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Topic: Crush or Date?
snarkytwain's photo
Sun 07/19/09 11:52 PM
So, I was thinking today about how much I miss having a crush. The whole giddy, excited feeling you get every time you think of them, the joy at a text from them, the hope that they'll be there when you go out with friends to a regular place...

But then, if you're lucky, you date them and that feeling goes away.

So here's my question -- would you rather crush and never date or date and lose the crush feelings?

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Sun 07/19/09 11:53 PM
I'd rather not have the crush NOR have the date. But that's just me, though.

lonetar25's photo
Sun 07/19/09 11:55 PM
i want both grumble

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 07/19/09 11:56 PM

i want both grumble


Me too.

Not much chance of actually having either one, though.

snarkytwain's photo
Sun 07/19/09 11:59 PM

I'd rather not have the crush NOR have the date. But that's just me, though.


So... you're taken then? laugh

I know, having both would be great. I wonder if that's what being in love is like... frown

nvkikigirl's photo
Mon 07/20/09 12:01 AM
Edited by nvkikigirl on Mon 07/20/09 12:02 AM
hmmm, hard question...i do like that crush stage......drinker and i dont really date anyway...so yeah...lets go with crush/no date....:banana:

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 07/20/09 12:02 AM
Snarky, You know whats cool?

I actually had the awesome crush feeling for a year, and he did too, we tried to re-act out our first sexual experience every time it was so good.


He moved away, and had no way to see me so he broke up with me, but.. the excitement can last at least that long that I know of.

We kept it sizzling.

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Mon 07/20/09 12:05 AM


I'd rather not have the crush NOR have the date. But that's just me, though.


So... you're taken then? laugh

I know, having both would be great. I wonder if that's what being in love is like... frown


YEAP, that's what love is

vortecpowered's photo
Mon 07/20/09 12:24 AM

So, I was thinking today about how much I miss having a crush. The whole giddy, excited feeling you get every time you think of them, the joy at a text from them, the hope that they'll be there when you go out with friends to a regular place...

But then, if you're lucky, you date them and that feeling goes away.

So here's my question -- would you rather crush and never date or date and lose the crush feelings?


wow that sounds complicated. i think my way is simpler:

see attractive girl
talk to her (and we like it)
we go out (repeat as needed)

snarkytwain's photo
Mon 07/20/09 12:32 AM

Snarky, You know whats cool?

I actually had the awesome crush feeling for a year, and he did too, we tried to re-act out our first sexual experience every time it was so good.


He moved away, and had no way to see me so he broke up with me, but.. the excitement can last at least that long that I know of.

We kept it sizzling.


Oh,I know it's possible, just not for me apparently. laugh

YEAP, that's what love is


Speaking from experience?

wow that sounds complicated. i think my way is simpler:

see attractive girl
talk to her (and we like it)
we go out (repeat as needed)


It's actually really simple... just feelings. You don't crush?

auburngirl's photo
Mon 07/20/09 12:32 AM
Yes, that is what love is like. You get both.

vortecpowered's photo
Mon 07/20/09 01:00 AM



It's actually really simple... just feelings. You don't crush?


no, i suppose not. it seems inefficient.

snarkytwain's photo
Mon 07/20/09 01:30 AM




It's actually really simple... just feelings. You don't crush?


no, i suppose not. it seems inefficient.


So... you don't think about a woman you like when she's not around, or get excited to see her?

Inefficient? What are you. Vulcan? laugh

lonetar25's photo
Mon 07/20/09 01:39 AM
have you ever wanted to crush your date?

vortecpowered's photo
Mon 07/20/09 02:08 AM


So... you don't think about a woman you like when she's not around, or get excited to see her?

Inefficient? What are you. Vulcan? laugh


maybe... i'll think about planning a date and seeing her would be a positive thing. it's been many years since i've been really into someone.

vulcan, no. logical, yes. spock

johnjl23's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:24 AM
date, because if u crush and dont get it, u want what u cant have, that sucks, also, u cant have any fun with a crush can you ;)

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:28 AM
Edited by Riding_Dubz on Mon 07/20/09 11:29 AM
why you date multiple people devil

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:56 AM
Maybe crushing on the thought of a date

jtip1977's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:58 AM
I like orange crush




Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Mon 07/20/09 11:59 AM
date over crushing

crushing is so emotionally whack to me.

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