Topic: Is it pathetic that...
chickayoshi's photo
Tue 07/28/09 07:57 PM
As long as you are not wearing this right now:



Then you are not a loser. It's good to have friends off line. You can get out and socialize, breathe fresh air, drink and dine, and so on. It's also good to have friends online. You get to meet people far away and just have some fun. It doesn't matter how many friends you have online. I think it's normal...in my opinion.

InMyMemory's photo
Tue 07/28/09 08:03 PM
Edited by InMyMemory on Tue 07/28/09 08:03 PM

As long as you are not wearing this right now:



Then you are not a loser. It's good to have friends off line. You can get out and socialize, breathe fresh air, drink and dine, and so on. It's also good to have friends online. You get to meet people far away and just have some fun. It doesn't matter how many friends you have online. I think it's normal...in my opinion.


Wait whats wrong with him? :tongue:

chickayoshi's photo
Tue 07/28/09 08:05 PM


Then you are not a loser. It's good to have friends off line. You can get out and socialize, breathe fresh air, drink and dine, and so on. It's also good to have friends online. You get to meet people far away and just have some fun. It doesn't matter how many friends you have online. I think it's normal...in my opinion.


Wait whats wrong with him? :tongue:


Don't wear the Giraffe costume!!! LOL. laugh

InMyMemory's photo
Tue 07/28/09 08:07 PM
But the giraffe costume is so cool! Think about how popular he must have been at school! Lol...

chickayoshi's photo
Tue 07/28/09 08:11 PM

But the giraffe costume is so cool! Think about how popular he must have been at school! Lol...


rofl So cool? Well in that case, where it in public. Then get someone to take a picture of you in it. :laughing: You will definitely be noticed then.

no photo
Tue 07/28/09 08:19 PM

We use online dating? One of my "friends", who is no longer, and who I only knew online, ignored me for a long time. And finally I got through to her for some honesty and closure, and she just told me I was a freak for having a crush on her and never even seeing her, and that it was pathetic and i was a loser.

I politely responded that I don't care what someone looks like I liked you for your personality/interests...But that doesn't matter really, to her or to anyone but myself. I know who I am and I don't need her to tell me what I am or am not, only I know.

That said...How pathetic is it? How much of a loser freak am I for having a crush on someone I considered a friend that I had never seen?\

Or was she just the outlier and online dating has become pretty normal in the current times?

Dude, I could write a book on,,,,WTF???,lol
I have had a friend for about eight months who out of the blue? Called me a freak and acted like I was perverted, all because I said, you never talk sexy to me anymore? lol
As she had many times in emails talked with me about dating, her love life ad what she was looking for in life, then THAT happen, And she replied as why so you can get your rocks off.......WTF???
That, blew me away as to even a SMALL WAY of how or why she could ever think that of me? So now I am I guess not her friend,lol LIKE I
now feel she has some deep issues that scare the hell out of me,lol.
Then there was the one who got my attentions on post, then in emails, and she had a great profile, totally believible and she was ALWAYS there if I dropped her an email. she talked so lovely,
in her words, she acted like she was falling for me, and hinted she was wanting to say she loved me, when I told her THAT can't happen in my mind, and that if I did feel that for a lady, it would never be said unless,-in-person. Not in email or by phone,I hold them three words with GREAT RESPECT,,so THEN,,,,,,,,she tells me that,,
Lesten your to sweet a guy for me to do THIS to you anymore, see my friends and I were on here one night and one of them looked up your profile, and she's a big girl. SHE didn't like your comments about not dating BIG women,so she wanted ME to lead you own,,My whole profile and pics are fake as well as all of our talks together,,I am sorry,,if I was older I could fall for the guy you are..by the time you read this I will have deactivated,,,SHE DID,SHE was gone and that was two months of emails and she told me THIS on Christmas eve two years ago here...
Then there have been MANY more fakes who I have had hit on me or me them,,most one can tell because tey only have one pic, and will never want to talk on the phone,,lol
But THIS PLACE is filled with MANY who just play mind games, or HAVE SOMEONE ELSE, and like the attention they get on here, then there are the ones who mess around on their spouse,,,,and they SUCK!!!!!
But anyway, I would not lose ANY sleep over someone dropping you as a friend when THEY have showed you there not wired right in the first place,wink...
I still believe that I can find a good woman here who also carries in her mind,,truth,romance,and wanting a life partner,wink..
So I KEEP ON KEEPIN-ON...and take most with a large grain of salt,,,lol I wish you luck and many friends here...

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Tue 07/28/09 08:21 PM
to some, the internet is all fake.

to you, its not.

its that simple.

so you wanna date someone online? find a girl who's down for that.

but some girls need face to face contact to confirm feelings.

InMyMemory's photo
Tue 07/28/09 08:28 PM
Yea, I mean I don't want to date online...I'm no opposed to the idea, but I would prefer to be able to see and touch and hold someone.

