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Topic: Crush or Date?
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Mon 07/20/09 12:07 PM
i like the crushing feeling. it usually means that its the start of something good. but like all good things it has to pass! but there is that other "crushing" feeling that will take its place if things dont work out.lol

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Mon 07/20/09 12:08 PM
I like the funny squiggles you get from a crush...but they always make me feel odd and out of sorts.

Which I don't like...but dating with that slow acknowledgement of each other would be better for me.

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Mon 07/20/09 01:12 PM

I like the funny squiggles you get from a crush...but they always make me feel odd and out of sorts.

Which I don't like...but dating with that slow acknowledgement of each other would be better for me.


the whole crush thing is starting to sound weirder and weirder. first it was described as feeling giddy, now it makes you feel squiggles, like you're a badly drawn cartoon or something?

this may be a mental disorder requiring therapy, possibly even long-term care in a psychiatric hospital. laugh

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Mon 07/20/09 01:14 PM
Isn't this in direct opposition to the ......BEST relationships start as friends, first.......thread???????


So, I was thinking today about how much I miss having a crush. The whole giddy, excited feeling you get every time you think of them, the joy at a text from them, the hope that they'll be there when you go out with friends to a regular place...

But then, if you're lucky, you date them and that feeling goes away.

So here's my question -- would you rather crush and never date or date and lose the crush feelings?

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Mon 07/20/09 01:26 PM


I like the funny squiggles you get from a crush...but they always make me feel odd and out of sorts.

Which I don't like...but dating with that slow acknowledgement of each other would be better for me.


the whole crush thing is starting to sound weirder and weirder. first it was described as feeling giddy, now it makes you feel squiggles, like you're a badly drawn cartoon or something?

this may be a mental disorder requiring therapy, possibly even long-term care in a psychiatric hospital. laugh

I'm not mental :cry: I promise

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Mon 07/20/09 01:29 PM

So, I was thinking today about how much I miss having a crush. The whole giddy, excited feeling you get every time you think of them, the joy at a text from them, the hope that they'll be there when you go out with friends to a regular place...

But then, if you're lucky, you date them and that feeling goes away.

So here's my question -- would you rather crush and never date or date and lose the crush feelings?
I would say both as well....I also think that the crush feeling can be achieved by what little things you do for each that the two of you have oneness...Whether its just a suprise rose or a suprise date out on the town....and this should carried on to marriage as well...these are rules I live by...I also think that this plan works both directions love is a two way street...flowerforyou :smile:

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