first off i know when this happened.3 weeks ago.i picked up a fare at
the one local bar.she is either 19 or 20.i know her to see her.on that
night she told me about some problems that she had.being in a small
town(pop.5,000) gossip starts fast.she found out her b/f was/is gay.i
gave her a hug when we got to her destination.she told me that i am very
very nice and hot.she asked me out right there in the cab.i told her
that i would think about it.she said that that was fine.i told her flat
out that i am not even divorced yet.she still said no problem hun.i will
admit that there is a 14/15 year difference.what should i do?i will
admit that she is hot.i like her,she treats me with respect.

Don't do it. You say you're not even divorced yet.

In a small town full of gossip you don't want junk to fall on you. What
are her motives? Look at that situation she's coming out of. People say
alot of things when depressed

well she some how got my cell number.she just called and said "joe what
i said that one special night i meant."i told her that i need to get a
divorce first.she said that she will wait for me.

wait if you want to.

Isn't that a sign, she some how got your number. Kind of strange..crazy
chick to me lol.

give her an I OWE U raincheck for being hot, and let it slide for about
a month before you act on it.

tried that duffy.i tried that in the past.i ALWAYS wound up with a
stalker.

I wouldn't act on it -- but your cell number??!

what small town still lets a person drink at 19 or 20? I think I'd also
be careful. Now adays they may look 19 or 20 but she could be underage
and you could end up in jail.

Don't do it!

Things are too strange.

I also wouldn't even think about it until there was an aids test as
well....if he's gay..and he's still with her, that could be very
dangerous! Plus the fact your still married...she's still
married...another mark against...But, it's your life so I hope you live
it wisely.

it was her bf..she's not married.

Regardless the chick is crazy. People say anything when upset or
depressed

She could be out for $$

well i know she is over 18.alberta,canada allows anyone 18 and older to
enter a bar/lounge.

Do you want to be with her?

You keep defending the situation

Sorry, but is your mind already made up to do this?

Good for you for waiting til your divorce comes through to get involved
with anyone else, IMHO that is the decent and honorable thing to do.

I would also insist on an AIDS test before getting intimate with anyone
who has a gay ex, it's much better to be safe and sure than sorry.

well i talked to her grandma (she resides at her grandma's)about this
twerp of a b/f that she has.granny says he always has a bulge when her
grandson enters the room.she said to me that the next time she sees that
it is getting "the pin".ouch.rolling pin to there would hurt.i asked her
if she could and would get the disease test done.she said yes.

that's right SheNerd!

Summerlady get's the vibe i'm getting lol

not granny. this gal. i meant in re to the blood test.just talked to
himbriefly.he said she wanted to "do it" but he could not go "boing".

You're a very smart young woman, Boredchick! (Great posts, BTW.)

if you are still married , leave it alone