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ok let's not freak out. it's my sister's boyfriend's camera. so it's not like it's some random camera i hadn't seen before... it WAS off. no i didn't look at the footage. no i don't rent. ...but the fact that it was not in plain view and pointing to my bed had me freaked out a little... am i being paranoid? If you didn't place it there... Heck ya! Might be wired WiFi... or some such... Recording device could be as far away as 200' or more. |
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ok let's not freak out. it's my sister's boyfriend's camera. so it's not like it's some random camera i hadn't seen before... it WAS off. no i didn't look at the footage. no i don't rent. ...but the fact that it was not in plain view and pointing to my bed had me freaked out a little... am i being paranoid? If you didn't place it there... Heck ya! Might be wired WiFi... or some such... Recording device could be as far away as 200' or more. 
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Just for poops & giggles let's say you walked into your bedroom and there was a 30 0 6 rifle propped up between books pointed at your bed. Would you shine it on if it wasn't loaded? Looky, I don't care what it is, if I didn't put it in my home IT DOES NOT BELONG THERE and whoever put it there is going to have some 'splaining to do. I wonder who this character is going to visually rape next.
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I tend to agree with the anology.
But unfortuneately people don't want to think they let someone "that dangerous" in their home life. They think a sexual preditor will have horns or something that will be obvious. That if he was going to rape her he would already done it. Or raped the girlfriend. She probably thinks she is giving him sex he will be satisfied. But it doesn't have anything to do with sex. When he does, and I really believe it is only a matter of time that he tries, they won't believe her. The sister will just say she is being unfair or trying to get more attention. If Jazz tries to defend herself they will say she hurt him. Bad situation. Jazz probably doesn't have a lot of choices about living anywhere else. |
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so... what happened was... mum talked to the boyfriend about new rules regarding his visits to see his girlfriend. restricted access to the house excluding the bedrooms, and only when she (my sister) is at home. (no they haven't broken up). oldest sister talked to other sister. this escalated into a huge fight in which latter sister accused family of not caring about her and taking my side. she said her boyfriend just wanted to take an innocent non-sexual picture/video of me sleeping. as for me, now that there are rules in place about his visits, i'm satisfied that i have my privacy back and do not feel going to the police would be necessary (or very fruitful, considering there's no evidence). i'm sorry if this displeases some of you who think i'm being stupid for settling for anything less than dismemberment or capital punishment, but that's how i chose to leave it for now, especially considering the camera was off when i found it. going on my knowledge and experience (5 years) i think it's little bit alarmist to assume he's going to suddenly go against character and physically harm me. i think he's gotten the message, from myself and my family, to stay away from me. thanks for the support  i'm now ready to put this issue behind me. Jazz, I'm honestly surprised that your sister is staying with him after what he has done. She truly is in denial. IMO, she should have stood up to him when he was going into your bedroom.
