Topic: 10 things that men think women like...
ablessedlady's photo
Mon 07/13/09 10:42 PM
biggrin :thumbsup: Good to see some Seinfeld folks on here. I don't miss a show and it is on here,3 times a night. Sometimes it is my medicene for physical or mental pain. Sorryofftopic but had to comment. Most people I talk too don't care for the show or never did.
Seeing Elaine at her office party again just now rofl Great!

krupa's photo
Mon 07/13/09 10:42 PM


1. Calling her very often

2.Crying.

3.A lot of PDA

4. Baby talk

5.Very accommodating

6.Being very close with your family and frineds

7.Grooming excessively

8.Professing love early on and often

9.Over dancing? haha!

10.Talking all the time.



Do you ladies like men to do any of the above? Do any men acutally do any of these things?

I personally find most items on that list to be rather annoying.



i don't do any of those thing....


Try it bro...sure as hell beats celibacy! (all those things are a list of what your right palm is jealous of)

Jtevans's photo
Mon 07/13/09 10:44 PM



1. Calling her very often

2.Crying.

3.A lot of PDA

4. Baby talk

5.Very accommodating

6.Being very close with your family and frineds

7.Grooming excessively

8.Professing love early on and often

9.Over dancing? haha!

10.Talking all the time.



Do you ladies like men to do any of the above? Do any men acutally do any of these things?

I personally find most items on that list to be rather annoying.



i don't do any of those thing....


Try it bro...sure as hell beats celibacy! (all those things are a list of what your right palm is jealous of)



i haven't done any of those things and my right hand hasn't wanted to leave me yet smokin

krupa's photo
Mon 07/13/09 10:47 PM

i haven't done any of those things and my right hand hasn't wanted to leave me yet smokin


Yep, the loyalty of a palm or a dog is never in question..strange how it ain't the same with women.

74Drew's photo
Mon 07/13/09 10:56 PM

1. Calling her very often

2.Crying.

3.A lot of PDA

4. Baby talk

5.Very accommodating

6.Being very close with your family and frineds

7.Grooming excessively

8.Professing love early on and often

9.Over dancing? haha!

10.Talking all the time.



Do you ladies like men to do any of the above? Do any men acutally do any of these things?

I personally find most items on that list to be rather annoying.

i do 5 and 6 and have been known in the past to do 8.

in the past anyway.

otherwise i don't do the rest.


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Rasmus916's photo
Mon 07/13/09 11:05 PM
1. Calling her very often
Well considering I hate talking on the phone, usually I just text and head over if she isn't busy.

2.Crying.
What's that?

3.A lot of PDA
Eh, depends on the moment, I guess you can call me guilty of that.

4. Baby talk
I think I got out of that habit somewhere around the age of 5? I don't remember, too much alcohol ago.

5.Very accommodating
LOL I would love to see a guy who wasn't when they were with a girl they truly were attracted to, or had feelings for.

6.Being very close with your family and frineds
Being close to MY family and friends, well, if she tries to draw that line, ill at least give her bus fare home. Being close to HER friends and family, I have never got that one, but if someone wanted to be a close friend, I can't see myself saying, "I'm sorry, you are her friend, I need to go now."

7.Grooming excessively
LOL if she is willing to look her best for me, I am going to look my best for her, if she comes out in a pair of dirty old jeans and a T-shirt, be ready for me to match that.

8.Professing love early on and often
I don't say it, will never say that phrase until I know those feelings are true. (yes I have been in love, and no, i'm not going mushy, just learned my lesson :P)

9.Over dancing? haha!
Good thing I don't dance! I was gifted with the ability to pick up any random instrument and make music come out of it!

10.Talking all the time.
Well, I think I am guilty there, unless I truly am feeling uncompfortable, then I just kinda keep quiet and too myself till its time to go.

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Mon 07/13/09 11:11 PM

1. Calling her very often
Well considering I hate talking on the phone, usually I just text and head over if she isn't busy.

2.Crying.
What's that?

3.A lot of PDA
Eh, depends on the moment, I guess you can call me guilty of that.

4. Baby talk
I think I got out of that habit somewhere around the age of 5? I don't remember, too much alcohol ago.

5.Very accommodating
LOL I would love to see a guy who wasn't when they were with a girl they truly were attracted to, or had feelings for.

6.Being very close with your family and frineds
Being close to MY family and friends, well, if she tries to draw that line, ill at least give her bus fare home. Being close to HER friends and family, I have never got that one, but if someone wanted to be a close friend, I can't see myself saying, "I'm sorry, you are her friend, I need to go now."

7.Grooming excessively
LOL if she is willing to look her best for me, I am going to look my best for her, if she comes out in a pair of dirty old jeans and a T-shirt, be ready for me to match that.

