I used to think I would die alone


Then I would think I would have a grand wedding near the ocean


Then I thought I was going to be the cat lady


Then the other day I was thinking with my puppy being a cat lady wasn't the best choice

Thesse are some of the things my wonderful Grandma told me late in her life::

No matter where you are in life, there you are.

When you travel down lifes path and you come to a fork in the road..........Take it

This is my little bit of wisdom:::

If you hear a click, hopefully it is your brain telling you to do something about the place your in, and not the click of the gun hammer. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.

If you like someone that is far away and you think it may be love, tell then and then get off you azz and make the meeting happen. If they are less than 8 hours away then it is a no-brainer, get in a car, a Greyhound bus a plane and meet them. If you hear that click, stop, think and.....DO SOMETHING.....Sorry, I just get so tired of the I can't meet someone, nothing is going the right way....

Give it every thing you have, and if you are at the end of your fight, take a deep breath and fight for love again and then again. If there is nothing left and your fight is all gone, shut the damn computor off and learn how to be the best alone person you can be.

Maybe you can see yourself throwing stuff at the noisy kids and farting in the supermarket.....Just sayin.

I am kind of surprised to be here, I said long ago that I would never own a computer.