Topic: What if...
MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/17/09 04:48 PM

you fell in love with someone - and you had not yet been intimate with them- and they told you they had genital herpes...what would you do???
:smile: I would try to ask before I develop feelings for them:smile:

littleike's photo
Fri 07/17/09 04:48 PM
were is compassion and understanding now days? not to mention both of yopu are in love. you cant just flip your emotions on and off like a switch. if you do you dont have true love

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 07/17/09 04:50 PM
First of all lets deal with reality for fallen in love as far as with me it takes a lot more then just talking ect. It takes time and truth is I have never fallen in-love with a guy I have not been intimate with to me that is the final bond.

The most I could be is infatuated with him or like him a lot. And truthfully if I had gotten even that far with my feelings and then he pops the bomb what would I do. I would say nice seeing you and walk away. Now the reason would not be just because what he just told me it would be that I felt he deceived me lead me on. To me now if he had been honest from the beginning then I started feeling that way about him since it is not aids or something that would kill me then I would think about it. Would I stay then have no idea that is something until you are faced with it is hard to say.

But if I felt he deceived my trust and held back to tell me yeppiers I would indeed turn and walk away. One that will not be honest with you up front about such and issue will continue to be deceitful.

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 07/17/09 04:54 PM

were is compassion and understanding now days? not to mention both of yopu are in love. you cant just flip your emotions on and off like a switch. if you do you dont have true love


Sure ya can:smile:

littleike's photo
Fri 07/17/09 04:56 PM

First of all lets deal with reality for fallen in love as far as with me it takes a lot more then just talking ect. It takes time and truth is I have never fallen in-love with a guy I have not been intimate with to me that is the final bond.

The most I could be is infatuated with him or like him a lot. And truthfully if I had gotten even that far with my feelings and then he pops the bomb what would I do. I would say nice seeing you and walk away. Now the reason would not be just because what he just told me it would be that I felt he deceived me lead me on. To me now if he had been honest from the beginning then I started feeling that way about him since it is not aids or something that would kill me then I would think about it. Would I stay then have no idea that is something until you are faced with it is hard to say.

But if I felt he deceived my trust and held back to tell me yeppiers I would indeed turn and walk away. One that will not be honest with you up front about such and issue will continue to be deceitful.
this is a good a honest answer, i agree

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 07/17/09 04:57 PM

were is compassion and understanding now days? not to mention both of yopu are in love. you cant just flip your emotions on and off like a switch. if you do you dont have true love


How do you have true love if one is not being totally honest with you in the first place and waits till they know you have fallen for them? Then tells you something they should have told you from the very moment they started dating you?


littleike's photo
Fri 07/17/09 04:58 PM


were is compassion and understanding now days? not to mention both of yopu are in love. you cant just flip your emotions on and off like a switch. if you do you dont have true love


Sure ya can:smile:
i cant or wont

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Fri 07/17/09 04:59 PM



were is compassion and understanding now days? not to mention both of yopu are in love. you cant just flip your emotions on and off like a switch. if you do you dont have true love


Sure ya can:smile:
i cant or wont
Love is like herpes.It comes and goesnoway

littleike's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:00 PM


were is compassion and understanding now days? not to mention both of yopu are in love. you cant just flip your emotions on and off like a switch. if you do you dont have true love


How do you have true love if one is not being totally honest with you in the first place and waits till they know you have fallen for them? Then tells you something they should have told you from the very moment they started dating you?


if there not being honest i agree its not true love then he deserves it. but i dont remember her saying he was dishonest, if he was then thats different

jaxx15's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:01 PM
I would invest in full body rubbers.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:03 PM



were is compassion and understanding now days? not to mention both of yopu are in love. you cant just flip your emotions on and off like a switch. if you do you dont have true love


How do you have true love if one is not being totally honest with you in the first place and waits till they know you have fallen for them? Then tells you something they should have told you from the very moment they started dating you?


if there not being honest i agree its not true love then he deserves it. but i dont remember her saying he was dishonest, if he was then thats different


The dishonesty comes in when they wait till you start fallen for them then tell them that is being dishonest.

no photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:03 PM

I would invest in full body rubbers.



Like a scuba suit? Hey! Just for sh1ts & giggles...would ya' wear the flippers, too? :wink: laugh

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:04 PM

Love is like herpes.It comes and goesnoway


News Flash for ya Love comes and goes but Herpes latches on and never leaves...........noway

jaxx15's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:05 PM


I would invest in full body rubbers.



Like a scuba suit? Hey! Just for sh1ts & giggles...would ya' wear the flippers, too? :wink: laugh


Yes and a snorkle

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:05 PM


I would invest in full body rubbers.



Like a scuba suit? Hey! Just for sh1ts & giggles...would ya' wear the flippers, too? :wink: laugh


Omg heheheh what a visual :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

littleike's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:07 PM




were is compassion and understanding now days? not to mention both of yopu are in love. you cant just flip your emotions on and off like a switch. if you do you dont have true love


How do you have true love if one is not being totally honest with you in the first place and waits till they know you have fallen for them? Then tells you something they should have told you from the very moment they started dating you?


if there not being honest i agree its not true love then he deserves it. but i dont remember her saying he was dishonest, if he was then thats different


The dishonesty comes in when they wait till you start fallen for them then tell them that is being dishonest.
i didnt know he waited to she fell for him. thats dishonest and in that case id leave solely on the dishonesty, not cause of the herpes but on the basis they cant grow on lies

littleike's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:08 PM


Love is like herpes.It comes and goesnoway


News Flash for ya Love comes and goes but Herpes latches on and never leaves...........noway
the flair ups come and go but the herpe is always lurkinglaugh laugh laugh happy

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:09 PM


Love is like herpes.It comes and goesnoway


News Flash for ya Love comes and goes but Herpes latches on and never leaves...........noway
You still love someone you are no longer with?I do

Winx's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:11 PM

you fell in love with someone - and you had not yet been intimate with them- and they told you they had genital herpes...what would you do???


I have two good friends that met their spouses when they had herpes.
My godchild did the same. They all have families now.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:12 PM



Love is like herpes.It comes and goesnoway


News Flash for ya Love comes and goes but Herpes latches on and never leaves...........noway
You still love someone you are no longer with?I do


I care for those that I'm no longer with but in no way am I in-love with them. When you care or love someone it is not the same as being in-love with them.

I would never want anything bad to happen to them and hope they are doing well. But I would never go back with them either.noway