Topic: Are you the type
isaac_dede's photo
Sat 07/18/09 12:23 PM



That can be honest with others, no matter how harsh your words may be, yet can't handle the truth when given to you?

I'm too harsh...but I can take the truth so i'd have to say no...i.e a fairly large friend of mine was wearing a belly shirt and a tighter pair of jeans....she asked me if it gave her 'muffin tops' I told her she was beyond muffin tops and had loaves of bread hanging out...and to buy a longer shirt....she didn't like that response...but it was true


wow that's pretty mean but really funny laugh. she didn't just have muffin tops, she had the whole backery, huh?

if i hurt someone's feelings it accidental. people are just so damn sensitive, which i really don't understand first-hand. it's very difficult to actually make me feel insulted.



it's difficult to insult me too...basically for one reason...If you are saying something to insult me odds are I don't care what you think anyway..now if it is someones opinion I respect and they insult me..that's something different

TxsSun's photo
Sat 07/18/09 12:29 PM
All I can say is, I just :heart: honest people! drinker

rara777's photo
Sat 07/18/09 12:30 PM
I can handle the truth when it is directed at me.

Slyther83's photo
Sat 07/18/09 12:34 PM
my ex used to put on like 3-5 different outfits every time before wed go out (it was ridiculous). shed ask me sometimes does this one look good or bad etc, and if i thought it looked bad shed get mad. i know, i know... i should just say yes that looks great sweetcheeks... the games women play are sometimes quite irritating. youd be better of just running out of the room with your hands over your ears.

TxsSun's photo
Sat 07/18/09 12:35 PM
:angry: Hey men do the same things...Just maybe not with clothes laugh

TxsSun's photo
Sat 07/18/09 12:40 PM
Come on T, I know you want to say something laugh

isaac_dede's photo
Sun 07/19/09 04:59 PM

:angry: Hey men do the same things...Just maybe not with clothes laugh

Well how was I to know it was your first time with a screamer....you could have been more sensitive you know

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Sun 07/19/09 05:01 PM

That can be honest with others, no matter how harsh your words may be, yet can't handle the truth when given to you?


I'm always diplomatic but if someone says to me "be honest" I will be

earthytaurus76's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:02 PM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Sun 07/19/09 05:03 PM
I dont believe being harsh has anything to do with honesty. I think its an excuse to be abusive.

Oh and the "im blundt" people, also masking rudeness.

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:03 PM
It's all in how you present it to them:wink:

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Sun 07/19/09 05:07 PM

That can be honest with others, no matter how harsh your words may be, yet can't handle the truth when given to you?


I have been told nearly every piece of " truth " that someone could come up with about me.

Loser. Check.

A**hole. Check.

Stupid. Check.

Ugly. Check.

There isn't a whole lot anyone could tell me that would actually manage to upset me anymore.

So, no. I'm not that type.

longhairbiker's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:10 PM
Edited by longhairbiker on Sun 07/19/09 05:13 PM

That can be honest with others, no matter how harsh your words may be, yet can't handle the truth when given to you?
...first off I'm quite rare. I, as compared to sooooooo many other people, like myself, and am happy in my life. And secondly, I try my hardest not to let people corner me into making judgement and command decisions for them. I gave up on people baiting and soliciting opinions and ideas. Because the #1 thing I learned in this world is there are a lot of stupidass people in the world. And the #2 thing I learned? Its a complete waste of time and energy trying to help them.

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Sun 07/19/09 05:11 PM

Come on T, I know you want to say something laugh



Baby-girl...if I can dish it out I better damn sure be able to take it!

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:11 PM
I lie to everyone .But my child

KeepingTheFaith's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:11 PM
There is nothing wrong with being direct, but it can be done with tact.

That has always been my approach and it works well for me! My friends always tell me that I can tell someone they're an ******* and they'll end up thanking me for it. :tongue: :wink: Don't know if that's true, but I'll be straight with you and want the same in return. I can take it.....bigsmile

TxsSun's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:12 PM

I lie to everyone .But my child



At least you admit it :tongue:

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Sun 07/19/09 05:14 PM

That can be honest with others, no matter how harsh your words may be, yet can't handle the truth when given to you?
The truth is always better...even if it hurts....or latter it will bite you in the shorts...

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 07/19/09 05:15 PM


I lie to everyone .But my child



At least you admit it :tongue:
Pfftt

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Sun 07/19/09 05:15 PM
nicely said

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Sun 07/19/09 05:15 PM
nicely said