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Edited by
Ladylid2012
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Sat 07/18/09 11:22 AM
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My mother calls me way too much and I really don't like to talk to her.
We don't get along all that well, never have, frankly I don't think she is a very nice person. Is it bad that I just avoid her calls? 
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Its ok i dont want to talk to your mother either.
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rule #1 avoid negative people places and things Rule#2 see rule #1
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My mother calls me way too much and I really don't like to talk to her. We don't get along all that well, never have, frankly I don't think she is a very nice person. Is is bad that I just avoid her calls?  I wish I didn't have to talk to anyone in my family
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How much is way too much?
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My mother calls me way too much and I really don't like to talk to her. We don't get along all that well, never have, frankly I don't think she is a very nice person. Is is bad that I just avoid her calls? I do the same thing and feel the same way. |
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How much is way too much? Every few days.. just don't have enough to talk about to call that often.. |
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My mother calls me way too much and I really don't like to talk to her. We don't get along all that well, never have, frankly I don't think she is a very nice person. Is is bad that I just avoid her calls? I wish I didn't have to talk to anyone in my family  yes, I understand |
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I have family like that... No it's not bad.. Sad that family can't flow nicely like we'd like it too but it is what it is and we have to do what we have to do to avoid drama/issues...
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Edited by
Winx
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Sat 07/18/09 11:22 AM
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How much is way too much? Every few days.. just don't have enough to talk about to call that often.. Have you told her this and maybe get it down to once or twice a week? I think that sometimes that just check in to see if we're okay and they also like people to know if they are okay or not. If my parents haven't heard from me for around 4 days, they call to check on me. lol I do check on them, though. They are older and won't be around much longer. |
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How much is way too much? Every few days.. just don't have enough to talk about to call that often.. Have you told her this and maybe get it down to once or twice a week? I think that sometimes that just check in to see if we're okay and they also like people to know if they are okay or not. If my parents haven't heard from me for around 4 days, they call to check on me. lol I do check on them, though. They are older and won't be around much longer. yes, I have told her that. She lives 5 minutes away... My job requires being on the phone with pissed off people all day (local utility company) and she knows I don't like to just sit and chit chat on the phone.. |
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when you really can't take the thought of talking with her...avoid it...but avoiding her totally will probably take its toll on you too..sometimes it's better to deal with it. my contribution...smiles..teasingbrunette.
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I have family like that... No it's not bad.. Sad that family can't flow nicely like we'd like it too but it is what it is and we have to do what we have to do to avoid drama/issues... " Friends are God's way of making up for your family "
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Depends, I would say your Mom is 65 or older?
Has she always called so much or just as she got older? She may just be lonely or scared of end days may be near or..trying to make up for times lost?? |
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Edited by
Moblodite
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Sat 07/18/09 11:36 AM
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How much is way too much? Every few days.. just don't have enough to talk about to call that often.. Have you told her this and maybe get it down to once or twice a week? I think that sometimes that just check in to see if we're okay and they also like people to know if they are okay or not. If my parents haven't heard from me for around 4 days, they call to check on me. lol I do check on them, though. They are older and won't be around much longer. yes, I have told her that. She lives 5 minutes away... My job requires being on the phone with pissed off people all day (local utility company) and she knows I don't like to just sit and chit chat on the phone.. So does that mean that I can't have your phone number???   Maybe give all of us Her number. we can divert her for ya 
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Edited by
Ladylid2012
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Sat 07/18/09 11:36 AM
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Depends, I would say your Mom is 65 or older? Has she always called so much or just as she got older? She may just be lonely or scared of end days may be near or..trying to make up for times lost?? She will be 70 in a few months, but she has always done this. She has a husband and an adult daughter at home, shes no more lonely than me... 
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My mother calls me way too much and I really don't like to talk to her. We don't get along all that well, never have, frankly I don't think she is a very nice person. Is it bad that I just avoid her calls? Change your phone number. 
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Thanks everybody I have come to the conclusion that I don't feel bad for not taking her calls...
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Thanks everybody I have come to the conclusion that I don't feel bad for not taking her calls...
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My mother calls me way too much and I really don't like to talk to her. We don't get along all that well, never have, frankly I don't think she is a very nice person. Is it bad that I just avoid her calls? It has been 14 years, and I would give anytihing to be able to hear my mothers voice again  .....search your heart and find a way to share the time you have....it is always better than not having them at all......
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