Topic: A peaceful chat
GhostWhisperer's photo
Mon 05/21/07 11:49 AM
I agree, RedAngel, what a concept. I hope it will catch on.

flowerforyou

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Mon 05/21/07 11:50 AM
Hi Ghost Whisper :)

GhostWhisperer's photo
Mon 05/21/07 11:53 AM
Hiya Bored!! How are you today? Still bored? LOL.....Have a fantastic
week!!

flowerforyou

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Mon 05/21/07 11:55 AM
LOL I'm actually not too bored. Maybe I should change my name lol.

I had my first day of summer classes. -_- 9am - 12pm for the next 3
weeks, EVERY single day. LOL

And guess what? It's speech out of all the subjects.
It makes me tense and nervous at times lol

GhostWhisperer's photo
Mon 05/21/07 11:59 AM
I am sure you will do great! I am not sure who thought of this, but
think of everyone listening sitting there in there underwear & it may
help put you at ease speaking in front of a large group. As long as you
don't laugh too much at the isea of it!

laugh laugh

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Mon 05/21/07 12:01 PM
The thing is I can create an effective presentation content-wise but
when it comes to speaking it that's when I'm a wreck lol.

My cop outs are..

Browsing over the top of the heads of the audience
Look at the back wall
Use multimedia in presentation to get their focus
Slideshow is the easiet cop out!

GhostWhisperer's photo
Mon 05/21/07 12:07 PM
I talk with a lot of people for a living, so it has always been easy for
me to speak in front of a group, whether it is 3 people or 300 people.
They are just people, human like we are. I tend to find the friendliest
faces to make eye contact with.

:smile: :wink:

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Mon 05/21/07 12:13 PM
I always find it helpful to do breathing exercises, it sort of calms me
down.

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Mon 05/21/07 12:44 PM
thankyou invisible and ghostwhisper

I will try the breathing. I've done the friendly face and it works :)
haha

Now I need to find a friendly face other than my instructor

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Mon 05/21/07 12:46 PM
Sit down for 5 minutes before you start, close your eyes and just listen
to yourself breathing, take deep breaths and concentrate only on them,
sort of empties your mind when you are under stress.

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Mon 05/21/07 12:48 PM
:) I'm going to try it. I have this class EVERY SINGLE day O_o LOL

The worst part is every SINGLE week there is one major speech then
informal speeches EVERYDAY!

The informal speeches are random topics. You have 5 minutes to prepare
or nothing at all sometimes.

How long did it take you whisper and invisible to get used to it?

I can organize and write speeches in an interesting way but I hate
speaking them

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Mon 05/21/07 12:51 PM
For me it was a necessity to get used to it very fast.
I'm sort of shy and 6 years ago I started to work as a waitress,
the first few days I'd rather have gone under ground that to a table.

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Mon 05/21/07 12:54 PM
aww lol. My major is Public Relations and people automatically assume I
have to do thousands of speeches because of the word "public" LOL

There are some career paths were it's behind the scene representation of
a client. Then there is the direct communication with the media for
crisis management.

In other words, some jobs in PR I don't have to. To make myself more
marketable I need to be able to do it on the spot. O_o

I despise it so lol..

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Mon 05/21/07 12:54 PM
The blank stares and deer in headlights look gets me EVERY single time
O_o

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Mon 05/21/07 12:57 PM
Another suggestion, if there is someone you know in the group, just
focus on them as you speak. If you are comfortable with them that might
help.

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Mon 05/21/07 01:02 PM
Thanx Gamail LOL my last business presentation in my class I stared at
my friend on the back wall the majority of the time I had to speak lol.

She was the "friendly face." She so smiley :)

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Mon 05/21/07 03:41 PM
Totally ruined my forum here guys!!! :-)

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Mon 05/21/07 06:06 PM
no we didn't we're having a peaceful discussion on topics that will help
eachother. They're helping get over the nervousness in public speaking

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Mon 05/21/07 06:06 PM
LOL :P

RainbowTrout's photo
Mon 05/21/07 06:10 PM
Oh, wow you mean there are others who worship gizzards. I love eating at
KFC.