Topic: Guys?
wraithme66's photo
Sun 08/09/09 04:57 PM
How many of you repeatedly wind up in the "FRIEND ZONE"? And are you absolutely sick to death of it? I used to have women throwing themselves at me... But lately it seems I've lost my edge. Any ideas?

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 08/09/09 04:58 PM
Age about 10 yrs :wink:

wraithme66's photo
Sun 08/09/09 04:58 PM
Edited by wraithme66 on Sun 08/09/09 04:59 PM

Age about 10 yrs :wink:


Not you... You don't count. How are you though?

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 08/09/09 04:59 PM
Rats foiled again... laugh

misstina2's photo
Sun 08/09/09 04:59 PM
flowerforyou stay positive and enjoy life someone will come alongflowerforyou

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sun 08/09/09 04:59 PM
and why do they become so resentful of it... ohwell

Jess642's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:00 PM

How many of you repeatedly wind up in the "FRIEND ZONE"? And are you absolutely sick to death of it? I used to have women throwing themselves at me... But lately it seems I've lost my edge. Any ideas?


Trying a little too hard?


Thinking more about getting laid, than learning people?


We crafty women can smell that a mile away...:wink: laugh

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:00 PM


Age about 10 yrs :wink:


Not you... You don't count. How are you though?



I'm good sweetie... How are you?

wraithme66's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:01 PM

and why do they become so resentful of it... ohwell


I already have waaaayyyyy too many female friends that I'm extremely attracted to as friends.

Peachiepoohie's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:01 PM

How many of you repeatedly wind up in the "FRIEND ZONE"? And are you absolutely sick to death of it? I used to have women throwing themselves at me... But lately it seems I've lost my edge. Any ideas?

I'll throw myself at you...but onyl if you promise to catch me...

no photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:02 PM

How many of you repeatedly wind up in the "FRIEND ZONE"? And are you absolutely sick to death of it? I used to have women throwing themselves at me... But lately it seems I've lost my edge. Any ideas?


Well, most of my friends have been female since I was about 15 -- I just get along with them better -- since I've been on dating sites, I've discovered there just isn't anybody out there I want to date, so I just gave up on the idea of finding a compatible partner -- but I'm fine with the whole friend thing.....

wraithme66's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:03 PM


How many of you repeatedly wind up in the "FRIEND ZONE"? And are you absolutely sick to death of it? I used to have women throwing themselves at me... But lately it seems I've lost my edge. Any ideas?

I'll throw myself at you...but onyl if you promise to catch me...


I always catch...

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:04 PM


How many of you repeatedly wind up in the "FRIEND ZONE"? And are you absolutely sick to death of it? I used to have women throwing themselves at me... But lately it seems I've lost my edge. Any ideas?


Trying a little too hard?


Thinking more about getting laid, than learning people?


We crafty women can smell that a mile away...:wink: laugh


exactly.

when a guy refuses to consider being my friend for the time being and wants to rush right onto declaring love after 2 weeks... you kinda get the idea that he isn't really interested in knowing you. ohwell


earthytaurus76's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:06 PM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Sun 08/09/09 05:06 PM
you sure that its not you have thrown away old childish ways and ideals, and maybe your putting off a different vibe cos you are more well rounded?

wraithme66's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:11 PM
Edited by wraithme66 on Sun 08/09/09 05:14 PM
I do admit that I'm level, and well rounded... But I do still have sex appeal without wanting sex. I'm just tired of women coming my way due to attraction, and then only wanting to be friends after months of effort. And no, I don't try too hard, and yes I do try. (not just about sex) I'm talking about the whole package. The entire aspects of a relationship. Too many people too easily separate sex with love, and care. Oh... And in noo way am I desperate, or co-dependant.

John1932's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:12 PM



How many of you repeatedly wind up in the "FRIEND ZONE"? And are you absolutely sick to death of it? I used to have women throwing themselves at me... But lately it seems I've lost my edge. Any ideas?


Trying a little too hard?


Thinking more about getting laid, than learning people?


We crafty women can smell that a mile away...:wink: laugh


exactly.

when a guy refuses to consider being my friend for the time being and wants to rush right onto declaring love after 2 weeks... you kinda get the idea that he isn't really interested in knowing you. ohwell




Yea it takes at least 3 weeks, C'mon give it some time, I like to go a least a month before I declare love.. LOL


no photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:15 PM
I don't usually "date" per se, I get to know the person as a friend first, then you can pretty much tell if you would be at least compatible enough to try a relationship. Although when I was younger there was one guy that I did go out with for a couple weeks, and had to relegate him to the friend zone, I felt bad, but the feelings just weren't there. I have to add though, that 19 years later...we're still friends.:smile:

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/09/09 10:17 PM
I live in the friend zone too... c'est la vie.