Or if the child is not getting the attention and
care that they so deserve and in return the child
now has issues. Who is to blame but the parent.
For no one should think that just because we are
adults our needs should come before that of a childs.

Why are you so angry, lazy?

Instead of making threats here, if a child is at risk, and it is not
your child, then do the right thing, and report the parent.

If this is a lover's tiff, or an online thing...then take it to mail.

If it is your child, why are you on a computer, and not on your way to
your child?

lazy I will not shut up, i got nothing against you so you cn shut up
with the cyber bs now! You are cool in my eyes, I was just saying, but
I'm sorry to offend, I am a pal with you Lay if you want it?

hey one thing i do know about mach and if its the only thing i do
know..his boys come first....and i know his smart enough not to
introduce a different women all the time to his boys unless he was
serious about her

thanks stace! much love to you angel!

i donot let anyone meet my kiddos unless we are seriously dating, but it
took me three and a half years to start dating. my kids are old enough
to understand you donot sleep with everyone you are dating. i am also
very honey with my kids.
i would never put my needs in front of my kids- i would just be loney
until they grew up.

any time mach,i know we have our differences in the past but i do know
what them boys mean too u!!!!dont let any one fault u on
that..

apologies to mach..

you just don't know and this isn't even my child.. but i know this child
deserves better..

Sassy - Lazy has girls, honest mistake.

oh dear!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!please let one learn learn their own
lessons!! ya best not leave too!

I had a mother who chose men over her children....still have her
theoretically, I just don't associate with her now. Like the song,
"Cat's in the cradle" by Cat Stephens; don't ignore your kids while they
still need and depend on you, or while they still love you. One day it
will come back to haunt you. I sacrifice for my girls. Their needs are
met before mine. PERIOD! People tell me I need to have a life and
happiness.....I respond that my girls are my life and happiness...along
with a thousand other emotions. My life is meaningless w/out them. What
could a lover give me emotionally that I don't get from my girls?

lilly!!! and i know that song
lol

Hey Buttons!!

no one is leaving from now on dang it! lol! We are all family, heck we
are all screwed up somehow lol, but hey screwed up is the new sane dang
it! So no one else will leave!! If they do, that means they love michel
jackson! lmao1

Hope everything turns out ok for all.



peace,

michael

Lilly your words could not have hit home any harder than they just did.
I totaly and fully agree with you on this one.
I did the same for my kids now they are grown. And my life
is mine now but hey no matter what and does not matter that they are
grown they still know that I will always be there for them no matter
what. Sure I was lonely in one sense but in another I was fullfilled
beyond what words will ever know. The rewards we receive from our kids
is far past anything in this world any man or woman could give us.

i just want to say to all on here.. do not sacrifice your children for
your lonliness.. things will not be better only worse.. mach has my
respect with all of you all. but you hurt a child i will come to you..
we will have a nose to nose conversation.. i am talking any type of
hurt.. i will be there..
promise that.. never leave your child for someone else...treat your
children with love...

I agree...there is no choice...men and women with kids come as a
package...if that's not the case then they should be saying adios to the
person who won't love and accept them!!!!!!!!

no parent should scarafice their children for anything.

children should allways be your first priority.

I raised my own 4 and put them 1st. and helped raise 2 others

thats mom abandoned. People do this kind of stuff alot and

it just makes me sick. My kids are my life and still are even

though they are grown. Good luck to you with your situation

lazyj321...

Lazy I fully agree, maybe not with the threatening approach, but
certainly with the basic statement you’re making. Another hot button for
me right along these lines is a parent that uses their children as
leverage in a divorce situation, and puts the children in the middle of
parent/ adult stuff.

Something else to consider on this one. A parent needs to be complete
and stable in themselves to be able to demonstrate to the children
things like self confidence, internal strength, setting boundaries &
such. If the patent gives absolutely everything and never replenishes
themselves, they slowly degrade themselves as a responsible and
effective parent. Kids learn more from experiencing what you demonstrate
than anything you will ever say.