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so... what happened was... mum talked to the boyfriend about new rules regarding his visits to see his girlfriend. restricted access to the house excluding the bedrooms, and only when she (my sister) is at home. (no they haven't broken up). oldest sister talked to other sister. this escalated into a huge fight in which latter sister accused family of not caring about her and taking my side. she said her boyfriend just wanted to take an innocent non-sexual picture/video of me sleeping. as for me, now that there are rules in place about his visits, i'm satisfied that i have my privacy back and do not feel going to the police would be necessary (or very fruitful, considering there's no evidence). i'm sorry if this displeases some of you who think i'm being stupid for settling for anything less than dismemberment or capital punishment, but that's how i chose to leave it for now, especially considering the camera was off when i found it. going on my knowledge and experience (5 years) i think it's little bit alarmist to assume he's going to suddenly go against character and physically harm me. i think he's gotten the message, from myself and my family, to stay away from me. thanks for the support i'm now ready to put this issue behind me. Jazz, I'm honestly surprised that your sister is staying with him after what he has done. She truly is in denial. IMO, she should have stood up to him when he was going into your bedroom. I'm going to play devil's advocate here: Maybe sis is "into" the whole thing. |
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so... what happened was... mum talked to the boyfriend about new rules regarding his visits to see his girlfriend. restricted access to the house excluding the bedrooms, and only when she (my sister) is at home. (no they haven't broken up). oldest sister talked to other sister. this escalated into a huge fight in which latter sister accused family of not caring about her and taking my side. she said her boyfriend just wanted to take an innocent non-sexual picture/video of me sleeping. as for me, now that there are rules in place about his visits, i'm satisfied that i have my privacy back and do not feel going to the police would be necessary (or very fruitful, considering there's no evidence). i'm sorry if this displeases some of you who think i'm being stupid for settling for anything less than dismemberment or capital punishment, but that's how i chose to leave it for now, especially considering the camera was off when i found it. going on my knowledge and experience (5 years) i think it's little bit alarmist to assume he's going to suddenly go against character and physically harm me. i think he's gotten the message, from myself and my family, to stay away from me. thanks for the support i'm now ready to put this issue behind me. Jazz, I'm honestly surprised that your sister is staying with him after what he has done. She truly is in denial. IMO, she should have stood up to him when he was going into your bedroom. I'm going to play devil's advocate here: Maybe sis is "into" the whole thing. 
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so... what happened was... mum talked to the boyfriend about new rules regarding his visits to see his girlfriend. restricted access to the house excluding the bedrooms, and only when she (my sister) is at home. (no they haven't broken up). oldest sister talked to other sister. this escalated into a huge fight in which latter sister accused family of not caring about her and taking my side. she said her boyfriend just wanted to take an innocent non-sexual picture/video of me sleeping. as for me, now that there are rules in place about his visits, i'm satisfied that i have my privacy back and do not feel going to the police would be necessary (or very fruitful, considering there's no evidence). i'm sorry if this displeases some of you who think i'm being stupid for settling for anything less than dismemberment or capital punishment, but that's how i chose to leave it for now, especially considering the camera was off when i found it. going on my knowledge and experience (5 years) i think it's little bit alarmist to assume he's going to suddenly go against character and physically harm me. i think he's gotten the message, from myself and my family, to stay away from me. thanks for the support i'm now ready to put this issue behind me. Jazz, don't misunderstand the masses, they are only trying to protect you. I would have chosen a different way to go about this, but ultimately this is your decision. I respect your choice, just a small favor I ask on behalf of a lot of us here, just keep an eye open. Don't be so trusting, and seek help (family/friends/law) if and when you feel the need. I truly hope all works out for you. Fran
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Edited by
JasmineInglewood
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Mon 08/10/09 12:47 PM
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My family (mum and sister) was just as shocked and outraged by what happened as I was, maybe even more so. They have taken steps to ensure this doesn't happen again. The incident was an isolated one. I think he's learned his lesson, and yes, I will be a little more wary of him from now on.
I appreciate the advice and concern but I really think it's over now.
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now this wouldn't have been like one of mirrors hypotheticals that got outta hand would it? please no.
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My family (mum and sister) was just as shocked and outraged by what happened as I was, maybe even more so. They have taken steps to ensure this doesn't happen again. The incident was an isolated one. I think he's learned his lesson, and yes, I will be a little more wary of him from now on. I appreciate the advice and concern but I really think it's over now. Jas, Please consider a lock for your door. Lock it when you're gone and lock it when you're sleeping.
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now this wouldn't have been like one of mirrors hypotheticals that got outta hand would it? please no. 
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 This thread must not die
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This thread must not die too late. let us all bow our heads and say a brief prayer for the dead thread. okay amen. |
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This thread must not die too late. let us all bow our heads and say a brief prayer for the dead thread. okay amen.  This is one of the best threads that has been posted in a while It must live
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My guess is Jas would prefer it to die and to move on from the whole thing. So i will probably make this my last post.
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