These are two KIND of people who see world from different filter; Mind and heart respectively. Ofcourse there are crossovers... however majority falls in this to class.

Thats why when men say they can't understand women...they actually can't; or vice versa when women say the same for men.

The problem is, we, the world at large, are still not accepting this knowing. Men keep expeting women to behave as per their mental frame annd vice versa. Why don't we accept the reality of men and women being the way they are and chill.

Let their be joy, companionship, fun... if that defines itself into a relation....be it.....if not....so be it....but CHILL !!!

Say what???

YOU said all of this, and yet you want women only for sex?... on your post...that is a double standard.

YOU want someone to be there for you, you want someone to share all your feelings and emotions and life together..

Then your books you are reading are words on paper but were are the actions behind the words...

come live with me, help me take care of my family, leave your home, your friends, your family, and come and move in with me and start a new family. Get a new job so you can help be part of a family since we all work together in paying the bills and stuff..

If you ever want to use that book for real life then it is sacrafising your life for the other.

It will tell you, to be the man you are to be, To do what ever the women wants you and needs you to do to make her happy, or the kids, it is a book that states one thing... Don't be self centered! Man! love your partner from head to toe, make her life happy and you will be happy, give and give and give until you die because that is when you will realize how much you have been loved from your family.

it tells the man that women will love them if they make her a bath, women will love him if he romances you, women will love you if you help with dishes, or vacuuming.

This Book is in the past, outdated for all because Humans, internet and society have changed.

We are now different. Women are the Men and Men are becoming the women in the household.

Women want men to Make the world spin, and at the same time Clean it up and on top of that they want the Man to Save the children!

While Women work, work, work, work, work. in the end..

Men still after reading this book and other books like this do not have a women in there arms because one thing.... Experience..

Some men Know how to "get along" with women and others are still reading books to find out how to get along with women!

Thats my $25900000.00 % to this topic..

if it worked I would be with a partner! Right!???????

Throw the books away...throw the pseudo knowledge away...


We're all human.

All those books do is create more separation.

i don't know about the rest of yall but i came from my mothers uterus

Have you never been told you have your head stuck up Uranus?




I have....

Each person is an individual. A book that tells you how to treat "women" will only work on the one person that the author wrote about.

yeah i've been told that before

Helloooo????

I happen to ahve a title of topic...thats misunderstood to be influenced by a book with same title......come on.

I haven't even read the book!

And I know for self....its my life....my meanings. NONE that I don't want and have to because of society.

I guess nobody has any idea of what I said.

Sorry I was busy 'Moon'-ing JT....

what was the question?

you can Moon me any time!

And aliens are from earth...doesn't mean they get along any better.

There are definitely some men from Mars around here of late.

I wonder how martians taste...uhh...well, err...erhm...

I'm glad i have obtained this information today

I actually have read the book and it was a very accurate study of the differences in the way men and women think.

the thought processes are very different and not always compatible. I would recomend reading it to anyone and it would improve the way men and women understand each other

Are you? Really? Come on now Pats, really?

I wasn't really paying attention, I just read the title and figured it to be some sort of cliche on men and women and how we "must" be from different planets because neither of us makes sense...then I realized none of us make sense simply because we never did make any.

Woo Woo you just gave me an idea!

You look different this morning, Robin. Like the new look

How interesting it is...I don't mean any disrespect to either, men or women, for their way of looking at life. Its just that they are different. Once I understood this, it explained a lot of arguments that I came across on difference of opinions between men and women. Well...fire bunrs...u accept or not....water makes you wet...u like it or not....same way...they are different kind of people....not really from another planet though...LOL.

Everyone's view is different, regardless of sex. Women do not have the same view as other women, the same as men. Beauty of diversity.

Beautifully said. Cheers pal.