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JasmineInglewood
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Mon 08/10/09 09:40 PM
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I think I put in too much but I am not certain. Don't want to scare anyone away before I meet them. Can someone look at my profile and let me know if it is concise or too much at once. Jeff what a handsome head |
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PERSONALLY I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU THINK OF ME. AT LEAST I'M NOT NAKED. SEEMS LIKE THATS YOUR ONLY WAY OF ATTTRACTING WOMEN. YOUR SAD.YOU COULD DO BETTER AS FAR AS A PHOTO. NO MORE COMMENTS FROM ME. 
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Wow, this topic got a little heated. I think what was meant about the pic is that a different one maybe more suiting for you. I know I tend to shy away from profiles where men are topless, naked, laying in bed, etc. because it says to me "here to have a good time, hit it and quit it, cause that's how I roll." If that's what you're looking for, by all means keep the pic because there are certainly plenty of women who will go for it. If you're looking for something a little more long-term, classy, or with potential, a photo of you smiling at the camera, hugging a tree or kissing a baby might better accomplish that.
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Hmmm .... I will take the advice, but I will also keep the shower photo in the gallery and if folks want to review it they can. I am a sensual and very sexual person (and guess what so are 99% of all women). People are always under some misguided belief that men are more sexual than women -- this is totally false -- I have learned the opposite is true. Most women can outperform any man on this planet in bed and grind him into dust if they choose.
I will put up a photo and me and my little boy. The only problem is a lot of women will not like this either because I have also noticed women almost never accept the children of other women and the presence of a child is very threatenting to them. It says "ex-wife on the prowl". Putting in a picture of me under a tree also is not me. Too sissy. |
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Hmmm .... I will take the advice, but I will also keep the shower photo in the gallery and if folks want to review it they can. I am a sensual and very sexual person (and guess what so are 99% of all women). People are always under some misguided belief that men are more sexual than women -- this is totally false -- I have learned the opposite is true. Most women can outperform any man on this planet in bed and grind him into dust if they choose. I will put up a photo and me and my little boy. The only problem is a lot of women will not like this either because I have also noticed women almost never accept the children of other women and the presence of a child is very threatenting to them. It says "ex-wife on the prowl". Putting in a picture of me under a tree also is not me. Too sissy. Hey, I'm holding the tree up.... |
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And when my ex-wife finds out I am with someone again, the phone will not stop ringing from her and next she will stop bringing my son by to see me in between trying to weasel her way back into my life with her controlling behavior.
When I was first separated from her, anytime I got close to any women, she would threaten to not allow me to visit my son anymore. So I need to be careful about putting pictures of my son and me on this site. If she sees them, I stand a good chance of finding out what a steak feels like inside a microwave onion. How about photos of just me, no trees or babies ... |
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OK. I'll find a tlv-hv (tree) to get a photo under. I can't wait to meet you...
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Yes, women can be very good in bed. It does not mean we are as "sexual" as men. That is a very misguided belief that many men hold. Sex for men is really about biological need, a natural impulse, physicality. For women it's not so much the act of sex that is appealing (while enjoyable it tends to be sweaty and a lot of work which is why it's also the first thing to leave most marriages!). What women get out of it is more emotional... belonging, intimacy, acceptance, the feeling of being wanted and desired. Those feeling MUST be present for a woman to want or enjoy sex. If any woman says differently, they are LYING! If you come right off the bat with the sexuality without first building the others, it's a sure way to chase off anything but a one-night stand or an addictive (rather than committed) relationship. Keep the pic though if you'd like... it's not a bad one. You look handsome. I can only speak of my first impressions of what you might be looking for. I'm not the type to sell someone out. If you want honesty, I'm your gal. If you want smoke up your a**, I won't comment any further.
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Yes, women can be very good in bed. It does not mean we are as "sexual" as men. That is a very misguided belief that many men hold. Sex for men is really about biological need, a natural impulse, physicality. For women it's not so much the act of sex that is appealing (while enjoyable it tends to be sweaty and a lot of work which is why it's also the first thing to leave most marriages!). What women get out of it is more emotional... belonging, intimacy, acceptance, the feeling of being wanted and desired. Those feeling MUST be present for a woman to want or enjoy sex. If any woman says differently, they are LYING! If you come right off the bat with the sexuality without first building the others, it's a sure way to chase off anything but a one-night stand or an addictive (rather than committed) relationship. Keep the pic though if you'd like... it's not a bad one. You look handsome. I can only speak of my first impressions of what you might be looking for. I'm not the type to sell someone out. If you want honesty, I'm your gal. If you want smoke up your a**, I won't comment any further. I'm going to disagree with ya on this.. and I'm not lying... There are times when we gals just get strait up horny also..and feel the need to quench a desire for sex. I have enjoyed the act of sex without an emotion attachment... |
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Please by all means continue.
Women are more sexual than men in my experience -- it is their nature. Society brainwashes many of them into a different path and believing the opposite to gratify the male ego, but the truth is, female of all species of mammals are capable of killing and devouring their own young when their survival demands it. No man should ever believe he is going to get in the way of a female -- period. They also are the center of human reproducitve success, and yes, they are the most sexual beings on planet earth, and thank goodness this is true or we would not all be here. :-) Jeff |
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Ok, but where did that "horniness" come from? Unemotional sex provides about the same benfits as a night with a vibrator. What makes you turn to a man for that gratification? I think too many women today lie to themselves and to men about their need and desire for sex. Men WANT to hear that we like it as much as they do. Men have a built in carnal need to spread the seed that women just aren't equipped with. Can you really say that there was NO emotion in the sex? If the answer is yes then 1) didn't you feel icky and unfulfilled? and 2) can you honestly say it was any good? Now really, be honest with yourself.
