Topic: help need advice!
MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/07/09 09:51 AM


:heart: The man I love(who dumped me)started talking to me again and we've seen each other a few times.The problem is,I've been with someone for 3 months who loves me,but I can never love him because my heart is with the other guy. :heart: What should I do? :heart:




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Jhavez's photo
Fri 08/07/09 10:47 AM

:heart: The man I love(who dumped me)started talking to me again and we've seen each other a few times.The problem is,I've been with someone for 3 months who loves me,but I can never love him because my heart is with the other guy. :heart: What should I do? :heart:




If a man dumps you once, he can do it again. Are you willing to take a chance on getting dumped again? Move on and forget about him.

As for the man you have been with for 3 months, you need to tell him that you "can never love him" so that he can move on and find someone that can.

Start fresh once you get over the person you think you can't get over.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/07/09 12:01 PM


:heart: The man I love(who dumped me)started talking to me again and we've seen each other a few times.The problem is,I've been with someone for 3 months who loves me,but I can never love him because my heart is with the other guy. :heart: What should I do? :heart:




If a man dumps you once, he can do it again. Are you willing to take a chance on getting dumped again? Move on and forget about him.

As for the man you have been with for 3 months, you need to tell him that you "can never love him" so that he can move on and find someone that can.

Start fresh once you get over the person you think you can't get over.
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vwpinto's photo
Fri 08/07/09 04:30 PM
If you go back to your old relationship you are merely surrendering yourself to that person who left you once. Going back to him will let him think he can do it again. My advice take it or leave it is to move on and give this other guy a shot.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 08/08/09 10:20 AM

If you go back to your old relationship you are merely surrendering yourself to that person who left you once. Going back to him will let him think he can do it again. My advice take it or leave it is to move on and give this other guy a shot.
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PATSFAN's photo
Sat 08/08/09 11:09 AM
pitchfork String them both along, twice the sex & milk them both foe cashpitchfork

ClayFace2009's photo
Sat 08/08/09 11:14 AM






Mr T don't like other guys messin with his woman


Lol, i love it. Mr. T is the man!

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Sat 08/08/09 11:27 AM







Mr T don't like other guys messin with his woman


Lol, i love it. Mr. T is the man!
WHAT U TALK-N BOUT FOOL???????
That LINE made him,,,,wink,lol

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 08/08/09 11:59 AM

pitchfork String them both along, twice the sex & milk them both foe cashpitchfork
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MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 08/08/09 01:24 PM







Mr T don't like other guys messin with his woman


Lol, i love it. Mr. T is the man!
drinks

s1owhand's photo
Sat 08/08/09 01:31 PM

:heart: The man I love(who dumped me)started talking to me again and we've seen each other a few times.The problem is,I've been with someone for 3 months who loves me,but I can never love him because my heart is with the other guy. :heart: What should I do? :heart:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9abuQVho5I

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 08/08/09 02:58 PM


:heart: The man I love(who dumped me)started talking to me again and we've seen each other a few times.The problem is,I've been with someone for 3 months who loves me,but I can never love him because my heart is with the other guy. :heart: What should I do? :heart:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9abuQVho5I
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MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 08/09/09 03:30 PM








Mr T don't like other guys messin with his woman


Lol, i love it. Mr. T is the man!
WHAT U TALK-N BOUT FOOL???????
That LINE made him,,,,wink,lol
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Happygirl00's photo
Sun 08/09/09 04:28 PM
You cant begin a relationship with one man while ur still in love with another..its just not fair.

Tell the guy ur with that u still love the other one...u dont know where it will be going with the one u love, but u owe it to the new guy to either be with him wholeheartedly or leave him alone and let him find someone who WILL love him .

As for you and the guy ur still in love with...tread carefully...he dint love u enuff to stay with you the first time...so if u go back with him be prepared to be hurt again...if it works this time..wonderful..but dont pin all ur hopes on him...its not likely he will love you enuff this time either...

Good luck hun...I wish u the best..


blujag's photo
Sun 08/09/09 04:31 PM
If the guy dumped you once, he'll do it again. Without some kind of major life changing experience, people tend to make the same decisions over and over. You got a guy who says eh loves you now, I'd go with that if he is making you happy.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/11/09 09:24 AM

You cant begin a relationship with one man while ur still in love with another..its just not fair.

Tell the guy ur with that u still love the other one...u dont know where it will be going with the one u love, but u owe it to the new guy to either be with him wholeheartedly or leave him alone and let him find someone who WILL love him .

As for you and the guy ur still in love with...tread carefully...he dint love u enuff to stay with you the first time...so if u go back with him be prepared to be hurt again...if it works this time..wonderful..but dont pin all ur hopes on him...its not likely he will love you enuff this time either...

Good luck hun...I wish u the best..


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MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/11/09 09:48 AM
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MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/12/09 05:23 PM
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dilligaf1981's photo
Wed 08/12/09 05:27 PM
I dont see love happening in 3 months, sorry. noway

Jess642's photo
Wed 08/12/09 06:38 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Wed 08/12/09 06:39 PM
Chrissy.....


clear the head.

Thank the man you have been seeing, and GENTLY allow him to know your truth.


As to the ex....


I can only offer my story.

In love with an amazing man, incredible highs, and lows, and all things that are a part of great love...even parting.

A couple of years apart..... we dated others, slept with others, attempted to create relationships with others...

and through all of it, a time to reflect together what it was we had had together... an honesty we had not had whilst together...a deepening, a trusting, an accepting.


He is the current...he is the One...for right now...my ex...

We needed the time apart to grow together.