8.Professing love early on and often
I don't say it, will never say that phrase until I know those feelings are true. (yes I have been in love, and no, i'm not going mushy, just learned my lesson :P)

9.Over dancing? haha!
Good thing I don't dance! I was gifted with the ability to pick up any random instrument and make music come out of it!

10.Talking all the time.
Well, I think I am guilty there, unless I truly am feeling uncompfortable, then I just kinda keep quiet and too myself till its time to go.


Just curious, were you aware there's a Finnish band 'The Rasmus'?

Rasmus916's photo
Mon 07/13/09 11:14 PM
THIEVES! THEY STOLE MY NAME!

Auctually had no clue, it's my online alias nothing more :)

AndyBgood's photo
Mon 07/13/09 11:33 PM
To answer you from a male point of view... At least MY Male point of view...

1. Calling her very often

**Please! Girl's got a life too. That is annoying to me and I bet it is annoying to a lot of women as well. I will not do to those I would not do to myself.
It is also a sign of control hungry FREAKS!!!scared


2.Crying.

**Once upon a time yes but these days? Why lie? There was **** in my life that brought me to tears. That which didn't kill me made me stronger! Crying is for (Explative)!
Women that cry a lot? it gets excessive quick and they are usually the ones stirring **** up for the sake of drama anyways.

3.A lot of PDA

**?surprised ? PD What???? Parenteral Drug Association (PDA)??????
Progressive Democratic Alliance???? (Oh Canada!) Perverted Demented A@@Hole????????????? That semi computer thingy that many yuppies like to carry around? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...huh

4. Baby talk

**Again, surprised
noway It bugs me to no end...


5.Very accommodating

**Only when people want something from ya... There is hospitality and there is kissing ***. I don't kiss *** and don't expect mine kissed!


6.Being very close with your family and frineds

**Depends! If she is the one who is going to become family then I have no issue but that privilege comes with time!


7.Grooming excessively

**Some one needs to see a councilor. Obsessive Disorder time! It always pissed me off to run late because a GF could not make up her mind what to wear and how to do her makeup.

Likewise I bet there are things men do that just down right scorch women. Hair in the sink from shaving perhaps??? How about wet towels on the floor?

8.Professing love early on and often

**That one is a huge HUGE turn off! Women doing that to me sure put me off badly! I bet there are a lot of women who have red flags go up when men do that unless they are (the men) extremely rich and then they think Jackpot except the few that really do say "EWWWWWWWWWWWW! GROSS!"


9.Over dancing? haha!

**Well, DUH! There has to be time for Amore! Viva Amore!


10.Talking all the time.

**I bother people when I do it and it can bother me too. There is a time for talk and a time for action. Sometimes it is just best to be in each others company and not say a word. Sometimes it is just best to do your own thing for a while because people need time apart from each other to appreciate the time they do have together!!!



Do you ladies like men to do any of the above? Do any men actually do any of these things?

**All men go through these phases and some of them we grow out of and others don't. Whatever makes you 'warm and fuzzy' inside you know...

Likewise I can say much the same about these traits in women. So how do any of us find common ground????

Jtevans's photo
Mon 07/13/09 11:35 PM
Edited by Jtevans on Mon 07/13/09 11:35 PM


i haven't done any of those things and my right hand hasn't wanted to leave me yet smokin


Yep, the loyalty of a palm or a dog is never in question..strange how it ain't the same with women.



i've gotta agree with ya on that Krup!

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Mon 07/13/09 11:36 PM

THIEVES! THEY STOLE MY NAME!

Auctually had no clue, it's my online alias nothing more :)


Yeah! Those crafty Finnish!! winking

Rasmus916's photo
Mon 07/13/09 11:42 PM
Edited by Rasmus916 on Mon 07/13/09 11:47 PM


THIEVES! THEY STOLE MY NAME!

Auctually had no clue, it's my online alias nothing more :)


Yeah! Those crafty Finnish!! winking


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lh_h-KdbBrE

crafty AND just wiered, at least they know how to steal my online alias AND steal a great cover I did years ago.

*edit* Meh, I linked the wrong version, but the way they play it is almost identical to one I did way back in high school :)

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Tue 07/14/09 04:27 AM
My list of 10 things is

1- Listen be attentive

2- open up tell the truth

3- being romantic all the time not just on special occasions

4- remember the important moments (helps when you listen)

5- being funny and serious, know when to be one or the other

6- being interested in all her activities (don't have to like them all but show interest)

7- share your interests with her

8- being her friend her confident not only her lover

9- being respectful

10- never say no when she wants to and never expect a yes, wait for it.


Just a couple of things from my book.



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Tue 07/14/09 04:54 AM
My "fyi" to the ORIGINAL TOP 10 LIST drinker
1. Calling her very often

Ya, know why we do that? Cuz you want us to bigsmile If we don't? You freak out. Oh and IF YOU DO NOT PERSONALLY? Too bad because your female pals out there done screwed it up for ya bigsmile

2.Crying.

