Hello to whoever decides to read this. I'm not sure what men think of me when they see my profile. Do I seem too boring? Unattractive? What's the deal here? I haven't gotten many responses from people on this site. Would someone please tell me what I should do? Thank you for any advice, even if it's harsh.

Jump into the forums, and mingle with us. We talk about nothing, and everything under the sun. Often good for a few good laughs, and sometimes good for wearing out your fingernails (from scratching and thinking wtf??)..

BTW, your profile seems a bit short, but longer than a lot around here.

Don't tell me, show me...

Cute pics, but run of the mill profile. You say you have a strange sense of humor... so show me. Give me an example.

I am all for putting things in your profile that show what kind of person you are instead of you telling me.

:)

G'luck and have fun.

Well I took a quick look.

#1 you should probably get some new pictures. The 2nd and 3rd one (same pic w different zoom levels), you don't really look happy. Why not get some pictures of you out on an activity or having fun and post those instead. A smile goes a long way.

Also, you didn't list many things in your interests.

As far as the content of your profile, you don't really need to spell out how long your divorce took - it can make people wonder why it did and maybe they'll get the wrong idea about the kind of person you are (they don't know who was the one who drew things out). Simply that you're divorced is enough until you've got someone interested enough to chat with you. Then you can fill in the blanks.

Just my $0.02

- FM

Southern.. Profile is fine. Try the forums. Lots of very nice folks....

get off the bench & get up here

the ball won`t just fall in your lap,..

you have to play first

and beware of the horses and monkeys

WeLcOmE & G'lUcK!
1)Jump into the forums,have fun & make some kewl friends on the fly.
2)Match wits w/ these clever & friendly minglers.At times advise(optional)
3)Never ask for a female/male only rating of profile
4)Avoid arrogant & hurtful icky demons whenever possible.Yes! every site has them such as IRL however the good far outweigh the bad here at M2 fortunately.

welcome and good luck

Hello to you to be truthful the first thing i thought when i looked at your profile is you would make a good friend. When men see your pic you look real safe try putting on a different pic with your hair and makeup done and maybe a sexy dress like you would wear when that person takes you out and see the response. Your not profiling yourself to get many responses. You stated that you want to me someone to go out with and in the same sentence you say your not looking for anything serious. Most people come on here to find a relationship your looking for friendship and that turns them away. Man can turn into friends not really start out to be friends. You also said to much in your profile. from you screen name we know your a mother but also try to remember your also a woman and thats what you should be protraying. something to much info turns a person off. you left nothing for them to find out.

Lilmomma, I personally think you look quite cute, especially without your glasses. Have you considered contacts? Also, it may be because you have children that many men have not responded to you. It's ok, though. Some man out there that has kids already may be the best for you. Like someone else already stated, too, stick around here on the forums. You will get to know some cool people and will allow us to get to know you. It's fun and it'll get you "out there". Have a good one

Put it this way, I would be messaging you if you didn't live a few thousand miles.
But maybe it wouldn't hurt to put some more likes/hobbies on the profile, or perhaps changing the last 2 pics. You look very pretty in them, but they seem kind of... stiff and serious for a dating profile.

Hope that my 1.90809 yen(2 cents) helped!

For those of you that have responded, thank you for your advice. I have changed my profile around a bit, posted a new pic, and am curious if it makes much of a difference. Yes, I do sometimes wear glasses, but I also have contact lenses. Sometimes I just don't feel like putting them in, lol. So please let me know if these changes are for the better.

P.S. Big thank you to psprettysmile. I think a woman's viewpoint is sometimes better than a man's. I appreciate your honesty!

not bad

<--- not a profile rater, BUT .. hello and welcome and enjoy your stay

I thought your profile was fine. You told important things about you life, like your divorce and that your work schedule can cause a problem. I can't respond to your profile due to geography, and the fact that i am too old, but I would if I could. The question is would you write back.

You go girl that more like it. Didnt reconize you at first. You look hot and easy going fun loving all rolled into one. just take the other pics off this one is hot ok. like the intro its straight forward leaving room for possibilities with just a touch of suspense. Let me know how its going if you get the time with all those hits your going to be getting. A girl will lie to you a woman will always lend a helping hand and your more than welcome .Also that smile would light up a room keep it going ok

Very Nice