Do I love you because your beautiful, or are you beautiful because I love you

Do you have times when you meet someone you are not terribly attracted to them physically and as you get to know the person they get more and more better looking? Then all of a sudden they are so hot and you don't know why you didn't see it before..

Yes.

It's possible

yes

When we first meet, we meet the 'outside', it's what we see...as we learn someone, we meet the 'inside', it's what we 'hear'...the inner beauty.

Yea, I have heard everyone looks good after enough drinks...
That isn't really what I meant Pats.

yes, what you're feeling is their charisma and inner projection.....and maybe pheromones, lol.

Yes

Love is blind is what you are saying

I guess I could say that with the guy that works at Gold's Gym. When he showed me around the gym, I thought he was kinda cute...a little short...but not shorter than me. I guess I didn't take too much of an interest in him. But when I kept going to the gym for a workout, I seemed to get excited to see him...or hoped I ran into him. Now, it's gotten to the point to where I'm dreaming about him! WTH! Now my room mate wants me to ask him out! How am I going to do that?! Oh brother...what did I get myself into.

It goes the opposite way also. Good looking and then they open their mouth and turn very undesirable.

Now this is funny Mr. Patsfan

So are you saying ? Yes as in Yes

Yea, I have experienced that a few times..

I know, but it's funny

some seem very attractive on the outside then when you see what's on the inside it turn one off.. narrow minded and very cynical or pessimistic get's old very fast.. the attraction has lost it's luster..

Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder, But when the other senses contribute! Yes, there are some very attractive Ladies that when they speak, the "nails on the chalkboard" kicks you right in the bottom of the spine!

Yes Ma'am, I have experienced that. But what about the times in my experience when I've talked with a woman on a phone chat line and she and I get along great together, but when I see her...she's hideous? I don't like to be rude about it, but I could not see myself waking up everyday the rest of my life with some women I've met and/or talked to, even though they may have a heart of gold. Not only that, but they say I'm the cutest thing they've ever seen, and then comes guilt about trying to let em down easy, etc.