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Topic: Honestly?
snarkytwain's photo
Wed 07/22/09 10:23 AM


Snarky, honestly, the guy will not be expecting perfection...and actually, he might like what you have MORE than what you think is good

men are visual creatures, and we will picture what a woman that we are into will look like in a swimsuit and naked....I GUARANTEE that this guy would not be disappointed....the the female body is such a beautiful thing

the most important thing for you is....CONFIDENCE...the sexiest thing that a woman can do to look more physically attractive is to actually believe that they are sexy and beautiful

so, be that beautiful woman that you are


Nova, why the hell don't you post more in the regular forums? Your typing is eloquent, and your mind is obviously more than able. flowerforyou

But here's the thing -- when a man pictures a woman he likes naked or in a bikini... HOW does he picture her? Lots of men in here have said that they already have a pretty good idea of their crush's body type pretty early, so here's the conundrum. Do they picture the body they KNOW is there and somehow still enjoy that image, or do they picture their crush's head on a supermodel body? And if the latter, you can't tell me there's no disapointment in the reality.

God... I AM the female Billy... surprised laugh


i DO post alot in the "regular" forums lol...you'll see me around :wink: and thank you for the complimentsflowerforyou

i cannot speak for other guys when i say that i don't expect a "supermodel" type body...and trust me, if i am into you and am physically attracted to you with your clothes on, then OBVIOUSLY i have seen something that i like....do you think he is physically perfect? does HE have a six-pack?

as to the lingerie question, guys go WILD when their woman wears lingerie (from my experiences and conversations)....BUT i would wait until farther into the relationship (if you WANT a relationship at all)...wearing lingerie just sends the message of "i am confident, i am sexy, and I KNOW IT!!"


Well, yeah... I usually save the lengere for the comitted relationships. laugh

Hmm... maybe I'm just too used to flirting with you in the sex forum? laugh

Nova86's photo
Wed 07/22/09 10:30 AM
Edited by Nova86 on Wed 07/22/09 10:31 AM



Snarky, honestly, the guy will not be expecting perfection...and actually, he might like what you have MORE than what you think is good

men are visual creatures, and we will picture what a woman that we are into will look like in a swimsuit and naked....I GUARANTEE that this guy would not be disappointed....the the female body is such a beautiful thing

the most important thing for you is....CONFIDENCE...the sexiest thing that a woman can do to look more physically attractive is to actually believe that they are sexy and beautiful

so, be that beautiful woman that you are


Nova, why the hell don't you post more in the regular forums? Your typing is eloquent, and your mind is obviously more than able. flowerforyou

But here's the thing -- when a man pictures a woman he likes naked or in a bikini... HOW does he picture her? Lots of men in here have said that they already have a pretty good idea of their crush's body type pretty early, so here's the conundrum. Do they picture the body they KNOW is there and somehow still enjoy that image, or do they picture their crush's head on a supermodel body? And if the latter, you can't tell me there's no disapointment in the reality.

God... I AM the female Billy... surprised laugh


i DO post alot in the "regular" forums lol...you'll see me around :wink: and thank you for the complimentsflowerforyou

i cannot speak for other guys when i say that i don't expect a "supermodel" type body...and trust me, if i am into you and am physically attracted to you with your clothes on, then OBVIOUSLY i have seen something that i like....do you think he is physically perfect? does HE have a six-pack?

as to the lingerie question, guys go WILD when their woman wears lingerie (from my experiences and conversations)....BUT i would wait until farther into the relationship (if you WANT a relationship at all)...wearing lingerie just sends the message of "i am confident, i am sexy, and I KNOW IT!!"


Well, yeah... I usually save the lengere for the comitted relationships. laugh

Hmm... maybe I'm just too used to flirting with you in the sex forum? laugh


what ARE you talking about?? that is my crazy (but still funny and definitely handsome) twin brother in the sex forums!!!


totally not me at all *whistles while walking away*

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Wed 07/22/09 12:19 PM
HAHA!!!

i don't have this problem. i can't hide my chunk. therefore... when i date a guy he knows what he's grabbing.

and strangely.. that doesn't seem to bother them. :D

DamnPhule's photo
Wed 07/22/09 12:30 PM

We all have imperfections... if we were all drop dead gorgeous, rock hard bodies we would be in Hollywood posing for the cameras not on mingle..
don't be so hard on yourself. :smile:


< ----- Phule says: I'm waiting for the call from Hollywood myself, should be calling any day now!

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Wed 07/22/09 12:37 PM


We all have imperfections... if we were all drop dead gorgeous, rock hard bodies we would be in Hollywood posing for the cameras not on mingle..
don't be so hard on yourself. :smile:


< ----- Phule says: I'm waiting for the call from Hollywood myself, should be calling any day now!


LOL!!!

or if we were all like that.. the famous ones would be the few who didn't look like that. :D

and fat would be cool.

and imperfect would be amazing.

or.. it would be like that twilight zone episode when the girl was forced to have surgery to look like everyone else.

or the one where the woman was having surgery to fix her deformity (which was beauty)

tngxl65's photo
Wed 07/22/09 12:41 PM



We all have imperfections... if we were all drop dead gorgeous, rock hard bodies we would be in Hollywood posing for the cameras not on mingle..
don't be so hard on yourself. :smile:


< ----- Phule says: I'm waiting for the call from Hollywood myself, should be calling any day now!


LOL!!!

or if we were all like that.. the famous ones would be the few who didn't look like that. :D

and fat would be cool.

and imperfect would be amazing.

or.. it would be like that twilight zone episode when the girl was forced to have surgery to look like everyone else.

or the one where the woman was having surgery to fix her deformity (which was beauty)


It's interesting how the ideal of a great body has changed for women. Marilyn Monroe wasn't a stick figure.

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