Topic: The Regular Guys who are sick of being Stereotyped Thread
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Wed 07/22/09 12:28 AM





I really doubt it. So, if I understand this...you are saying that "hot" guys are all buffed out like this dude?

that this type of guy is so focused on himself that he will not be a good catch in a relationship? and eventually hurt the woman?

I really like some candid shots of people...and I am not the type to be attracted to someone by their looks anyway...I am not all that concerned with the external of a person...

never have been...

and the main way that I will get hurt is if I do not allow myself to get to know someone prior to entering into a relationship with them...




holy cow

okay theres one answer to previous question

thank you houselover with red shoes

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Wed 07/22/09 12:28 AM
and no..i am not saying that...i am saying that is the STEREOTYPE

hence...

the topic of this thread

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Wed 07/22/09 12:29 AM
I think I am pretty hot

Know why? because I know how to treat a woman with respect

That is hot

in this guy's opinion

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Wed 07/22/09 12:30 AM
Edited by Dan99 on Wed 07/22/09 12:31 AM
Calleigh..Im allowed a day off! I have to deal with all those stupid prayers about peoples sisters husbands aunty's friends dogs bad breath prblems, and it wears me out.

Not that i get worn out, being god, but still i want a break sometimes.

And now im gonna sleep(not that i need it). All prayers for the next 7 hours will be futile!


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Wed 07/22/09 12:31 AM

Im allowed a day off! I have to deal with all those stupid prayers about peoples sisters husbands aunty's friends dogs bad breath prblems, and it wears me out.

Not that i get worn out, being god, but still i want a break sometimes.

And now im gonna sleep(not that i need it). All prayers for the next 7 hours will be futile!




goodnight dan

we will still be here...and be single...and i will still be hot....just not according to that buff guy over in 1221's thread



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Wed 07/22/09 12:35 AM
You are hot Billy.

Keep doing what you are doing, and be patient.

Pink_Lady is pretty much my first ever girlfriend. Im not single now, but i understand, fully.

night

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Wed 07/22/09 12:41 AM

Calleigh..Im allowed a day off! I have to deal with all those stupid prayers about peoples sisters husbands aunty's friends dogs bad breath prblems, and it wears me out.

Not that i get worn out, being god, but still i want a break sometimes.

And now im gonna sleep(not that i need it). All prayers for the next 7 hours will be futile!




laugh flowerforyou waving

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Wed 07/22/09 12:42 AM

I think I am pretty hot

Know why? because I know how to treat a woman with respect

That is hot

in this guy's opinion




I agree with you. I also find that guy's that treat people in general with respect are more attractive, again...regardless of looks.

treating yourself with respect is hot too!!


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Wed 07/22/09 12:51 AM
Respect is earned

not given

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Wed 07/22/09 01:09 AM

Respect is earned

not given




that is where we will disagree, which is fine.

I see respect more as an action. I tend to respect most everyone until they give me a reason not too...

and then generally, I can respect their choices...I do not have to interact with them, nor do I have to like them or their choices.

The way someone stops to listen to someone, or the way they treat a stranger shows me that they respect another persons ideas, or space, or need...

That is just how I look at respect...

I hear that respect has to be "earned" quite a bit though...

flowerforyou


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Wed 07/22/09 01:19 AM
Well let me explain the "Respect is earned" thing...see what ya think?

I without a DOUBT respect everyone's choices and wishes

I without a DOUBT respect everyones body and mind and their views

I without a DOUBT respect a woman enough to open the door and let them walk in first

Is that what you mean????

I meant my respect, that is what needs to be earned, not given awaybigsmile

And there are many many folks on Mingle who have my respect...and some who do not. So I don't need to "meet" someone to have them earn it.

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Wed 07/22/09 01:20 AM
oh ya, flowerforyou dont get ya too far in my book...neither do comments that have nothing to do with what i am talking about

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Wed 07/22/09 01:26 AM

Well let me explain the "Respect is earned" thing...see what ya think?

I without a DOUBT respect everyone's choices and wishes

I without a DOUBT respect everyones body and mind and their views

I without a DOUBT respect a woman enough to open the door and let them walk in first

Is that what you mean????

I meant my respect, that is what needs to be earned, not given awaybigsmile

And there are many many folks on Mingle who have my respect...and some who do not. So I don't need to "meet" someone to have them earn it.



oh ya, flowerforyou dont get ya too far in my book...neither do comments that have nothing to do with what i am talking about



My apologies for getting off topic.

I agree with your previous post. Thank you for the clarification.


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Wed 07/22/09 01:27 AM
ure still confused

but thanks for apologizing


that moves ya up to level 7



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Wed 07/22/09 02:31 AM
When I see a photo of a guy shirtless with his arms crossed over his chest, hands parked in his armpits and a look on his unshaven face like he slaps women around I figure he will meet up with a gal who posted a cheap cleavage/sultry expressioned pic taken in her bathroom. whoa

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Wed 07/22/09 02:39 AM
"Hotness" in my book has NEVER been about a mans body nor his outter appearance. I cant stand when someone "judges a book by its cover" so to speak. I swear..A man can weigh 600 pounds and if he treats me kind, and loves me for who I am..why wouldnt I love him for who he is too? Why would a woman want a guy with a bunch of muscles but has no IQ, no sense of humor, no respect for anyone but himself? There happen to be alot of men that I find attractive that many women dont..and do I care???? Hell no!!! Hes loving, honest, caring, kind, sweet as hell, and loves me...why would I care about his "imperfections" then?

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Wed 07/22/09 02:45 AM

"Hotness" in my book has NEVER been about a mans body nor his outter appearance. I cant stand when someone "judges a book by its cover" so to speak. I swear..A man can weigh 600 pounds and if he treats me kind, and loves me for who I am..why wouldnt I love him for who he is too? Why would a woman want a guy with a bunch of muscles but has no IQ, no sense of humor, no respect for anyone but himself? There happen to be alot of men that I find attractive that many women dont..and do I care???? Hell no!!! Hes loving, honest, caring, kind, sweet as hell, and loves me...why would I care about his "imperfections" then?


No truer words could be found here. Right on.

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Wed 07/22/09 02:46 AM


"Hotness" in my book has NEVER been about a mans body nor his outter appearance. I cant stand when someone "judges a book by its cover" so to speak. I swear..A man can weigh 600 pounds and if he treats me kind, and loves me for who I am..why wouldnt I love him for who he is too? Why would a woman want a guy with a bunch of muscles but has no IQ, no sense of humor, no respect for anyone but himself? There happen to be alot of men that I find attractive that many women dont..and do I care???? Hell no!!! Hes loving, honest, caring, kind, sweet as hell, and loves me...why would I care about his "imperfections" then?


No truer words could be found here. Right on.


Thank you Katzenschnauzer :) Things are most often truthful when they come from the heart flowerforyou

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Wed 07/22/09 02:49 AM
I thought weed was supposed to make you peaceful. flowerforyou

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Wed 07/22/09 02:51 AM
:angel: dude relax,the threads are only for fun,dont takeit all so serious