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what are 'gentlemens clubs'? i'm almost scared to ask
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very few want to think that their spouse or lover will frequent clubs where members of the opposite sex strip and try to suck up to them for tips they would prefer that their spouse or lover spend more time with them That sounds about right.  I think the most worrying aspect is not that anyone would frequent such clubs, but the fact that it is such an important part of a persons life that it needs to be laid out in the open so early. There is nothing particularly wrong with going to these clubs if you are single, but really it is something that you would expect most men to knock on the head once they got into a relationship. But then, if it is that vital to a person, and they arent going to stop it once in a relationship, then it probably is best to make the fact known. |
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what are 'gentlemens clubs'? i'm almost scared to ask Strip joints. |
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what are 'gentlemens clubs'? i'm almost scared to ask They are clubs full of horny sweaty men. Just ignore the naked women, and you would enjoy it. |
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very few want to think that their spouse or lover will frequent clubs where members of the opposite sex strip and try to suck up to them for tips they would prefer that their spouse or lover spend more time with them That sounds about right. I think the most worrying aspect is not that anyone would frequent such clubs, but the fact that it is such an important part of a persons life that it needs to be laid out in the open so early. There is nothing particularly wrong with going to these clubs if you are single, but really it is something that you would expect most men to knock on the head once they got into a relationship. But then, if it is that vital to a person, and they arent going to stop it once in a relationship, then it probably is best to make the fact known. Good point. |
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what are 'gentlemens clubs'? i'm almost scared to ask Strip joints. eeeeeeeeeeewwww 
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what are 'gentlemens clubs'? i'm almost scared to ask They are clubs full of horny sweaty men. Just ignore the naked women, and you would enjoy it. 
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I think it's cool you say that upfront!  Some women are a little uptight, either about their bodies or other issues, and even though they say honesty is what they want -- the truth is not always what they want to hear. If that is what you like to do -- don't pull it from your profile. You will weed-out the ladies that will give you grief for going. Some guys hide their strip club recreation because they will get grief but then they are busted for lying and hiding. Is it worth it? Hell no! Be who you are and date someone that you can tell to their face -- "I'm going to Crazy Horse with the boys. You want to come too?" Or, apply this to anything in your life. The point is always be honest and who cares about the ones you turn away? They aren't right for you anyway. Personally, I love them! Girls get better lap dances!   Where have you been all my life? You go girl!! There is nothing better than a woman who is confident in her sexuality,as opposed to little 'girls' who are affraid of it. be seeing you
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is that not a contradiction in terms? surely 'gentlemen' would not frequent such places?
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Sat 08/01/09 12:44 PM
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is that not a contradiction in terms? surely 'gentlemen' would not frequent such places? Oh but they do! Just like any other aspect of life, you will find class and trash every where you go. The higher-end clubs are called Gentlemen's Clubs and the lower class clubs are called strip clubs. Meh -- people can bring class to anything if they carry themselves with class whether it's from the stage or at the tip rail.  Or at the grocery store, or the library, or ....... |
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*shudders*
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Edited by
Winx
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Sat 08/01/09 12:41 PM
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I think it's cool you say that upfront! Some women are a little uptight, either about their bodies or other issues, and even though they say honesty is what they want -- the truth is not always what they want to hear. If that is what you like to do -- don't pull it from your profile. You will weed-out the ladies that will give you grief for going. Some guys hide their strip club recreation because they will get grief but then they are busted for lying and hiding. Is it worth it? Hell no! Be who you are and date someone that you can tell to their face -- "I'm going to Crazy Horse with the boys. You want to come too?" Or, apply this to anything in your life. The point is always be honest and who cares about the ones you turn away? They aren't right for you anyway. Personally, I love them! Girls get better lap dances! Where have you been all my life? You go girl!! There is nothing better than a woman who is confident in her sexuality,as opposed to little 'girls' who are affraid of it. be seeing you When a woman doesn't have the same lifestyle, it doesn't mean that they are little girls who are afraid of it. |
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is that not a contradiction in terms? surely 'gentlemen' would not frequent such places? Oh but they do! Just like any other aspect of life, you will find class and trash every where you go. The higher-end clubs are called Gentlemen's Clubs and the lower class clubs are called stip clubs. Meh -- people can bring class to anything if they carry themselves with class whether it's from the stage or at the tip rail. I do agree to an extent, although i seem to remember Prisoner saying that his Gentlemans Club charged $5 to get in. That is hardly high end. |
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the best lapdances are freeeeeee!
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In the interest of full disclosure,I used to date a girl who liked to go to gay male strip clubs. I used to go with her. The entertainment did nothing for me,but the club was a lot of fun. be seeing you
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In the interest of full disclosure,I used to date a girl who liked to go to gay male strip clubs. I used to go with her. The entertainment did nothing for me,but the club was a lot of fun. be seeing you see i don't care whats betwen their legs i wouldn't go there either 
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A lot of women have told me that they like my profile,except for the fact that I state I like going to gentlemens clubs. Most women in their profiles state they want an honest man. Doesn't the fact that I state I like gentlemens clubs make me honest. Would it be better to delete this aspect of my profile and lie about who I am? My way of thinking,To thy own self,be true. Ladies,you can't have it both ways. If you want me to be honest,you are going to get the whole picture,not a sanitized version for a dating site profile. be seeing you I can't speak for other women but I much prefer a man who says who he is and what he is about. That said He has to be man enough to accept if I don't like his preferences to move on to the ones who do. Personally I see an affinity for gentleman's club, even the so called classy ones, as a waste of money and asking for trouble. They have high crime statistics and bouncers for a reason. I doubt the service is that good or the place that clean, probably any other entertainment equally sexist. I am sure my gender preference doesn't appreciate the entertainment value of almost naked woman but if I want a man I would hope that my presence in his life "did it" for him in that department. I don't think that is a unique perspective. So in a way you are narrowing the field. |
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A lot of women have told me that they like my profile,except for the fact that I state I like going to gentlemens clubs. Most women in their profiles state they want an honest man. Doesn't the fact that I state I like gentlemens clubs make me honest. Would it be better to delete this aspect of my profile and lie about who I am? My way of thinking,To thy own self,be true. Ladies,you can't have it both ways. If you want me to be honest,you are going to get the whole picture,not a sanitized version for a dating site profile. be seeing you I can't speak for other women but I much prefer a man who says who he is and what he is about. That said He has to be man enough to accept if I don't like his preferences to move on to the ones who do. Personally I see an affinity for gentleman's club, even the so called classy ones, as a waste of money and asking for trouble. They have high crime statistics and bouncers for a reason. I doubt the service is that good or the place that clean, probably any other entertainment equally sexist. I am sure my gender preference doesn't appreciate the entertainment value of almost naked woman but if I want a man I would hope that my presence in his life "did it" for him in that department. I don't think that is a unique perspective. So in a way you are narrowing the field. |
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A lot of women have told me that they like my profile,except for the fact that I state I like going to gentlemens clubs. Most women in their profiles state they want an honest man. Doesn't the fact that I state I like gentlemens clubs make me honest. Would it be better to delete this aspect of my profile and lie about who I am? My way of thinking,To thy own self,be true. Ladies,you can't have it both ways. If you want me to be honest,you are going to get the whole picture,not a sanitized version for a dating site profile. be seeing you Honesty is the way to go but it doesn't mean that what you are honest about will be what the desire and want in a man. I am sure they are happy you are honest about going to strip clubs but that doesn't mean it is something they want out of a man. Just find a woman that likes what you honestly say about yourself. |
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