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friendship is the building block to life long relationships whether it be a male friend or female friend....without friendship the world would be nothing but shades of gray and extemely lonely
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Anyone have a longtime bestfriend that turned into intemit relationship???
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The best relationship I ever had was built from a friendship. She became my best friend and then my girlfriend. And then she dumped me for another guy, lol. Ahhhh.... love is fickle.
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I believe starting off as friends is a way to start a relationship, that way you get to know one another likes and dislikes.
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It should be, but often friendship is lost from sight, by one party or another. Too often are elements separated when they should be united, alas I can only pray the union will be true someday.
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Anyone have a longtime bestfriend that turned into intemit relationship??? Say again?? |
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"many people" are wrong
... Many people believe that the best relationships start out as friendships. What are your thoughts on that? |
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"many people" are wrong ... Many people believe that the best relationships start out as friendships. What are your thoughts on that? you are the first to disagree. May I ask why? |
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"Universal Truth is not measured in Mass Appeal" -Immortal Technique
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Sure! Go ahead.
"many people" are wrong ... Many people believe that the best relationships start out as friendships. What are your thoughts on that? you are the first to disagree. May I ask why? |
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Why?
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Actually I did too. Seems when I've met people they either went into the hmm maybe category or friend category. I don't think I ever cross sectioned.
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Friendships takes time to develop ...
Attraction can be immediate and then blossom into a deep fulfilling relationship... I don't have that much time. |
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I don't think you have to start out as friends, friendship can develop.
It's more natural and flows better if your friends first... doesn't mean it can't work out...all relationships grow as they continue, hopefully |
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Friendships takes time to develop ... Attraction can be immediate and then blossom into a deep fulfilling relationship... I don't have that much time. But isn't it worth it to put time into a relationship? No relationship can stand on "I thought you were hot" alone. Actually I did too. Seems when I've met people they either went into the hmm maybe category or friend category. I don't think I ever cross sectioned.
So those in the hmmm maybe category you went right for? Isn't it good to know someone for who they are as a person before jumping right into the whole relationship thing? |
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Well, I guess in that way you could say yes, friendship came first. But it went right into more if it was going to. Otherwise, they stayed a friend.
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But isn't it worth it to put time into a relationship?
Time is the only thing any of us have |
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Edited by
snarkytwain
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Mon 07/20/09 08:25 AM
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Well, I guess in that way you could say yes, friendship came first. But it went right into more if it was going to. Otherwise, they stayed a friend. I dunno. The best crush I ever had lasted two years because for one reason or another we couldn't be together. But we were friends, and we hung out in a group, and we flirted like hell. But we couldn't date. For two years. It was amazingly delicious when we finally hooked up. Waiting can be good. But isn't it worth it to put time into a relationship?
Time is the only thing any of us have And? What's worth your time? If a relationship isn't, you probably shouldn't be in one. |
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friendship = commonality + empathy
sex + friendship = intimacy intimacy - friendship = sex I prefer that there be a sexual spark from the beginning . . . |
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... Many people believe that the best relationships start out as friendships. What are your thoughts on that? I agree 100%!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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