforyou

SunnyMcleod's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:23 PM



no way am i helping.........brokenheart tears sad

Aww hun, I'm just needing the practice so I don't scare every guy away.

flowers
You've never scared me away and if my memory serves me well blue, you have no problem flirting



flowers Thanks hun, just trying to get some insight on something I rarely do.
That is I only flirt with the great ones :wink:

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:25 PM
flowerforyou You are the total package Sara.flowerforyou Adorable looks,nice personality,intelligence.bigsmile You got it alldrinker

SunnyMcleod's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:26 PM
blushing blushing blushing Awwwflowers

Cinderella75's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:27 PM
Here are my pointers:

Its not just what you say, its how you say it.
People love to hear their name, especially men, so in the converstions say their name alot. Or at least once. It makes them feel important.
Make him a sincere compliment, doesn't have to be a physical one, just something that he did that impressed you. Just make sure its sincere and not just out right flattery.
At first Less is More, meaning keep the conversations short but meaningful, making him want to talk to you more.
Impress him with something you know about cars or PC's, just make sure you have your facts straight first, otherwise it could backfire.
Alot of flirting is in the bodylanguage. It can be anything from gently touching his shoulder when you ask him a question, to just a cute innocent wink, and smile after you say something clever.
But most of all, be yourself.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:27 PM
mad I am sooo jealous of this guymad

tears Why couldnt I have been Canadian?tears

robert1652's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:28 PM
There you go men are all at yer feet

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:29 PM

Here are my pointers:

Its not just what you say, its how you say it.
People love to hear their name, especially men, so in the converstions say their name alot. Or at least once. It makes them feel important.
Make him a sincere compliment, doesn't have to be a physical one, just something that he did that impressed you. Just make sure its sincere and not just out right flattery.
At first Less is More, meaning keep the conversations short but meaningful, making him want to talk to you more.
Impress him with something you know about cars or PC's, just make sure you have your facts straight first, otherwise it could backfire.
Alot of flirting is in the bodylanguage. It can be anything from gently touching his shoulder when you ask him a question, to just a cute innocent wink, and smile after you say something clever.
But most of all, be yourself.



bigsmile Excellent advice.drinker If the dude isnt taken or gay then he should get the message if you do this Sara.bigsmile

Cinderella75's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:33 PM


Here are my pointers:

Its not just what you say, its how you say it.
People love to hear their name, especially men, so in the converstions say their name alot. Or at least once. It makes them feel important.
Make him a sincere compliment, doesn't have to be a physical one, just something that he did that impressed you. Just make sure its sincere and not just out right flattery.
At first Less is More, meaning keep the conversations short but meaningful, making him want to talk to you more.
Impress him with something you know about cars or PC's, just make sure you have your facts straight first, otherwise it could backfire.
Alot of flirting is in the bodylanguage. It can be anything from gently touching his shoulder when you ask him a question, to just a cute innocent wink, and smile after you say something clever.
But most of all, be yourself.



bigsmile Excellent advice.drinker If the dude isnt taken or gay then he should get the message if you do this Sara.bigsmile


yea, thats usually my dilemma...taken or gay...*sigh*

SunnyMcleod's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:34 PM

Here are my pointers:

Its not just what you say, its how you say it.
People love to hear their name, especially men, so in the converstions say their name alot. Or at least once. It makes them feel important.
Make him a sincere compliment, doesn't have to be a physical one, just something that he did that impressed you. Just make sure its sincere and not just out right flattery.
At first Less is More, meaning keep the conversations short but meaningful, making him want to talk to you more.
Impress him with something you know about cars or PC's, just make sure you have your facts straight first, otherwise it could backfire.
Alot of flirting is in the bodylanguage. It can be anything from gently touching his shoulder when you ask him a question, to just a cute innocent wink, and smile after you say something clever.
But most of all, be yourself.

That is awesome advice. All of it I can do. (actually he was impressed that I knew what v-tec was and that I knew how it worked, he said he just knew the sound laugh )

Thanks Cinderella bigsmile

SunnyMcleod's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:35 PM

There you go men are all at yer feet

No no, I don't want that. I'd rather have one at my side than at my feet.:wink:

SunnyMcleod's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:36 PM
I have the world's best gay-dar, so they rarely fool me. My besty is gay so that's all good.bigsmile

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:36 PM
I can't even get anyone to come over for dinner...and stay...forever...and ever...

SunnyMcleod's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:38 PM
If there's at stoop when I come over I'm not coming inside...all I'm saying laugh


flowers

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:40 PM

If there's at stoop when I come over I'm not coming inside...all I'm saying laugh


flowers


I'll hide it...

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:40 PM
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<bigsmile President of SunnyMcleod fanclub:tongue:

SunnyMcleod's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:42 PM
I actually have a fanclub on Facebook blushing I was so embarrassed when I saw it laugh

robert1652's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:43 PM


There you go men are all at yer feet

No no, I don't want that. I'd rather have one at my side than at my feet.:wink:
a figure of speak nanalaugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:43 PM

I actually have a fanclub on Facebook blushing I was so embarrassed when I saw it laugh
happy That doesnt surprise melaugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:46 PM
pitchfork Okay, I am probably starting to scare Sunny:tongue: