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Topic: Hypothetical scenario...maybe
hereformore's photo
Wed 07/29/09 11:45 PM
When a guy tells his long time female friend that he has had a date and she proceeds to tell him that she is interested in him and would like to date him...what the hell does that mean? Aside from the fact that long term friends are now dating that is.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 07/29/09 11:51 PM
Who knows?

Could be that she just wants to keep him hanging.

Maybe she's just screwing with his head.

Maybe she has " feelings " for him but they weren't strong enough to bother telling him about until he actually started dating someone.

Such is the enigma that is ' woman '.

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Wed 07/29/09 11:54 PM

When a guy tells his long time female friend that he has had a date and she proceeds to tell him that she is interested in him and would like to date him...what the hell does that mean? Aside from the fact that long term friends are now dating that is.


Oh no, now she wants love triangle?

hereformore's photo
Wed 07/29/09 11:55 PM


When a guy tells his long time female friend that he has had a date and she proceeds to tell him that she is interested in him and would like to date him...what the hell does that mean? Aside from the fact that long term friends are now dating that is.


Oh no, now she wants love triangle?

noway

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Wed 07/29/09 11:55 PM

When a guy tells his long time female friend that he has had a date and she proceeds to tell him that she is interested in him and would like to date him...what the hell does that mean? Aside from the fact that long term friends are now dating that is.


Said long-time female friend probably can't stomach the fact that her male friend is going out on a date with someone NOT his friend. Consider it a form of cattiness.

southern_bee's photo
Thu 07/30/09 12:06 AM
shes a hooker

Jtevans's photo
Thu 07/30/09 12:09 AM

shes a hooker



and i've probably dated her

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Thu 07/30/09 12:09 AM
She waited to long to reveal her feelings but now she had to let him know her feelings because he is slipping away.

southern_bee's photo
Thu 07/30/09 12:14 AM


shes a hooker



and i've probably dated her


shoulda known lol

earthytaurus76's photo
Thu 07/30/09 12:17 AM
Theres nothing missing here. What do you think could be missing?


Obviously dating includes possiblity for things other than friendship, romance, closeness, possible intimacy, maybe sex, looking or working toward a relationship.

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 07/30/09 12:55 AM
She wants them to be a Jerry Springer episode.

hereformore's photo
Thu 07/30/09 05:21 AM

Theres nothing missing here. What do you think could be missing?


Obviously dating includes possiblity for things other than friendship, romance, closeness, possible intimacy, maybe sex, looking or working toward a relationship.

I don't know what's missing. I am curious as to why the long term friend would show interest after finding out he went out on a date. Why didn't she express interest before his date with someone else?
I dunno, just looking for feed back on it.

earthytaurus76's photo
Thu 07/30/09 05:23 AM


Theres nothing missing here. What do you think could be missing?


Obviously dating includes possiblity for things other than friendship, romance, closeness, possible intimacy, maybe sex, looking or working toward a relationship.

I don't know what's missing. I am curious as to why the long term friend would show interest after finding out he went out on a date. Why didn't she express interest before his date with someone else?
I dunno, just looking for feed back on it.



Maybe because she doesnt want to miss her chance and her feelings have been more known to her, ad stronger for him as of recent.

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 07/30/09 05:26 AM
She's either jelous,,,,

Or she wants to date him!!!!

One or the other


Ask her what it's about!!!:heart:

lionsbrew's photo
Thu 07/30/09 05:32 AM

When a guy tells his long time female friend that he has had a date and she proceeds to tell him that she is interested in him and would like to date him...what the hell does that mean? Aside from the fact that long term friends are now dating that is.


Interesting question. Sounds to me like she percieves her friend as a safety net and the thought of losing has made her want him now that someone else does.

galendgirl's photo
Thu 07/30/09 05:36 AM

When a guy tells his long time female friend that he has had a date and she proceeds to tell him that she is interested in him and would like to date him...what the hell does that mean? Aside from the fact that long term friends are now dating that is.


Sounds like she wants to date him. Maybe it's been going on in her head for a long time and is legitimately just coming up because she doesn't want to lose him to another woman and knows it's now or never. Maybe it's a game. I guess he needs to decide if he wants to go out and they need to decide if they want to change the face of the relationship. Actually...just saying that she has interest probably already HAS changed the relationship.

hereformore's photo
Thu 07/30/09 05:42 AM


When a guy tells his long time female friend that he has had a date and she proceeds to tell him that she is interested in him and would like to date him...what the hell does that mean? Aside from the fact that long term friends are now dating that is.


Interesting question. Sounds to me like she percieves her friend as a safety net and the thought of losing has made her want him now that someone else does.

I had that thought myself, interesting coming from a mans point of view.

hereformore's photo
Thu 07/30/09 05:43 AM


shes a hooker



and i've probably dated her

I know you're kidding, you're too cute to have to pay for it.

hereformore's photo
Thu 07/30/09 05:44 AM

She's either jelous,,,,

Or she wants to date him!!!!

One or the other


Ask her what it's about!!!:heart:

Would that I could.:smile: Thank you

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Thu 07/30/09 08:20 AM
1. Jealousy OR
2. Realizes that it may be now or never for her to express her feelings

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