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Topic: ex loves
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Wed 07/15/09 03:02 PM
Have you ever found yourself still in love with an ex and sabatoging your current relationships because of it?

RKISIT's photo
Wed 07/15/09 03:03 PM

Have you ever found yourself still in love with an ex and sabatoging your current relationships because of it?
thats called rebounding:smile:

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Wed 07/15/09 03:04 PM

Have you ever found yourself still in love with an ex and sabatoging your current relationships because of it?


Nope gave him up 15 yrs ago,bye bye see ya!

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Wed 07/15/09 03:04 PM
Yes.And it's not fair to them.but yea i have.Now i miss the one i didn't give full attention to

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Wed 07/15/09 03:06 PM

Yes.And it's not fair to them.but yea i have.Now i miss the one i didn't give full attention to



so very true, my friend...

Jill298's photo
Wed 07/15/09 03:07 PM
I've always tried to make sure I let go of an ex before I move on to a new relationship. However, they haven't always let go of their ex. :angry:
That's what ended my relationship. He can't let go of his ex even tho she doesn't want to be with him anymore.

spacekase's photo
Wed 07/15/09 03:12 PM
i personly cant say that i dont love my exs, but most of them i realy could care less to have any contact with. but as much as i dont like them i will always have love for them, no matter the hate level, ther was some thing ther that wont go away.

iv been told that my exs have had a part in the deconstruction of a relationship, but im not so sher it was my fault they wer a prob as much as it was a threat or one up on the new girl.

if that made sence

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Wed 07/15/09 03:17 PM
Edited by Unknow on Wed 07/15/09 03:29 PM
Hell no. However, I have found, after two different break-ups, that the crappy way a relationship ended made me shy away from romance.

In other words, I was quick to find flaws with dates because I didn't really want to be anything other than single. In fact, that has been the case until recently.

Jill298's photo
Wed 07/15/09 03:18 PM
Edited by Jill298 on Wed 07/15/09 03:18 PM

Hell no. However, I have found, after two different break-ups, that the crappy way a relationship ended made me shy away from romance.

In other words, I was quick to find flaws with dates because I didn't really to be anything other than single. In fact, that has been the case until recently.
yep. That happened to. I get harshly judged over something minor because he's looking for flaws and a way out. Even if he doesn't realize he's doing it.

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Wed 07/15/09 03:19 PM
we all carry emotional distress from our last failed relationship to the our new promising relationship. the trick is to not let the past disrupt our future. i know, easier said than done. to be honest, i think some form of everyone's ex plays a role in a new relationship. call it...learning from our mistakes. of course, like anything else...a person can go overboard with such emotions and let them run and ruin their lives...the key is moderation.

Jill298's photo
Wed 07/15/09 03:21 PM

we all carry emotional distress from our last failed relationship to the our new promising relationship. the trick is to not let the past disrupt our future. i know, easier said than done. to be honest, i think some form of everyone's ex plays a role in a new relationship. call it...learning from our mistakes. of course, like anything else...a person can go overboard with such emotions and let them run and ruin their lives...the key is moderation.
I agree. I think most everything in your past contribute to who you are now. What I don't understand people that self destruct current relationships for the sake of an old one they'll never get back.

Onionkidpoe's photo
Wed 07/15/09 03:22 PM
Do we ever let go?

Jill298's photo
Wed 07/15/09 03:23 PM

Do we ever let go?
yes. you have to or you will never be happy.

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Wed 07/15/09 03:24 PM


we all carry emotional distress from our last failed relationship to the our new promising relationship. the trick is to not let the past disrupt our future. i know, easier said than done. to be honest, i think some form of everyone's ex plays a role in a new relationship. call it...learning from our mistakes. of course, like anything else...a person can go overboard with such emotions and let them run and ruin their lives...the key is moderation.
I agree. I think most everything in your past contribute to who you are now. What I don't understand people that self destruct current relationships for the sake of an old one they'll never get back.



two words.... " WHAT IF " the two biggest words in the English language...just simply, what might have been...

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Wed 07/15/09 03:24 PM
Edited by Riding_Dubz on Wed 07/15/09 03:25 PM


Yes.And it's not fair to them.but yea i have.Now i miss the one i didn't give full attention to



so very true, my friend...



$h!t makes 3 of us brokenheart

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Wed 07/15/09 03:24 PM
How do you have Sex?

mcgilvrey21's photo
Wed 07/15/09 03:25 PM
yep yep. its funny how when your in the relationship you can never see the end and once it happens you wish you had better prepared yourself for the pain.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 07/15/09 03:25 PM
No

I let go with kindness

I might have a wall up a little bit only because I'm scared

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Wed 07/15/09 03:26 PM

How do you have Sex?
With both handsofftopic

Jill298's photo
Wed 07/15/09 03:26 PM



we all carry emotional distress from our last failed relationship to the our new promising relationship. the trick is to not let the past disrupt our future. i know, easier said than done. to be honest, i think some form of everyone's ex plays a role in a new relationship. call it...learning from our mistakes. of course, like anything else...a person can go overboard with such emotions and let them run and ruin their lives...the key is moderation.
I agree. I think most everything in your past contribute to who you are now. What I don't understand people that self destruct current relationships for the sake of an old one they'll never get back.



two words.... " WHAT IF " the two biggest words in the English language...just simply, what might have been...
It should be WHAT IF I let my ex go and see if I can really be loved again.

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