Topic: ex loves
mcgilvrey21's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:02 PM







How do you have Sex?


either irrationally with everything you can get your hands on.
ORR
celibacy..
The only options untill you let go.


good answer...celibacy is usually the road that i wind up taking...by choice or not, lol...


Right! I have found myself in a similar boat lately...grumble


you guys are in the same boat and not doing it yet? whats wrong with you guys


maybe i have yet to turn her head my way, lol....


I'm guess she has the only life vest in that boat..LOL


HAHAHA yes..this boat IS getting pretty crowded...

bikerbabe63's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:05 PM




How do you have Sex?


either irrationally with everything you can get your hands on.
ORR
celibacy..
The only options untill you let go.


good answer...celibacy is usually the road that i wind up taking...by choice or not, lol...


Right! I have found myself in a similar boat lately...grumble
I hope its a big boat cause I'm on boardbrokenheart

mcgilvrey21's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:06 PM





How do you have Sex?


either irrationally with everything you can get your hands on.
ORR
celibacy..
The only options untill you let go.


good answer...celibacy is usually the road that i wind up taking...by choice or not, lol...


Right! I have found myself in a similar boat lately...grumble
I hope its a big boat cause I'm on boardbrokenheart



All aboard the SS Celibacy!!whoa

spacekase's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:08 PM
thers nothin wrong with not havin meaningless sex, especialy if ur tryin to heal.

Secret_Whispers's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:08 PM
Life is short! I need someone who's ready to move into a relationship with me. Forget the past. You can't live in the past and move forward, because there's too much baggage for you, you and who? I need someone who's interested in me. And you're a pretty girl so look elsewhere, cute guys are replying:wink:

mcgilvrey21's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:10 PM

Life is short! I need someone who's ready to move into a relationship with me. Forget the past. You can't live in the past and move forward, because there's too much baggage for you, you and who? I need someone who's interested in me. And you're a pretty girl so look elsewhere, cute guys are replying:wink:


who???

spacekase's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:13 PM
and if ur a emo wen it comes to sex its prob best not to get ur hopes up, or fake ur self out with a hook up. most the time (in my experience) sex killed wat ever could have been (good or bad), it still made things take a dif path.

74Drew's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:15 PM

Have you ever found yourself still in love with an ex and sabatoging your current relationships because of it?

yes to the first, no to the second.

nice pic, RKISIT.



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spacekase's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:16 PM
besides who wants a std. safe sex is only so safe.

74Drew's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:16 PM






How do you have Sex?


either irrationally with everything you can get your hands on.
ORR
celibacy..
The only options untill you let go.


good answer...celibacy is usually the road that i wind up taking...by choice or not, lol...


Right! I have found myself in a similar boat lately...grumble
I hope its a big boat cause I'm on boardbrokenheart



All aboard the SS Celibacy!!whoa

been captaining that ship for 15 years. can seem to find a port to dock my boat.



. . .

mcgilvrey21's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:19 PM







How do you have Sex?


either irrationally with everything you can get your hands on.
ORR
celibacy..
The only options untill you let go.


good answer...celibacy is usually the road that i wind up taking...by choice or not, lol...


Right! I have found myself in a similar boat lately...grumble
I hope its a big boat cause I'm on boardbrokenheart



All aboard the SS Celibacy!!whoa

been captaining that ship for 15 years. can seem to find a port to dock my boat.



. . .



rofl

spacekase's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:20 PM
as far as the past bein the past it is and should be just that, but it is the only thing set in stone, that wont change. and also the best way to pepair and learn from to make the future and present the best u can.

Secret_Whispers's photo
Wed 07/15/09 04:28 PM




we all carry emotional distress from our last failed relationship to the our new promising relationship. the trick is to not let the past disrupt our future. i know, easier said than done. to be honest, i think some form of everyone's ex plays a role in a new relationship. call it...learning from our mistakes. of course, like anything else...a person can go overboard with such emotions and let them run and ruin their lives...the key is moderation.
I agree. I think most everything in your past contribute to who you are now. What I don't understand people that self destruct current relationships for the sake of an old one they'll never get back.



two words.... " WHAT IF " the two biggest words in the English language...just simply, what might have been...
It should be WHAT IF I let my ex go and see if I can really be loved again.

no photo
Wed 07/15/09 10:15 PM

Have you ever found yourself still in love with an ex and sabatoging your current relationships because of it?


Nope on either account. Once they're an ex, they're an ex. I've never been one to try to hook back up with an ex unless there were extenuating circumstances behind said re-hook.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 07/15/09 10:17 PM

Have you ever found yourself still in love with an ex and sabatoging your current relationships because of it?


Once. I got into a new relationship too quickly after my daughter's mom left.

Lilypetal's photo
Wed 07/15/09 10:18 PM

Have you ever found yourself still in love with an ex and sabatoging your current relationships because of it?


After my fiance passed away, it took me 3 years to even think about having another relationship. And then a couple of attempts to not panic and kill a relationship before it even started.

Jill298's photo
Thu 07/16/09 07:11 AM


Have you ever found yourself still in love with an ex and sabatoging your current relationships because of it?


After my fiance passed away, it took me 3 years to even think about having another relationship. And then a couple of attempts to not panic and kill a relationship before it even started.
I'm so sorry u went thru that.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/16/09 07:15 AM
noway

Jill298's photo
Thu 07/16/09 08:17 AM
I hate people that play games. My bf / ex finally admitted to me he's still in love with his ex which is why we keep breaking up cuz he really just isn't over her.
She doesn't want him. If she did, they would be together. They're not.
So he keeps throwing our relationship away cuz she keeps fking with his head.
OMG it pisses me off.

snarkytwain's photo
Thu 07/16/09 08:24 AM
Edited by snarkytwain on Thu 07/16/09 08:30 AM
No, but I HAVE had a crush on a guy for years, had him date a bunch of girls, had him have a baby with one of them, had her fall in love with him, had them break up, had her become a GREAT friend of mine, and had her cry over a videotape of him with me... when I still had feelings for him, too. frown Sucks.