The only thing that was very weird about this is that it was so out of the blue.

iam4u, yea man...I guess I'm learning that sometimes there are depths to people that you just don't know.

As do you, I take this incident worth a grain of salt, just curious and I thank everyone who has posted their opinions on this, thanks.

John1932's photo
Tue 07/28/09 08:59 PM
Are you kidding, I have had crushes on a lot of woman I have never met, I mean who hasn't. Hot sexy celebs, a babysitter, school teacher, the girl next door. That was as a teen, and I still have the same crushes on the same people and they are old, but I don't care, it's what was in my mind at the time. lol


no photo
Tue 07/28/09 10:49 PM





People more readily drop needless walls when conversing in writing.
Writing seems to make people more...introspective, and honest.
Also, if you're friends with someone who might have otherwise cut you off in mid-sentence, dominating first your conversation, then attempting to dominate YOU, conversing via email, IM, etc., WAS probably frustrating for her.
...and fighting those pesky honesty feelings all the time probably wasn't very comfortable for her, either.
She probably did you a favor.
Celebrate.drinker


I prefer to dominate all things.smokin


bigsmile


i'm just sayin'laugh


I didn't say anything,
Im just listening and fantasizing blushing


about what?:tongue:

John1932's photo
Tue 07/28/09 11:10 PM






People more readily drop needless walls when conversing in writing.
Writing seems to make people more...introspective, and honest.
Also, if you're friends with someone who might have otherwise cut you off in mid-sentence, dominating first your conversation, then attempting to dominate YOU, conversing via email, IM, etc., WAS probably frustrating for her.
...and fighting those pesky honesty feelings all the time probably wasn't very comfortable for her, either.
She probably did you a favor.
Celebrate.drinker


I prefer to dominate all things.smokin


bigsmile


i'm just sayin'laugh


I didn't say anything,
Im just listening and fantasizing blushing


about what?:tongue:


You dominating:angel:
and stuff, lol smooched

southern_bee's photo
Tue 07/28/09 11:14 PM
your not a freak shes just realllllly sheltered i guess online dating has had a spike in popularity anyway

no photo
Tue 07/28/09 11:24 PM

your not a freak shes just realllllly sheltered i guess online dating has had a spike in popularity anyway


Yeah in some places it has. When I lived in Alabama I used to go in chat rooms and the majority of the guys in there were from tiny little towns where they had nothing better to do and they claimed all the local women were too young, too old, or married.

no photo
Tue 07/28/09 11:24 PM







People more readily drop needless walls when conversing in writing.
Writing seems to make people more...introspective, and honest.
Also, if you're friends with someone who might have otherwise cut you off in mid-sentence, dominating first your conversation, then attempting to dominate YOU, conversing via email, IM, etc., WAS probably frustrating for her.
...and fighting those pesky honesty feelings all the time probably wasn't very comfortable for her, either.
She probably did you a favor.
Celebrate.drinker


I prefer to dominate all things.smokin


bigsmile


i'm just sayin'laugh


I didn't say anything,
Im just listening and fantasizing blushing


about what?:tongue:


You dominating:angel:
and stuff, lol smooched


alrighty thenglasses

John1932's photo
Tue 07/28/09 11:25 PM
No, your not crazy and she is not crazy, you both just look at it differently, she thinks it is weird, you and some of us here think is OK. You have differences that couldn't be worked out, thats part of getting to know someone lol

no photo
Tue 07/28/09 11:48 PM
I'm crazy and proud of it.shades

John1932's photo
Wed 07/29/09 12:03 AM

I'm crazy and proud of it.shades

Didn't I just see you somewhere else?
You look different..

Ohhhh , you changed shirts..bigsmile


Your lovely kind of crazy, not a stupid kind of crazy:wink:
There is a differencehappy

no photo
Wed 07/29/09 02:02 AM


I'm crazy and proud of it.shades

Didn't I just see you somewhere else?
You look different..

Ohhhh , you changed shirts..bigsmile


Your lovely kind of crazy, not a stupid kind of crazy:wink:
There is a differencehappy


i'm the crazy girl all the other crazy people dream about.....:wink:

John1932's photo
Wed 07/29/09 02:05 AM



I'm crazy and proud of it.shades

Didn't I just see you somewhere else?
You look different..

Ohhhh , you changed shirts..bigsmile


Your lovely kind of crazy, not a stupid kind of crazy:wink:
There is a differencehappy


i'm the crazy girl all the other crazy people dream about.....:wink:


Yea, its true, Im still dreaming about the dominating part..:banana:

no photo
Wed 07/29/09 08:32 AM




I'm crazy and proud of it.shades

Didn't I just see you somewhere else?
You look different..

Ohhhh , you changed shirts..bigsmile


Your lovely kind of crazy, not a stupid kind of crazy:wink:
There is a differencehappy


i'm the crazy girl all the other crazy people dream about.....:wink:


Yea, its true, Im still dreaming about the dominating part..:banana:


laugh