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If your seeing one guy, why would you indulge the ex? You are not being fair to the guy at all. You should let him go to find love with someone who can love him and resolve your own issues with the ex BEFORE you see other men. My opinion of course.
This is the stuff soap operas are made of. 
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 The man I love(who dumped me)started talking to me again and we've seen each other a few times.The problem is,I've been with someone for 3 months who loves me,but I can never love him because my heart is with the other guy. What should I do? If you can't love him, let him go. Actually after having read what others say I got to amend my advice slightly. DUMP THEM BOTH! TxsSun is so VERY, VERY right. If you can't love the guy you are with and the ex wants back DUMP THEM BOTH! Don't live a lie. Before you give yourself to a relationship of ANY KIND you got to be true to YOURSELF! You will only propagate more heart break all around otherwise and hurt yourself badly in the process. With close to 7 BILLION people on this planet there has to be another man that fits you and treats you better out there. Maybe you need time to focus more on yourself rather than masking over what you may be feeling deeper inside of yourself with a relationship that covers over your personal issues. Remember this is not about you and your ex any more, this is about your current involvement, your ex, and you! It will only get worst unless you address this properly! i am not exactly an authority and I have very limited information to go on but in my evaluation this confusion means you are having a massive internal moral dilemma at hand! What do you say to yourself facing the mirror about this? |
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If your seeing one guy, why would you indulge the ex? You are not being fair to the guy at all. You should let him go to find love with someone who can love him and resolve your own issues with the ex BEFORE you see other men. My opinion of course. This is the stuff soap operas are made of. |
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I sort of find this odd in two ways...
In that people get themselves mixed up in these situations and then have to ask the question... |
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I sort of find this odd in two ways... In that people get themselves mixed up in these situations and then have to ask the question... |
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Sounds like you are setting up guy #2 for a big time screw over. He is gonna be the one to really get ****ed out of the deal. But, if you can sleep at night....it is your call. I have been done dirty in that way....I still hate that lying self centered b**** to this day.
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Just do what ya think is right!! 
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Sounds like you should let both of them go and stay single for awhile. Figure out what you want and not hurt either one by leading one or the other on.
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Sounds like you are setting up guy #2 for a big time screw over. He is gonna be the one to really get ****ed out of the deal. But, if you can sleep at night....it is your call. I have been done dirty in that way....I still hate that lying self centered b**** to this day. 
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If your seeing one guy, why would you indulge the ex? You are not being fair to the guy at all. You should let him go to find love with someone who can love him and resolve your own issues with the ex BEFORE you see other men. My opinion of course. This is the stuff soap operas are made of.
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The man I love(who dumped me)started talking to me again and we've seen each other a few times.The problem is,I've been with someone for 3 months who loves me,but I can never love him because my heart is with the other guy. What should I do? If you can't love him, let him go. Actually after having read what others say I got to amend my advice slightly. DUMP THEM BOTH! TxsSun is so VERY, VERY right. If you can't love the guy you are with and the ex wants back DUMP THEM BOTH! Don't live a lie. Before you give yourself to a relationship of ANY KIND you got to be true to YOURSELF! You will only propagate more heart break all around otherwise and hurt yourself badly in the process. With close to 7 BILLION people on this planet there has to be another man that fits you and treats you better out there. Maybe you need time to focus more on yourself rather than masking over what you may be feeling deeper inside of yourself with a relationship that covers over your personal issues. Remember this is not about you and your ex any more, this is about your current involvement, your ex, and you! It will only get worst unless you address this properly! i am not exactly an authority and I have very limited information to go on but in my evaluation this confusion means you are having a massive internal moral dilemma at hand! What do you say to yourself facing the mirror about this? 
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Edited by
John1932
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Thu 08/06/09 02:41 PM
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The man I love(who dumped me)started talking to me again and we've seen each other a few times.The problem is,I've been with someone for 3 months who loves me,but I can never love him because my heart is with the other guy. What should I do? If you dump the guy your with now, then your no daammned different than then the jerk that dumped you or all the other two timing losers, so you two deserve each other. You said you have seen each other a couple of times, so that means your cheating on the current guy. Save the sob story and save those of us looking for real love the hassle and quit ruining the real guys, with real love to give. Sorry so harsh.... Naahhhhhh no Im not.... |
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 I made up the question and gave it to Tina to post
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If your seeing one guy, why would you indulge the ex? You are not being fair to the guy at all. You should let him go to find love with someone who can love him and resolve your own issues with the ex BEFORE you see other men. My opinion of course. This is the stuff soap operas are made of. This is the stuff Mingle is made of. 
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I made up the question and gave it to Tina to post Then You suck LOL 
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I made up the question and gave it to Tina to post Then You suck LOL
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I made up the question and gave it to Tina to post OH MIRROR ,,,,,"HOW COULD YOU"???????????????????????????? lol,lol,lol,lol,lol, Hey,,to be real,,,THESE ARE PRINTED LETTERS FORNED AND FASIONED BY ANY MIND,,,,,so,,,we or I take all issues of hurting someone to heart,and the pope could have posed the question,,my answer would still be the same... BUT, many can THINK wrong of ANYONE who puts their name on that post,wink,,, HELL,look at me,lol,because my english skills suck,,MANY have me in their minds as a stupid individual because of my type.. I know different,,,but many draw that accessment and , end of story,,,Iam4u is stupid, or not educated so I am not reading what he writes,wink.. Ask me if I really care?, wink,,NO,,wink,,not at all.. |
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Be honest with yourself and with him, do not hurt him tell him the truth.
As for the other guy? love is great but he already dumped you so be careful. |
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I made up the question and gave it to Tina to post OH MIRROR ,,,,,"HOW COULD YOU"???????????????????????????? lol,lol,lol,lol,lol, Hey,,to be real,,,THESE ARE PRINTED LETTERS FORNED AND FASIONED BY ANY MIND,,,,,so,,,we or I take all issues of hurting someone to heart,and the pope could have posed the question,,my answer would still be the same... BUT, many can THINK wrong of ANYONE who puts their name on that post,wink,,, HELL,look at me,lol,because my english skills suck,,MANY have me in their minds as a stupid individual because of my type.. I know different,,,but many draw that accessment and , end of story,,,Iam4u is stupid, or not educated so I am not reading what he writes,wink.. Ask me if I really care?, wink,,NO,,wink,,not at all.. Your one of our friends, of course we make fun of you.. C'mon for real... LOL my brother cant type or spell very well, but he is one of the smart guys I know. If they judge you entirely by a picture and typing, then they SUCK too. |
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Just on a side note. All we saw was that the first guy dumped her, we just assumed he was a jerk, how do we know FOR SURE that she didnt do something to deserve the dumping.
Yea I know this post turned out to be Mirror's imagination, but I think that is a strong point to be made. |
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