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long story! Advise (whether asked for or not): chill until you can meet in person, know that its very easy to make assumptions online/phone/im and you will not truly know what the other person is feeling until it is face to face. So when are you coming up to michigan to stoke a flame! Okay that totally didn't make sense! |
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long story! Advise (whether asked for or not): chill until you can meet in person, know that its very easy to make assumptions online/phone/im and you will not truly know what the other person is feeling until it is face to face. So when are you coming up to michigan to stoke a flame! Okay that totally didn't make sense! K. |
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I have never had an online relation. |
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Edited by
Down2earthdebbie
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Tue 07/21/09 02:26 PM
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I have made some really good friends...........some I have met some I have not!
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One of my bestfreind is on a online relationship but she doesnt care she love him alot . lolz So if you love that person.. dam you would do alot.
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I have started friendships that turned into love before, although it still can be hard for somebody my age because a lot of people hide behind the safety of their computer and dont bring the 'same person' when physically together.
Not always the case of course, if only it would happen again. |
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Have any of you ever had an online relationship where the feelings for the man/woman just became too much? Were you afraid? How did you handle it? Was it one sided? Yes, but we met quickly thereafter and had a nice time for about 3 months....until our true personalities came out and we decided we really couldn't stand being around each other..... Actually that is partly true...it advanced just as any other relationship would after that first initial meeting. We still needed time.....to figure out if we were meant to be. In this case, we were not. Things always look so much rosier online, IMO. |
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i said screw internet dating
and stuck to nailing local chicks |
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Tammy, my advice, from someone who has done this, is take a big deep breath! Calm down. Let it be what it is. The building of your relationship. All the feelings of excitement, vulnerability, nervousness, all of it...are normal. Don't let it throw you. Trust what you both want/feel.
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People often times tend to make an "online" relationship into a bigger friggin' deal than it actually is, and attach some sort of stigma onto it, when in reality, it's absolutely no different whatsoever than a relationship where the people have initially met face-to-face.
Either way, if I've ever heard the Number One cop-out from a woman ("I need some space"), before the words even completely leave her lips, I'll tell her, "Y'know what? You want space? Here it is. Take all you want. I'm gone." I'm too old to be playing junior-high games. I don't have time for it, and I won't entertain it. Then, I see how fast her tune changes. If it does, great, but she better have her head on straight if she comes back. If it doesn't, then no great loss, because I'm no worse off than before I met her, and I got along fine up until that point, I'll have no problem doing it again. Simply put, I just refuse to put up with any childish B.S. |
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People often times tend to make an "online" relationship into a bigger friggin' deal than it actually is, and attach some sort of stigma onto it, when in reality, it's absolutely no different whatsoever than a relationship where the people have initially met face-to-face. I'm assuming you mean after you have met in person, in the case of an online relationship? If so, I agree. Who cares how you met? If you are dating in person now, it all works the same way. |
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hi this vas from india
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i met someone online we met in person! she acted like she loved me i loved her long story short i'm all alone
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it always amazes me. i think this medium opens people up.
which is great because it is reviving the long lost art of conversation. when you are separated by hundreds of miles of wire or fiber ,then spending time in each other's company is different. it is often wonderful. some people are special together and they generally know it. |
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