You love to cry when you control when you cry bigsmile Not when we make you cry bigsmile See that is the misconception about women. THEY ALWAYS CRY. However, the tears are not ALWAYS real

3.A lot of PDA

PDA = GIVE ME ATTENTION AND NOT HER!

4. Baby talk

ANY man who talks baby talk...should be SHOT However, men...do not talk like that because we enjoy it. We do it because it makes things easier. Because when we "talk in babytalk" there are no chances of you getting upset bigsmile



And ya know what???

I'm done with 4. Bc this is stupid

snarkytwain's photo
Tue 07/14/09 04:55 AM
laugh

That's all I got.

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Thu 07/16/09 10:18 PM


1. Calling her very often

2.Crying.

3.A lot of PDA

4. Baby talk

5.Very accommodating

6.Being very close with your family and frineds

7.Grooming excessively

8.Professing love early on and often

9.Over dancing? haha!

10.Talking all the time.



Do you ladies like men to do any of the above? Do any men acutally do any of these things?

I personally find most items on that list to be rather annoying.


My current boyfriend and I fell for one another VERY quickly. He calls me at least twice a day just to see how I'm doing, say "hi" and just steal a few moments for ourselves (We're both very busy). I consider it a great thing. PDA....the more the better! If I could, I would drag him behind a tree and have my way with him! Of course that's me and not so much him. I can't imagine what's wrong with telling someone you love that you love them. I find that to be neutral ground, people are entitled to their feelings and if he wants to tell me the moon and sun are hung in my honor every five minutes, so be it. I guess what it boils down to is the fact that we all like different things.


Glad to see you found someone. Hope it all goes good for you.

earthytaurus76's photo
Thu 07/16/09 10:31 PM
1. Calling her very often: I dont care if he calls for a week.

2.Crying: O jeez, I dont need drama, or crisis. UNSTAABLLEEEE

3.A lot of PDA: I dont need a lot, or ever, sometimes its sexy.

4. Baby talk: I dont mind baby talk, but sincerely not required.

5.Very accommodating: Whatever, like what bills? I dont need a father figure.

6.Being very close with your family and frineds: I dont care whos he close to. Knowing he doesnt have a problem with everyone in his life is a good thing.

7.Grooming excessively: ahh Im not interested in a fem gay man.

8.Professing love early on and often: That makes me go away.

9.Over dancing? haha!: Id prefer a man who doesnt dance, also kinda fem.

10.Talking all the time: I dont wanna hear MY OWN voice all of the time. NO thanks. As long as hes not unconfortably quiet, and knows how to communicate effectively, im good.

I dont know who they were interviewing, or what age range, that probaly makes all the difference. Its like those cosopolitan quizzes, for young girls to hassle their boyfriends with.

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Thu 07/16/09 10:39 PM

1. Calling her very often

2.Crying.

3.A lot of PDA

4. Baby talk

5.Very accommodating

6.Being very close with your family and frineds

7.Grooming excessively

8.Professing love early on and often

9.Over dancing? haha!

10.Talking all the time.



Do you ladies like men to do any of the above? Do any men acutally do any of these things?

I personally find most items on that list to be rather annoying.
1. I like a happy medium. Too much makes me want to shove that phone up their butt.

2. Crying has a time and a place.....like funerals.

3.Alot of pda? I like some but dont over do it, like groping me at the church picnic haha in front of father Mckay???

4. Baby talk? Ewwwwwwwwww shaddddddddddap before I kick you!!!

5.Very accomodating.....I will take this for $500 alex!!

6. Ok, you can be close to my family but when they love you instead of me then we have a problem.

7. Grooming excessively?? Thats my job.....now get out of my mirror!!!

8.professing love early on???? Hmmmmmmmm I dont think we would have made it past the first month eh?

9. Over dancing? what the hell is that??? Ive never had a bf who ever danced. Too cool........geeeeeez!!!!

10. Talking all the time......I dont mind talkers but if they are b*tching at me they better watch out.

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 07/16/09 10:43 PM

1. Calling her very often

2.Crying.

3.A lot of PDA

4. Baby talk

5.Very accommodating

6.Being very close with your family and frineds

7.Grooming excessively

8.Professing love early on and often

9.Over dancing? haha!

10.Talking all the time.



Do you ladies like men to do any of the above? Do any men acutally do any of these things?

I personally find most items on that list to be rather annoying.



4. wait, men do that!? huh

EquusDancer's photo
Fri 07/17/09 09:51 AM

i'm more likely to text than call and that's only if i actually have something worth saying.

i meet my parents for dinner most sundays. idk if that's "too close" to family or not.




I prefer text to phone. I am usually to busy to answer and get tired of the pissyness left by guys on the phone's VM. Shakes head.

No vortec, that's cool!