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And when my ex-wife finds out I am with someone again, the phone will not stop ringing from her and next she will stop bringing my son by to see me in between trying to weasel her way back into my life with her controlling behavior. When I was first separated from her, anytime I got close to any women, she would threaten to not allow me to visit my son anymore. So I need to be careful about putting pictures of my son and me on this site. If she sees them, I stand a good chance of finding out what a steak feels like inside a microwave onion. How about photos of just me, no trees or babies ... Hi, you were concerned about your profile revealing maybe too much and you got bombarded on your photo in the shower. Then as I read on I see that your ex-wife consumes your thoughts and actions and could cause the S.W.A.T. Team to go into action. Sounds like her attorney is better than yours that she uses your son as a pawn. Shame on her. |
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We are also equipped with colorful feathers like many tropical birds we use to wow the female to ensure reproductive success. DNA is so cruel ... it only carea about making copies of itself ... Isn't that ehst this is all about?
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The Divine Feminine.......
your right, women have been brainwashed that sex is for their man, their wifely duty, to bear children... It's quite alright for us to actually enjoy it and just want it. I thought we covered all this during the 70's..humm guess not. |
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Ok, but where did that "horniness" come from? Unemotional sex provides about the same benfits as a night with a vibrator. What makes you turn to a man for that gratification? I think too many women today lie to themselves and to men about their need and desire for sex. Men WANT to hear that we like it as much as they do. Men have a built in carnal need to spread the seed that women just aren't equipped with. Can you really say that there was NO emotion in the sex? If the answer is yes then 1) didn't you feel icky and unfulfilled? and 2) can you honestly say it was any good? Now really, be honest with yourself. your key word the is "about"... About the same as a vibrator. And yes, I can honestly say I have had sex with someone where there was no emotional attachment and after wards I got up, got dressed and left...and it can be satisfying physically. I felt sticky but not icky. There is a difference between f**king and making love.... |
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I live in Utah, and here, women are king. When you split up, mom gets the kids, and since it is a mormon state, women have the right to dump you and get another dad. I am used to it. Shame on her? You bet, I had it with her two years before we broke up -- and my son was the victim of all of it.
She did everything she could to destroy every good feeling I ever had about her, and then one day she had the gall to walk up to me and say "can we still be friends?" I had become so numb from all of it, I can't feel anything at all about her anymore, and good riddance. But I love my little boy, and I spend as much time with him as I can. |
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Yes, and look at what has happened to marriage since the 70s. 50% divorce rate? Don't get me wrong, women's lib helped in a lot of ways. It also did a lot of damage. It masculinized women to the point that now we feminize our men. We turn them into our girlfriend. We lure them in with "Oh, yes, I just ADORE sex" until they marry us and... oops, just kidding! Why not just be honest up front. When I have sex, it is not good to me unless I'm in love with you. I am not satisfied unless I trust you. We walk around thinking that not only are we equal to men (yes we are), but that we are the same as men. Then we wonder why divorce rates are so high, so many children are growing up lost without two parents to show them what a healthy relationship looks like.
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I agree, nature can be cruel, lol. But it is what it is! Have you ever compared male and female peacocks? The male is so beautiful and his sounds are almost soothing. Then you look at the ugly gray female with the loud squawking... ugh.
 We are also equipped with colorful feathers like many tropical birds we use to wow the female to ensure reproductive success. DNA is so cruel ... it only carea about making copies of itself ... Isn't that ehst this is all about? |
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After screwing up my own life in two marriages, I learned that the secret to a long term relationship is the ability to FORGIVE each other. This is where I went wrong and the women in my life went wrong.
Both men and women are the same in this area -- when a partner does something to get under our skin, we keep a blackbord in our head and keep count -- don't do this -- let it go. If you love them, let it go. If they cheat on you, confront them and inform them you now have the right to cheat as many times of they did, but still forgive them (and don't cheat on them, just make them think about it). If they love you, they will forgive you. All of my relationships failed because of this fact. Too bad it took me 49 years to learn it .... |
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Yes, and look at what has happened to marriage since the 70s. 50% divorce rate? Don't get me wrong, women's lib helped in a lot of ways. It also did a lot of damage. It masculinized women to the point that now we feminize our men. We turn them into our girlfriend. We lure them in with "Oh, yes, I just ADORE sex" until they marry us and... oops, just kidding! Why not just be honest up front. When I have sex, it is not good to me unless I'm in love with you. I am not satisfied unless I trust you. We walk around thinking that not only are we equal to men (yes we are), but that we are the same as men. Then we wonder why divorce rates are so high, so many children are growing up lost without two parents to show them what a healthy relationship looks like. I agree with you on some points you have made here. And of course an emotional attachment is the most loving way to have sex. Sometimes is not the case.. and as we get older we look more for the emotional part..I know I do. Women can just enjoy the physical aspect of it, or I will speak for myself on that...I can and have. |
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