Topic: Online Tough Guy
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Fri 07/31/09 05:54 PM



I have a question...in the same vein...


"What about all the online 'nice' guys and gals?"





Guys: Does it make you feel cool to be a 'nice' guy online?

Ladies: What do you think of these guys? Are they who they say they are or just playing a 'nice' guy online?



it cuts both ways....huh





Even if we have our moments of bitterness sucked from us occassionally, I think you will find that the other extreme as a rule tries at least to consider other peoples feelings, and this is rarely rewarded when the nice guy's are often considered p****s with no back bone. I've made remarks today that some considered rude, although I just thought they were witty as hell designed to put some jerk in his place with a joke. I know who I am and am done concerning myself with a cynical woman or man's uneducated view of me.




Snuffy....I am asking in the same vein as online tough guys...there are plenty of online 'nice' guys, who are anything but, in real time...


huh


Perhaps I misunderstood the question, I didn't take the time to fully understand the question, but why would anyone try the facade of being a nice guy on when they really do seem to finish last. Complete jerks don't necessarilly finish first, but what I heard from women when I was new to the dating scene was that most of them seemed to get laid a whole lot more often. Later I learned it was the confidence that was sexy, but how would you convey that on a dating site. I'm dealing with an older more mature audience here though, maybe it's time I was enlightened a bit further.

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Fri 07/31/09 05:58 PM
Shut up b*tch!












Sorry man!!!! I REALLY couldn't help myself....this thread was just begging for it!!!! (you know I am cool with you dude!)

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Fri 07/31/09 05:59 PM

Guys: Does it make you feel cool to be a tough guy online?

Ladies: What do you think of these guys? Are they who they say they are or just playing a tough guy online?


Good Luck...
It's 50/50
Men say this,about Women?
Women say that,about Men?

An so the cycle of life goes on!

An so we Vent.

smokin

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Fri 07/31/09 06:04 PM













Sorry man!!!! I REALLY couldn't help myself....this thread was just begging for it!!!! (you know I am cool with you dude!)

I hope so, being called a b*tch is actually one of the few things that will set me off.

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Fri 07/31/09 06:05 PM

Guys: Does it make you feel cool to be a tough guy online?

Ladies: What do you think of these guys? Are they who they say they are or just playing a tough guy online?


People think that because they're hiding behind a computer, they can act anyway they want. I'd say usually it's a big act.

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Fri 07/31/09 06:06 PM
bigsmile What about Online Nice Guys?bigsmile

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Fri 07/31/09 06:07 PM


laugh

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Fri 07/31/09 06:08 PM
huh What if an Online Tough Guy got into a fight with an Online Nice Guy?huh

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Fri 07/31/09 06:11 PM

huh What if an Online Tough Guy got into a fight with an Online Nice Guy?huh


Words would mainly fight.laugh

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Fri 07/31/09 06:12 PM

huh What if an Online Tough Guy got into a fight with an Online Nice Guy?huh

If it were all online, it would come down to wit.

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Fri 07/31/09 06:14 PM

bigsmile What about Online Nice Guys?bigsmile


You're a #1 nice Guy,so who would fight with you online?
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Fri 07/31/09 06:15 PM


huh What if an Online Tough Guy got into a fight with an Online Nice Guy?huh

If it were all online, it would come down to wit.
:thumbsup: true:thumbsup:

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Fri 07/31/09 06:17 PM


bigsmile What about Online Nice Guys?bigsmile


You're a #1 nice Guy,so who would fight with you online?
happy
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flowerforyou I mean the crybaby type of Online Nice Guys.bigsmile Like the ones that always complain that women dont like them because they are "Nice Guys"flowerforyou

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Fri 07/31/09 06:20 PM
I always thought anyone who was really tough or for that matter really a good person wouldn't have to prove it with talk. Their reputation would just kind of preceed them.

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Fri 07/31/09 06:21 PM

Tough Guy - portrays himself as some sort of "bad-a$$" that doesn't care about anyone or anything because he's so "bad-a$$" that he doesn't need them.

This is only a thin veneer plastered on to hide someone who's been hurt...
...best to be honest and open.

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Fri 07/31/09 06:22 PM
Edited by krupa on Fri 07/31/09 06:23 PM














Sorry man!!!! I REALLY couldn't help myself....this thread was just begging for it!!!! (you know I am cool with you dude!)

I hope so, being called a b*tch is actually one of the few things that will set me off.


Believe me man...I was aiming that line at darkowl from a previous post...I thought I had hit the quote button ...

but even toward him the spirit remains the same...SOMEONE...needed to step in and just be an A-hole...

My apologies if you thought it was intended for you Snuff...Dark owl is cool..he would understand a dumb joke among the guys.

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Fri 07/31/09 06:22 PM


bigsmile What about Online Nice Guys?bigsmile


You're a #1 nice Guy,so who would fight with you online?
happy


In reality nice guys are seen as targets that won't take up for themselves by arseholes who want to beat anybody up with a minimal chance of getting thier arse kicked to disguise thier low self-esteem in front of women.

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Fri 07/31/09 06:24 PM
Tough guy? no. A guy who voices his opinion...you bet And I am not a *****....laugh

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Fri 07/31/09 06:24 PM




I have a question...in the same vein...


"What about all the online 'nice' guys and gals?"





Guys: Does it make you feel cool to be a 'nice' guy online?

Ladies: What do you think of these guys? Are they who they say they are or just playing a 'nice' guy online?



it cuts both ways....huh





Even if we have our moments of bitterness sucked from us occassionally, I think you will find that the other extreme as a rule tries at least to consider other peoples feelings, and this is rarely rewarded when the nice guy's are often considered p****s with no back bone. I've made remarks today that some considered rude, although I just thought they were witty as hell designed to put some jerk in his place with a joke. I know who I am and am done concerning myself with a cynical woman or man's uneducated view of me.




Snuffy....I am asking in the same vein as online tough guys...there are plenty of online 'nice' guys, who are anything but, in real time...


huh


Perhaps I misunderstood the question, I didn't take the time to fully understand the question, but why would anyone try the facade of being a nice guy on when they really do seem to finish last. Complete jerks don't necessarilly finish first, but what I heard from women when I was new to the dating scene was that most of them seemed to get laid a whole lot more often. Later I learned it was the confidence that was sexy, but how would you convey that on a dating site. I'm dealing with an older more mature audience here though, maybe it's time I was enlightened a bit further.

Needy, clingy guys are probably always a turn-off to a woman...he makes himself appear to be damaged goods in some way.
sad pitchfork

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Fri 07/31/09 06:25 PM



bigsmile What about Online Nice Guys?bigsmile


You're a #1 nice Guy,so who would fight with you online?
happy


In reality nice guys are seen as targets that won't take up for themselves by arseholes who want to beat anybody up with a minimal chance of getting thier arse kicked to disguise thier low self-esteem in front of women.

That's just what usually happens in the real world