Topic: Why?
talldub's photo
Thu 08/06/09 04:58 PM


aren't there people who have both good looks and stellar personalities?



<===== Yep!

Maudred's photo
Thu 08/06/09 04:59 PM



how come all the good looking guys have to be arseholes in the examples that men give?

aren't there people who have both good looks and stellar personalities?




lol true enough, im being judgemental... Not, im just saying though... why cant those girls even just...talk to me? although I do admit, these pictures are pretty bad. :P


Look, dude.

It's like this....

Some of them put that stuff in their profile because it's the Politically Correct thing to say so that they don't seem shallow.

Some of them put that stuff there because they really think they want that.

Some of them put that stuff there because it sounds good...but they don't really KNOW what they want.

Whatever the case may be, if they don't find you attractive, they are not going to answer. If they Do answer, it will be a polite ( or maybe not so polite ) brush off.

It's just that simple.



Oh I know, lol I meet some girls, some girls dont respond, I just hate being single so im venting, Might as well do it anonimously (My spelling is crap. :P) then in person right?

writer_gurl's photo
Thu 08/06/09 04:59 PM
tsk, tsk, tsk....I haven't gotten an email from you in awhile...Finally getting too old:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:



I mean...poor youflowerforyou






no photo
Thu 08/06/09 04:59 PM
Is this ANOTHER nice guy thread? Do you want, really, suggestions or are you just whining? And if people tell you what you don't want to hear, are you going to get all pissy? Or do you just want people to say awww poor you and agree with everything you say?


papersmile's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:00 PM


how come all the good looking guys have to be arseholes in the examples that men give?

aren't there people who have both good looks and stellar personalities?




lol true enough, im being judgemental... Not, im just saying though... why cant those girls even just...talk to me? although I do admit, these pictures are pretty bad. :P


i don't know what their reasons are, but i used to write back to every single email i received, unless they were rude or sexual in content.

it didn't take me long to realize that a lot of men, if they didn't like the reception they got, would turn around whatever it was i said, in a cruel attempt to upset and/or insult me.

it didn't take me long to stop replying to random email, regardless of the content and/or the photo.

it's too bad that the few bad apples ruined the orchard for me (even though i am no longer looking to date).

no photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:03 PM
YES it is me!

Did you ever think, it was not the women????

YOUR wanting something that you want! or feel that you deserve! but are you really looking at the Women and Who she is!

Eyes are deceiving i proved that yesterday! We want what we see, but what about the inner soul of a person.

Why not look for the women that fits you, instead of trying to go full speed and slam into the dump truck...

Why not cruse and let the wind blow through your hair, relax and find the women who will adore you for you.

Sometimes, Men want women for all the wrong reasons. It is sad but true! Think really hard tonight. Why your not happy, now think about the last 3 friends, what did they say about you... write it down.

and now write down the real women you need in your life, not what you want.... that is the mistake.. but what you really need in your life.

I'm stay single because Men never new what they wanted and most women are single because Men don't know what they want...

Women! we! know what we want! we just cant find it because men chose not to be it for us! Joseph was a great man for he loved marry and helped her raise her child! Good men are hard to find.
but Great women are even harder to find? Right.. Wrong we are everywere... So think harder.. who you want.. not what you need.

Maudred's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:04 PM

tsk, tsk, tsk....I haven't gotten an email from you in awhile...Finally getting too old:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:



I mean...poor youflowerforyou








You turn me down so often sally, im used to it by now. :P
Its still worth it to stalk you around facebook/text/ and mingle...
-eye twitch-

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:04 PM




Why do woman put "I want a nice caring guy who will treat me right" But then not even respond to emails? lol (A lot of them do it!...not all, but at least the ones I try for. :P)

Why dont they put what they really want "I want a pretty boy who doesnt have to meet any of my expectations, as long as he looks good! Who cares that he doesnt have a job and beats me...Hes got a nice 6 pack."

Blah... Im just venting. Helps to right it out. >.>




:smile: Are these forum posters or lurkers you are emailing?:smile:


From what ive seen no one in a 50 mile radius posts. lol



:smile: the non-posters almost never answer:smile:





That's true!

Maudred's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:05 PM

tsk, tsk, tsk....I haven't gotten an email from you in awhile...Finally getting too old:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:



I mean...poor youflowerforyou








Whos to old? I like the wise ones. :P

no photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:05 PM

Why do woman put "I want a nice caring guy who will treat me right" But then not even respond to emails? lol (A lot of them do it!...not all, but at least the ones I try for. :P)

Why dont they put what they really want "I want a pretty boy who doesnt have to meet any of my expectations, as long as he looks good! Who cares that he doesnt have a job and beats me...Hes got a nice 6 pack."

Blah... Im just venting. Helps to right it out. >.>



Sorry babe...but it's gonna take at least a cold 12pk to get me to turn my head...:wink:

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:08 PM
I'm stay single because Men never new what they wanted and most women are single because Men don't know what they want...


And women are any better about knowing what they want??

cottonelle's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:08 PM
lets throw rocks at them

Maudred's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:08 PM


Why do woman put "I want a nice caring guy who will treat me right" But then not even respond to emails? lol (A lot of them do it!...not all, but at least the ones I try for. :P)

Why dont they put what they really want "I want a pretty boy who doesnt have to meet any of my expectations, as long as he looks good! Who cares that he doesnt have a job and beats me...Hes got a nice 6 pack."

Blah... Im just venting. Helps to right it out. >.>



Sorry babe...but it's gonna take at least a cold 12pk to get me to turn my head...:wink:


but...but...all I have is a 6pk and a 2lt of jack..

Maudred's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:11 PM
Ok ok, so I think I have this down now... Woman know what they want, pretty men can be pretty cool, woman need beer to look at me, and aparently non posters....all of MN except for me... wont respond? lol

MelodyGirl's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:11 PM
slaphead Nice guy/girl thread again!

He or she is just not that into you and that is the straight truth for anyone who feels butthurt when dealing with rejection or no return contact. winking

It happens to all of us -- even the evil ones. Evil people finish last too! Rights, Pats? tongue2 :angel:

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:13 PM
Your so right melody !

papersmile's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:14 PM

Ok ok, so I think I have this down now... Woman know what they want, pretty men can be pretty cool, woman need beer to look at me, and aparently non posters....all of MN except for me... wont respond? lol


haha, at least you've got a sense of humour about it all!

no photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:14 PM

Ok ok, so I think I have this down now... Woman know what they want, pretty men can be pretty cool, woman need beer to look at me, and aparently non posters....all of MN except for me... wont respond? lol



Oh! See? Now THAT'S your problem! You live in Minnesota! Yumpin' yimminy! laugh

cottonelle's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:15 PM
He or she is just not that into you

i just watched that movie yesturday. didnt like it, was boring

newarkjw's photo
Thu 08/06/09 05:16 PM

Ok ok, so I think I have this down now... Woman know what they want, pretty men can be pretty cool, woman need beer to look at me, and aparently non posters....all of MN except for me... wont respond? lol


Ding Ding Ding... Feel free to grab a teddy bear off the middle shelf.....smokin