Cheat?

Never. Not my style

Wait a long time?

**** yea

And then he was here.....

one word? ah no, cant. But I WILL say I stop dating usually to heal, or because men i encounter are too cheap to spring for dinner or something.

i have too

Haven't stopped, but slowed down drastically Found out that the last couple were not quite who they said they were. And, they usually saved this tidbit of information for later in the game when I was really getting interested in them (or when their spouse found out they had a Mingle account; or they decided to be open and let me know they were into things I had never heard about before; OR when their probation was revoked) You get the idea...

So, slow and easy it is for me. Honesty...does it even still exist?

we've had the same men!

Ah, so you know them too, eh?

Exactly. Or you find someone suitable for you, but you aren't for them

I stopped dating men 3 years ago and never looked back since. And I dont have any regrets. Dont care what the family thinks I am finally happy.

I've definitely run into THAT one in the not too distant past.

I have never had women spread gossip or back stab me, I have never had it from a women, however......?????? men seem to be the gossip, opinionated and the ones that are not straightforward.

I guess growing up with boys, 9 on my block and 7 on my cousin block i was left to be the only girl.. Tom girl, lol i guess, and to do what they did, to think as they though and well, I guess i was the one that got them girlfriends in the end... Even though i related to men better then women... I find it is also a reason why thy do not like me any longer.

in my own mind i belive that if a man would have seen me as a friend and not a sex cimble or but really seen me as a person instead then and only then would they have ever understood me. Instead of treating me like i am a robot or a peice of meat.

Women on the other hand have the same out look so in the end a women see's me as a women as i should be seen. And most of all I am seen as a person... That is the greatest feeling ever!

I can only hope that someday in my life, that only a personality exists.

Nobody suitable? YOU got to be joking right!

suitable - meant or adapted for an occasion or use; "a tractor suitable (or fit) for heavy duty"; "not an appropriate (or fit) time for flippancy"

suitable - worthy of being chosen especially as a spouse; "the parents found the girl suitable for their son"?

I am thinking then what would be? for you?????

This should be a post! If i had to judge everyone before i felt they were perfect for me, i would have never given a man a change nor would any women alive!.

Did you know that in India, that women will not date men who do not have prestige, who do not have a good family back ground, and that is not with riches. Many men in there late 20's are not even accepted as marriage material because they do not have the ability to Cary a life time job at the same company do to education, and yet if they do chose education, and it takes them 4 to 6 yrs they are now too old for marriage and has to do with women who are not marriage minded and are too old to marry who also have not come from wealthy family's.

American Men should be honer that they have a choice of 12women to one man ratio in the united states.

That is what puzzles me! A man can have 12 women and yet Why? are we with dating sites??? unless the man is so confused of what he wants? and can not be happy with what he had in the first place.

as forth women are so picky that with society they want so much in a relationship that a man feels intimidate and can not live up to her expectations.. leaving the man with his mind wondering.. What did i do wrong...... and yet.. he did nothing wrong at all but....

over analyze the women.

Funny, I have not found that with women, I am amazed at how women relate to each other, again it is not about sex, it is about communication, it is about a deeper friendship that men for some reason has backed out of...

Men not to say you don't have depth.. you do but you stopped! you have been so bi- ch- ed- slapped that you have gotten so scared to even try again... and i can understand why... Women have changed so much in the last 30yrs.... i know i have.........

Men want so much to understand a women and yet it is right in front of there faces.. and women Gee women want a man so bad but for all the wrong reasons.

example:.. lets say a women thinks, of a man in a way that he is a worker...
1. men fix things
2. men fix things
3. men will and can fix my car, house, my life!
4. " i can not be complete with out a man?"
5. I need a man to have a healthy relationship for my kids?
6. I need a man to help pay my bills and to bring in the money!

ect. and this is just a small amount of things we need a man for.

Where it should be this:

men are to be adored, respected, nurtured, and to most of all be accepted in there state of mind of understanding that we the women are not perfect. We are to let mankind fell that they are worthy and they are wanted and needed in a women life, in a women family and in the job fores.

When men have the courage back in there souls that society has taken away.. not women.. but society... Then women will have the man that they expect to have. But when Movies portray "Pam Anderson" as a sex object and yet his wife is 240lbs, his had becomes his best friend.. and the wife becomes a wife.

When a Book of romance "Fabio" takes the place of a man heart and image of what this man who is 240lbs and bald, 57yrs old who is a mechanic. yet the women is reading a book on romance. Right then and there, her husband is not getting sex that night! But??? she is in her emotional mind.

So if we ever want to be a couple again, then we have to keep the image of each other alive. we have to see each other as a romantic partner.

That is were a women to women is different, we do not have to do any of this because the respect is there and it dose not leave, it is so deep of a understanding that there is no image that is lost.

Only to gain in a content relationship. When men understand we need contentedness, security, laughter, loyalty, and most of all commitment! then they win...

Me too

It's not me who stopped, but everyone else around me!

That's equally bad as me doing the stopping.

Hell, it's like the movie Cast Away, all I need is a volley ball Wilson as my buddy.