Topic: can u realy date on the net?
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Sat 07/18/09 03:35 AM
later kase....waving

snarkytwain's photo
Sat 07/18/09 03:52 AM
The chances of meeting anyone on here who I can actually see in person are pretty low.

So I just have fun. :smile:

Nova86's photo
Sat 07/18/09 07:43 AM
Edited by Nova86 on Sat 07/18/09 07:44 AM
i would say that you should definitely treat it as a friendship.....talk with her online and chat, send email, and all that stuff....then when BOTH of you feel comfortable move to the phone and talk there...if it blossoms into a romance then keep it going

basically, take baby steps....if you really really want to be with her and you think that it will work out

i found an amazing woman on here and it has definitely worked out for us...we will be moving in together in a week....

know this though....if it is long distance it is gonna be REALLYYYY tough

good luck mandrinker

spacekase's photo
Sat 07/18/09 08:54 AM
so wen do u ask for the #?
and this net thing def takes a little longer than norm, but depending on wat ur lookin for, it might b a good thing.

i normaly, in the past, have rushed in too many times. takin my time just sounds like a good idea no matter wat. ha gota learn from the past some time.

its always incourageing to hear it acualy worked. that is why most us r here, i think?

food for thought, most us have a general, good list of wat we want. for the most part, in genral, its close if not the same, lovin, loyal, carin, has a brain, exc., exc., on and on. mainly the same, so we should all b conpatible.? but thoughs simple details have a major part in if we ever make contact. good thing? or bad thing? couldnt tell u, just funny how simple things can make the dif.


PATSFAN's photo
Sat 07/18/09 08:55 AM
yawn Complete waste of timeyawn

brokenwings30's photo
Sat 07/18/09 08:58 AM
NOPEfrustrated

spacekase's photo
Sat 07/18/09 09:04 AM

The chances of meeting anyone on here who I can actually see in person are pretty low.

So I just have fun. :smile:


why so?
although iv had more fun in the last few days after discovering the community, bein a stoned monkey ramblin bout nonsence then i have ever had on the net.

billy ur great, lmao every time. comedian, def. getin paid, dif story. tell u wat, get a mic and a stage and ill pay. even if ur on an egg crate ramblin through a road cone.

spacekase's photo
Sat 07/18/09 09:08 AM

NOPEfrustrated


thats wat i think. not dating, just finding. u cant go on a date through emails, just comunicate, one of my relationships biggiest voids. mabe good?

Nova86's photo
Sat 07/18/09 09:25 AM
every person has to find that comfortable zone and do what is comfortable with them when it comes to relationships....

do what makes you happy bro:banana:

spacekase's photo
Sat 07/18/09 09:44 AM

every person has to find that comfortable zone and do what is comfortable with them when it comes to relationships....

do what makes you happy bro:banana:


most definantly my biggiest goal in life. wats the point if u cant have fun.

WisdomsChild's photo
Sat 07/18/09 09:59 AM
Nah. To date someone you have to actually physically see them on a regular basis.

niteclerk's photo
Sat 07/18/09 10:26 AM
i think it depends on what you're looking for. if you want someone to talk to and build a friendship based on stimulating conversations, the net could work. there are different levels of intimacy. i'd be happy with finding a person who liked the quirks, sarcasm, and dark corners in my head.

spacekase's photo
Sat 07/18/09 10:37 AM

i think it depends on what you're looking for. if you want someone to talk to and build a friendship based on stimulating conversations, the net could work. there are different levels of intimacy. i'd be happy with finding a person who liked the quirks, sarcasm, and dark corners in my head.


thers def a dif connection made wen done through writin. completely new for some one like me, iv wrote more in the last few days then all my schoolin. sad i know. but that says alot for all u, getin me to write is one thing, wantin to write dew to good convos, never would have geussed.

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Sat 07/18/09 10:41 AM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Sat 07/18/09 10:41 AM
It can go as far as you have the patience for it, but i suggest many many meetings before deciding to commit.

spacekase's photo
Sat 07/18/09 10:55 AM

It can go as far as you have the patience for it, but i suggest many many meetings before deciding to commit.


yes yes. hopefully (key word) ill never jump into anything again.

and i would say, in a long listance sich (for me more than 45 to an hour away), i would want to know for sher (well as sher as we can ever b) that it had great potential, and for me would need to, how can i say this, move, or ?. no matter wat i need my partner at least the next town away.

another good question. iv thought of it but never came to any kind of completed conclution, the sich would have everything to do with it, but who moves or wat?

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Sat 07/18/09 06:18 PM

how far and long should it last on the net before....

im not into computers,or the net. this is more of an aid or last resort for me. more so to find the one.

so my sich is, iv found a girl (that might work), on the net, weve been talkin for a few weeks. we seem to get along great and have alot in commen.

but, and its a big one, ITS THE NET. this part is new to me. havent gotin to this part yet.

absolutly clueless? iv only delt with in person contact wen it comes to meetin girls.

wat has worked for u?
wat hasnt?

this is weird for me to only have words to work with (as some of u might already know, again sorry.lol). with no tones, expretions, body language, eye contact, and everthing else that gos with face to face interaction, im lost, confused, and in a whole new world. it almost feels like bein a kid again, havin no experiance on the subject.

sorry for the long post, just painting a picture.


Yes you CAN actually find dates on the Net. Unfortunately, the question then becomes whether or not you really WANT to go on those dates.

I've been on a handful of dates since starting this online dating thing, and the results of which have been less-than-spectacular, to say the least.

spacekase's photo
Sat 07/18/09 06:41 PM
so this net deal is more or less a way to pass time for most? wat the... ?

but rnt we all here to find some one?

and id think with all the options we have, and the info we give and take, that ther would b a better chance of at least havin a better time on a date then randomly pickin a girl off the streets, that u have absolutely no clue about.

isnt that the whole point of this, that we select and message people who we think r conpatable and after writin each other, gettin to know one another deciding if its right. after all that thers still slim to no chance of havin something worth while come of it?

man that sucks, wow now i realy will plan on never bein with any one. dam. and to think i thought this was goin to b alot easier, and more effective.

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Sat 07/18/09 07:11 PM
Well... the odds are certainly stacked against you as far as online dating goes, that's for sure. You might conceivably find some success with it, but those instances are few-and-far-between.

snarkytwain's photo
Sat 07/18/09 07:59 PM


The chances of meeting anyone on here who I can actually see in person are pretty low.

So I just have fun. :smile:


why so?
although iv had more fun in the last few days after discovering the community, bein a stoned monkey ramblin bout nonsence then i have ever had on the net.

billy ur great, lmao every time. comedian, def. getin paid, dif story. tell u wat, get a mic and a stage and ill pay. even if ur on an egg crate ramblin through a road cone.


Cuz nobody else from Spokane posts on the forums, and this is really the only way I can truly get to know anyone.

spacekase's photo
Sun 07/19/09 01:06 AM



The chances of meeting anyone on here who I can actually see in person are pretty low.

So I just have fun. :smile:


why so?
although iv had more fun in the last few days after discovering the community, bein a stoned monkey ramblin bout nonsence then i have ever had on the net.

billy ur great, lmao every time. comedian, def. getin paid, dif story. tell u wat, get a mic and a stage and ill pay. even if ur on an egg crate ramblin through a road cone.


Cuz nobody else from Spokane posts on the forums, and this is really the only way I can truly get to know anyone.


wa? got the basics but spokane?

did u hear that too.... think something just went over my head. haha