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Topic: Online relations
RKISIT's photo
Tue 07/21/09 01:32 PM





laugh long story! laugh

Advise (whether asked for or not): chill until you can meet in person, know that its very easy to make assumptions online/phone/im and you will not truly know what the other person is feeling until it is face to face.
absolutely...it either is real or the flame will be gonedrinker


So when are you coming up to michigan to stoke a flame! winking
when i have 2 inches removedlaugh


spock Okay that totally didn't make sense!
it was from another thread on here...drinker

tanyaann's photo
Tue 07/21/09 01:33 PM






laugh long story! laugh

Advise (whether asked for or not): chill until you can meet in person, know that its very easy to make assumptions online/phone/im and you will not truly know what the other person is feeling until it is face to face.
absolutely...it either is real or the flame will be gonedrinker


So when are you coming up to michigan to stoke a flame! winking
when i have 2 inches removedlaugh


spock Okay that totally didn't make sense!
it was from another thread on here...drinker


K. ohwell

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 07/21/09 01:35 PM



I have never had an online relation.
happy I have had so many online relations that I get an erection everytime I see a computerhappy
laugh laugh laugh laugh drinker
:tongue: U wouldn't believe just how true that is:tongue:

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Tue 07/21/09 01:38 PM
Edited by Down2earthdebbie on Tue 07/21/09 02:26 PM
flowerforyou I have made some really good friends...........some I have met some I have not! :heart:

Thunder11's photo
Tue 07/21/09 01:40 PM
One of my bestfreind is on a online relationship but she doesnt care she love him alot . lolz So if you love that person.. dam you would do alot.

CKeef's photo
Tue 07/21/09 02:02 PM
I have started friendships that turned into love before, although it still can be hard for somebody my age because a lot of people hide behind the safety of their computer and dont bring the 'same person' when physically together.

Not always the case of course, if only it would happen again.

no photo
Tue 07/21/09 02:06 PM

Have any of you ever had an online relationship where the feelings for the man/woman just became too much?
Were you afraid? How did you handle it? Was it one sided?




Yes, but we met quickly thereafter and had a nice time for about 3 months....until our true personalities came out and we decided we really couldn't stand being around each other.....laugh

Actually that is partly true...it advanced just as any other relationship would after that first initial meeting. We still needed time.....to figure out if we were meant to be. In this case, we were not. Things always look so much rosier online, IMO.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 07/21/09 02:07 PM
i said screw internet dating

and stuck to nailing local chicks devil laugh flowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Tue 07/21/09 02:53 PM
Tammy, my advice, from someone who has done this, is take a big deep breath! Calm down. Let it be what it is. The building of your relationship. All the feelings of excitement, vulnerability, nervousness, all of it...are normal. Don't let it throw you. Trust what you both want/feel. flowerforyou

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 07/21/09 02:58 PM
People often times tend to make an "online" relationship into a bigger friggin' deal than it actually is, and attach some sort of stigma onto it, when in reality, it's absolutely no different whatsoever than a relationship where the people have initially met face-to-face.

Either way, if I've ever heard the Number One cop-out from a woman ("I need some space"), before the words even completely leave her lips, I'll tell her, "Y'know what? You want space? Here it is. Take all you want. I'm gone." I'm too old to be playing junior-high games. I don't have time for it, and I won't entertain it. Then, I see how fast her tune changes. If it does, great, but she better have her head on straight if she comes back. If it doesn't, then no great loss, because I'm no worse off than before I met her, and I got along fine up until that point, I'll have no problem doing it again.

Simply put, I just refuse to put up with any childish B.S.

no photo
Tue 07/21/09 03:19 PM

People often times tend to make an "online" relationship into a bigger friggin' deal than it actually is, and attach some sort of stigma onto it, when in reality, it's absolutely no different whatsoever than a relationship where the people have initially met face-to-face.


I'm assuming you mean after you have met in person, in the case of an online relationship? If so, I agree. Who cares how you met? If you are dating in person now, it all works the same way.

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Wed 07/22/09 02:25 AM
hi this vas from india

romee's photo
Wed 07/22/09 02:30 AM
i met someone online we met in person! she acted like she loved me i loved her long story short i'm all alone:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

s1owhand's photo
Wed 07/22/09 02:42 AM
it always amazes me. i think this medium opens people up.
which is great because it is reviving the long lost art of
conversation. when you are separated by hundreds of miles
of wire or fiber ,then spending time in each other's company
is different.

it is often wonderful. some people are special together and they
generally know it.

:smile:

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