Topic: what do yall think i should do PLEASE READ..
WolfEyez's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:36 PM
Honestly, no one else can really tell you what to do. I've been in that situation and its not a decision you can make just like that. You need to really think about what YOU want to do. What's best for YOU AND the unborn baby. I wish you the best of luck and no matter what you choose to do, I completely understand.

lilmissjessica's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:36 PM
i was asking yall for a opion not to judge me ok if your going to that i reather not here it i got a mom and dad and dont need another one yall dont know what i been though so take that **** somewhere else

WolfEyez's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:40 PM

i was asking yall for a opion not to judge me ok if your going to that i reather not here it i got a mom and dad and dont need another one yall dont know what i been though so take that **** somewhere else


ignore the negative people, jess. there's plenty of positive people trying to help

lilmissjessica's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:42 PM
like you are never **** up lol

WolfEyez's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:43 PM

like you are never **** up lol


what?

lilmissjessica's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:45 PM
i am trying but everyone thinks it easy being me no i got a two yr old i struggle to raise everyday by myself her dad dont help and i was so wasted i dont remeber having sex bascally i was raped and i am not keeping the baby because i cant raise it and i want to give someone who cant have kids it because i know they would love the baby and be able to raise it

WolfEyez's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:47 PM

i am trying but everyone thinks it easy being me no i got a two yr old i struggle to raise everyday by myself her dad dont help and i was so wasted i dont remeber having sex bascally i was raped and i am not keeping the baby because i cant raise it and i want to give someone who cant have kids it because i know they would love the baby and be able to raise it


If you know that's what you want to do then by all means. I just don't want you to regret anything which is why i said decide carefully

lilmissjessica's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:49 PM


i am trying but everyone thinks it easy being me no i got a two yr old i struggle to raise everyday by myself her dad dont help and i was so wasted i dont remeber having sex bascally i was raped and i am not keeping the baby because i cant raise it and i want to give someone who cant have kids it because i know they would love the baby and be able to raise it


If you know that's what you want to do then by all means. I just don't want you to regret anything which is why i said decide carefully

i will

WolfEyez's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:51 PM
alright, take care, jess.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:52 PM

i am trying but everyone thinks it easy being me no i got a two yr old i struggle to raise everyday by myself her dad dont help and i was so wasted i dont remeber having sex bascally i was raped and i am not keeping the baby because i cant raise it and i want to give someone who cant have kids it because i know they would love the baby and be able to raise it


I was not trying to be mean.. I have raised 3 boys by myself, and it is difficult. You said in your post that you got really drunk and that is how it happened... I only suggested to not drink if that is what happens...
If I would have known I would be alone raising mine I may have given them up, was not my situation. It is a very unselfish act to give a baby to someone. Sorry if I hurt your feelings.

flowers

lilmissjessica's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:54 PM

Maybe it's time to stop drinking.....indifferent
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if that was your respones why you even write... because really i dont care what you think it not like you aint messed up in your life

mry's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:55 PM
Jessica, just so you know...I was adopted as a baby myself. I love the parents who adopted me and have no bad feelings for the woman who gave me up. My life has been just fine...the normal ups and downs but all in all just fine!

lilmissjessica's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:55 PM


i am trying but everyone thinks it easy being me no i got a two yr old i struggle to raise everyday by myself her dad dont help and i was so wasted i dont remeber having sex bascally i was raped and i am not keeping the baby because i cant raise it and i want to give someone who cant have kids it because i know they would love the baby and be able to raise it


I was not trying to be mean.. I have raised 3 boys by myself, and it is difficult. You said in your post that you got really drunk and that is how it happened... I only suggested to not drink if that is what happens...
If I would have known I would be alone raising mine I may have given them up, was not my situation. It is a very unselfish act to give a baby to someone. Sorry if I hurt your feelings.

flowers


no it not if you cant raise it and there is ppl out there that wants one so i dont care about what you have to say

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:56 PM


Maybe it's time to stop drinking.....indifferent
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if that was your respones why you even write... because really i dont care what you think it not like you aint messed up in your life
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because if drinking causes pregnancy then maybe it is time to quit...
fair enough, was just trying to apologize
no skin off my nose and I love my life. :smile:

lilmissjessica's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:57 PM

Jessica, just so you know...I was adopted as a baby myself. I love the parents who adopted me and have no bad feelings for the woman who gave me up. My life has been just fine...the normal ups and downs but all in all just fine!


i know and it not that i dont want it .. it just i struggle everyday to get by me and my two yr old and i know someone would love to have my baby and raise it and can afford it

mry's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:59 PM


Jessica, just so you know...I was adopted as a baby myself. I love the parents who adopted me and have no bad feelings for the woman who gave me up. My life has been just fine...the normal ups and downs but all in all just fine!


i know and it not that i dont want it .. it just i struggle everyday to get by me and my two yr old and i know someone would love to have my baby and raise it and can afford it


I know your young and I think its great...you could have opted for an abortion but you chose to give your child life.

mrjimmy1972's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:00 PM
do what you think is best for you and the baby. its easy for everyone else to say do this or do that.

lilmissjessica's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:03 PM



Jessica, just so you know...I was adopted as a baby myself. I love the parents who adopted me and have no bad feelings for the woman who gave me up. My life has been just fine...the normal ups and downs but all in all just fine!


i know and it not that i dont want it .. it just i struggle everyday to get by me and my two yr old and i know someone would love to have my baby and raise it and can afford it


I know your young and I think its great...you could have opted for an abortion but you chose to give your child life.


i dont believe in abortion i am going to have it i just cant raise my baby it makes me want to cry i want it but i cant keep it so i am going to give it to someone who can afford it

lilmissjessica's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:05 PM

do what you think is best for you and the baby. its easy for everyone else to say do this or do that.


i want it but i cant afford it so i am going to give it to someone who can

mry's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:05 PM
I truly think that is wonderful...if I were not so old I would adopt myself...