I don't see anything wrong with me being here since I'm just here for friends and the forums.

no, I did not...

nothing 'wrong' with it, it just hurts sometimes... I guess it also depends upon what path you took, or was handed to you... in order to get here...

i guess if i was trying to date off here, i might look at it a different way. but i just stick around to chase certain people through the threads.

People from Ohio are known as buckeyes. A buckeye is a worthless nut.....

bye "here" I took it more as 'this place in life' rather than on mingle..

being on mingle, has actually been fun and brought me much laughter!!... (DOH! did I reveal too much)...

No, I mean I never thought I would be here now, single and on Mingle2, I love Mingle but thought I would be in a meaningful relationship right now.

Thesse are some of the things my wonderful Grandma told me late in her life::

No matter where you are in life, there you are.

When you travel down lifes path and you come to a fork in the road..........Take it

This is my little bit of wisdom:::

If you hear a click, hopefully it is your brain telling you to do something about the place your in, and not the click of the gun hammer. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.

If you like someone that is far away and you think it may be love, tell then and then get off you azz and make the meeting happen. If they are less than 8 hours away then it is a no-brainer, get in a car, a Greyhound bus a plane and meet them. If you hear that click, stop, think and.....DO SOMETHING.....Sorry, I just get so tired of the I can't meet someone, nothing is going the right way....

Give it every thing you have, and if you are at the end of your fight, take a deep breath and fight for love again and then again. If there is nothing left and your fight is all gone, shut the damn computor off and learn how to be the best alone person you can be.

Maybe you can see yourself throwing stuff at the noisy kids and farting in the supermarket.....Just sayin.

thanks for the clarification. no, i never thought i'd be in the place i am now in life; i thought i'd be a successful person by now. but so far, i haven't achieved my goals.

Yeah, no loneliness catches you by surprise.

You know, like starting when your younger you have all your friends

people and then as you get older you tend not to hang out so much

and worry more about what your doing and then you look around one

day when it's just you and ponder everything.

But being alone is not just a negative. Being alone helps one come

to terms with their self. And to gather their thoughts freely with

out interruption.

My current situation was NOT written down on my 'bucket list'
'things to do this yr' 'goal visioning worksheet'

But here I am just the same, and making the best of it.
It is all good right now.

My current situation was NOT written down on my 'bucket list'
'things to do this yr' 'goal visioning worksheet'

But here I am just the same, and making the best of it.
It is all good right now.

I struggled for a long time, even though things aren't the greatest for me now, I never thought I'd reach the point that I am at now. I'm glad I'm here though!

No, not really...just kind of stumbled here after I was rejected by eHarmony. Now I just collect people under my stoop...don't get all bent out of shape, they have a candle down there...

mine is apple cinnamon scented

Bah! They don't deserve scented! They are always trying to run away when I'm fixing dinner (of assorted things, nothing human of course...that is wrong)...

I never thought that I would be on a dating website or that I would be single while my friends are getting married.

I make fun of my married friends.

omg me too!!!!