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Ah, but then that leads to a thread I started not too long ago about kissing and making out and it all leading to sex. That's absolutely not true. you might be hanging out with guys who can't keep it in their pants. Oh, we had a LONG discussion. I know that now, but it's something I'll have to actually EXPERIENCE to really believe. I'd rather he think I'm not interested, than think I am interested and he doesn't feel the same. Been there, done that, hated it.
Agreed. It ALWAYS sucks to be turned down, but especially sucks to be made fun of for your interest. Exactly. So if I act like I don't give a damn, he'll just chalk it up to me being a stuck up b!tch, not a desperate one, LOL |
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so...does playing hard to get work? gentlemen if she is playing hard to get what do you do? 2 words....Naked Twister 
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so...does playing hard to get work? gentlemen if she is playing hard to get what do you do? I go "meh..." and go back to fiddling with my new MP3 player. |
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im too dang tired to chase somebody plus id probably trip and fall and i dont need to go to the e.r for the 5th time this year!
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How are things going with you & Dean?
Good I'm playin' hard to get... Haven't You slept with hime the past 3 nights Ok so not "real" hard to get |
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so...does playing hard to get work? gentlemen if she is playing hard to get what do you do? I would become 'un-get-able'... and get-away... I assume a person is NOT playing games because I am not. so I would feel that she had no real interest... and give her space to f''k with someone else. 
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Why play hard to get? Doing that I'm just depriving myself.
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so...does playing hard to get work? gentlemen if she is playing hard to get what do you do? if she's playing hard to get or any other stupid little game i lose all interest. games belong on tables in vegas, not in dating. |
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quick question
is there such a thing as easy to get? |
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Easy to get physically? Yeah. Easy to get emotionally? No. And there shouldn't be.
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ok.
just wonderin' thank you! |
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I aim to please!
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i`d just shoot her in the back, and move on  
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I don't give them a chance to play hard to get, cause i don't make the first move, maybe it is something I need to work on but I have been played on way to many times. If they are interested, they better show me in some way shape or form, if they don't, I keep on moving.
In our world today, guys are scrutinized, for making a first move, we are labeled as, someone who just wants in your pants, or Flick em and leave em. Its cause all the other a holes out there made things harder for the legit ones. Maybe I am self conscience, or maybe I am just protecting my heart, I don't know, but if I don't see any lingering interest then I don't give any interest. If a woman is playing hard to get, it tells me she is just being cautious or she has no interest in you but don't want to be rude. Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know. I NEVER CLAIMED TO UNDERSTAND THEM, I just wanna see them naked, is that so bad, HUH!!!! IS IT!!! lol |
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John,
If a guy comes up to me and gives me a line, I think he wants in my pants. If a guy comes up to me and asks about what I'm reading/watching/thinking, (IE starts a REAL conversation), I think maybe he wants to know ME. Both are men making the first move. It depends on HOW the move is made. |
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<------ toooo old 4 hard to get! Hasta la vista
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Edited by
John1932
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Wed 07/29/09 05:05 AM
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John, If a guy comes up to me and gives me a line, I think he wants in my pants. If a guy comes up to me and asks about what I'm reading/watching/thinking, (IE starts a REAL conversation), I think maybe he wants to know ME. Both are men making the first move. It depends on HOW the move is made. LOL, if I walk up to you and give you a line, its cause we are fishing, or cause I need you to hold one end while I tie the other end to a tree while we are out camping. My point is, I don't give them kind of lines. At the same time I don't walk up to some random lady and ask her what she is reading cause simple gestures like that have been taken wrong so many times. As I admitted in my previous post, it is something I have to work on. On the other hand if she shows me some interest then I may just ask her who her who her favorite author is, of what kind of music she likes. If she is interested and so am I, and neither one of us make a move, then it is our loss. It is something I have to learn to get over. I'm just saying, I don't mess with hard to get, cause it is to much drama. |
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so...does playing hard to get work? gentlemen if she is playing hard to get what do you do? lol. |
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so...does playing hard to get work? gentlemen if she is playing hard to get what do you do? lol. LOL, exactly..... |
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Not everyone is a good match. If someone is not interested be respectful and move on.
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