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Topic: It's not you...
snarkytwain's photo
Fri 07/24/09 09:56 PM



Well the funny thing is, everything somebody does is because of themselves, their perspective, their experiences. Even if somebody tells you that you did something to upset them, it is their mind that caused the upset.


Like I said, that phrase has a lot of truth to it. Problem is, most the people who use it don't know that.


Oh indeed, I dont always read down before i first post. drinks


Great minds think alike! drinker

JasmineInglewood's photo
Fri 07/24/09 10:01 PM
i've said that "line" a few times in my life(or something to that effect). for me it wasn't a line, it was genuinely a case of me not being ready, willing and able to be the best girlfriend i can be.

mayhaps it's not a line at all and simply the truth?

CKeef's photo
Fri 07/24/09 10:01 PM

Great minds think alike! drinker


Ever heard of/read the book The 4 Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz?

Elaborates beautifully on this among other mental insights

Jill298's photo
Fri 07/24/09 10:04 PM
It really was him tho and really not me. Dude has issues. :angry:

nvkikigirl's photo
Fri 07/24/09 10:06 PM

i've said that "line" a few times in my life(or something to that effect). for me it wasn't a line, it was genuinely a case of me not being ready, willing and able to be the best girlfriend i can be.

mayhaps it's not a line at all and simply the truth?



that is very true, and from a serious point, could be a possibility....flowerforyou flowerforyou


im curious, did you elaborate when you said that, like you said, its not you, its me because im not ready, etc, etc...or was no explanation needed?

flowerforyou

JasmineInglewood's photo
Fri 07/24/09 10:08 PM
yes, i elaborated. at least that much is owed.

nvkikigirl's photo
Fri 07/24/09 10:09 PM
drinker drinker

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 07/24/09 10:09 PM
Congratulations.

snarkytwain's photo
Fri 07/24/09 10:38 PM


Great minds think alike! drinker


Ever heard of/read the book The 4 Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz?

Elaborates beautifully on this among other mental insights


No, I haven't... sounds interesting.

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